Wen | snow fell without dust
When the actor Wang Xun first debuted, he had neither money nor good looks, but he was sincere and was favored by the young and beautiful lawyer Wei Zhen.
Wei Zhen's parents did not agree to this marriage, but Wei Zhen herself was obsessed, and she thought that Wang Xun was down-to-earth and honest and would bring happiness to herself.
At that time, Wei Zhen was a lawyer, had his own law firm, earned more money than Wang Xun, and "raised" Wang Xun for ten years after marriage, but Wei Zhen's parents have not been optimistic about Wang Xun.
Ten years after marriage, Wang Xun's career suddenly improved, and he turned purple in an instant. Wei Zhen was very happy, thinking that he had not made a mistake, and his parents should be relieved.
It is said that men become bad when they have money, but they did not expect that after Wang Xun became popular, he fought with a woman named Wang Yizi.
Wei Zhen can be said to have worked hard for Wang Xun, and when Wang Xun was at his lowest point, it was Wei Zhen who helped him. However, Wang Xun, who should have been grateful to his wife, did a shameful act - betrayal.
Later, Wei Zhen died depressed and left this world in grief and anger. I thought that my kindness could be exchanged for happiness, but I pushed myself into the abyss of eternal doom.
In a woman's life, only by finding a reliable man will she be happy. But knowing the face does not know the heart, looking at a person, not only look at the surface, but to look at his heart, to see whether he has a sense of responsibility.
Men who will not let you be wronged after marriage, usually have one, do not let go when encountered.
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Reliable men, know how to cherish you
A man who truly loves you must know how to cherish you, only if he cherishes you, the next life will be better.
Men who know how to cherish women, generally speaking, the quality will not be bad, such men are often more reliable and more practical.
I often hear people say: "When getting along with reliable people, everything has an explanation, every piece has a fall, and everything has an echo." "The same is true in the relationship, only when a woman finds a reliable man, she will be happy for a lifetime."
In "The First Half of My Life", Chen Junsheng seems to be reliable, but in fact, he is unreliable; only congratulatory letters, responsible, capable, worthy of women's dependence and trust.
The congratulatory letter can be said to be a model of a good man, who has been constantly learning and growing, even if there is a contradiction, he will learn to understand each other and communicate well.
He can be responsive, and when you need his help, he will appear in front of you at the first time.
Once, Luo Zijun was unwilling to accept the unspoken rules of the workplace, and was driven off by the leader in the middle of the outing. It was raining heavily outside and it was remote and there were no cars to sit on at all.
At this time, Luo Zijun asked for help, and then the mobile phone ran out of power, but the congratulatory letter still found Luo Zijun in the heavy rain.
At that moment, Luo Zijun almost collapsed, and she knew that only He Han cherished her existence the most in her heart.
If a relationship wants to be maintained, it must be indispensable to cherish each other. If you don't cherish it, even if you have more love, it will eventually drift away.
A man who knows how to cherish you will not easily snub you. Even if the whole world ignores you, you are still a unique existence in his eyes.
As Haruki Murakami said, "In short, the years are long, but it is worth waiting, and eventually someone will hold you on the tip of their hearts and like you like a fool." ”
Reliable men, women who know how to cherish themselves. Because in this world, only she will share the joys and sorrows with you, and will not give up.
Love is the most affectionate confession, is a long stream of hands to live a life, even if the coarse tea and light rice, as long as you cherish me, it is a beautiful year.
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Reliable men, understand your efforts
In a relationship, if the man really loves you, he will recognize your efforts. He won't turn a blind eye, but he will hurt you.
Hornie, a gender expert, said: "When one person loves another person, it is actually obvious. They want to express their love, they want each other to know their love. So, they will try to be nice to each other. ”
Love a woman, even if the woman does not give, men will be good to her. If a woman pays for love, it will make men full of joy.
Just two years after her cousin's marriage, her cousin's husband was disabled due to a work injury and could only recuperate at home and take care of housework.
In order to live, the cousin took on the burden of life. She started a restaurant, but the restaurant was sluggish. Later, he learned to repair home appliances on his own, but he did not earn much and could not maintain the family's livelihood.
After repeated failures, the cousin was not discouraged and finally made achievements in the field of clothing. The money earned each year is enough for the whole family to live, and there will be a surplus.
Others say that her cousin is a strong woman, but she herself said that along the way, it was her cousin's husband who supported her behind her back, including how to negotiate with customers, and it was the cousin's husband who drafted her at home.
After the cousin came home, he didn't have to do anything, the laundry and cooking were all done by the cousin's husband, and he was very distressed that his cousin was running outside for business.
In fact, no woman likes to be strong, but she is forced by life.
What women really hope is that their efforts can be recognized by their husbands. What a woman really wants is nothing more than that you "throw a peach at her in love and repay her with a lee".
Zhang Xiaoxian once said: "Embracing a man who loves to cook rice is to get a real long-term meal ticket." ”
A man feels sorry for a woman, can wash his clothes, can go to the kitchen for him, is willing to take on everything for her, and gives a woman the warmest life, the happiest time.
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Reliable men, respect your ideas
Mu Xin has a small poem: "Once upon a time the sun became slow, the cars, horses, and mail were slow, and there was only enough to love one person in a lifetime." ”
Today's society is complex, but the more complex the society, the simpler the feelings. The simplest in the world is often the most sincere.
Carrying a hand with one person, from youth to twilight, is the wish of many people. However, love is not a matter of one person's final say, and two people need to tolerate each other and understand each other.
There is often one of the easiest ways in perfect love, which is that men respect women's ideas. This point is vividly expressed in the host Kang Hui.
In "Hello Life", the program team asked Kang Hui to call his lover and say "I love you", and Kang Hui said to seek his lover's opinion.
A guest next to her said that her opinion was not important, but Kang Hui said very seriously: "Her opinion is very important." He said that respecting the opinions of lovers is the secret of their feelings for decades.
Philom said: "Love is not just a feeling, but also a judgment, a decision, a commitment. ”
Love is mutual, and it is necessary to understand and tolerate each other and see problems from each other's point of view. If a man lives with you and encounters problems but doesn't care what you think, then it only means that he doesn't love you that much.
Loving someone is like cooking, the ingredients of each dish are different, if you want the dish to be delicious, you have to consider giving different spices to each dish.
Feelings are the same, if you want to be happy and complete, you must learn to consider the problem from the perspective of the other party, adopt the opinions of the other party, and the life will be comfortable.
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Men are reliable, women will be happy
Men have this characteristic, be sure to firmly grasp, he is the one who can accompany you for a lifetime.
Getting married and living is a lifelong event for every woman, and it is related to her own happiness for a lifetime, so we must find a reliable man to accompany her for a lifetime.
Reliable men, know how to cherish you, because he knows that love, fate is not easy to come by;
Reliable men, understand your efforts, because he knows that any love needs to "return the favor";
Reliable man, respect your ideas, because he knows that you are the supporter of his career success.
Women's happiness depends on their own earnings, and only by finding a reliable and good man can they be happy in the second half of their lives.