Interpretation of emotional topics, taking you into more positive emotional worlds! I am your emotional relief, but you have to know how to let yourself go!
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It's really hard for people to live for a lifetime!
Perhaps, before the end of life, just say the topic of "a lifetime", the words are too heavy!
However, when people are in a low period, it is not like they are about to close their eyes, have no interest in the world, and have no enthusiasm and interest in all that they once wanted to love and want!
Time is fast, year after year, I don't know how many people are sad, crying at the same frequency at a certain time node, and even think of "a hundred"!
In fact, when I was in a low mood, I really thought about it for a hundred, and then...
Later, I found that there will always be a group of people, at a certain point in time, in the same state to accompany each other!
When you are lonely, you are not alone;
When you are sad, you are not alone;
When I cry, I am not alone;
Even if you have lost love, there are people in another corner, and they bear it with themselves!
It's just that people are only willing to stand in their own perception to experience their own sorrows and joys, and as for others, love can't help!
After all, the joys and sorrows between people are never connected!
Without experiencing the experience of others, without experiencing the stories of others, the sorrows and joys of others, I can never truly understand and understand!
Not long ago, when I was having dinner with my junior high school classmates, I was asked by my classmates: When I was in school, why did I never see you at noon?
I said: I'm all home for lunch!
The classmate asked again: Why? I remember you didn't ride your bike to school, a dozen miles back and forth, why didn't you buy food at school?
I said: At that time, my family was poor, and my brothers and sisters did not have pocket money!
The students were surprised! Because, at that time, most of the families were already well-off. Neither he nor they could understand that the dozen miles of dirt roads back and forth between home and school were just for lunch!
They, they don't understand, eight cents a bag of instant noodles, a dollar a bag of bread, a five-dollar box lunch, why can't I afford to eat!
Even, in their conception, think that my parents disciplined us too strictly!
Yes, our parents disciplined us too strictly, and they still gave us the habit of not spending money until now! Because, we, are really from the poor days that others do not know, some unnecessary consumption, we are used to avoid!
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Some people, because they have not experienced the experience of others, will feel that some people's vulnerability, insecurity, helplessness, and confusion are all fussy.
In fact, when people are alive, they probably don't have to show all the shadows of their hearts except the sun to others!
Because, when you are not understood, it is easy to cause yourself to be injured twice!
Therefore, we often say that if you want to vent, you must choose the right place and the right object!
Earlier, a reader said to me:
I used to talk to my cat when I was most stressed! I thank my cat for spending so many sad days with me!
Yes, now more and more people are willing to raise cats to heal themselves, and they would rather let cats accompany them than confess the various traumas in their hearts to people!
Many times, what others think is nothing, in fact, it is unbearable in their own hearts!
I don't know why, unfortunately with its inherent attraction! Many times, once something goes wrong, it seems that it will attract all kinds of unhappy things to visit together...
So, crying, breaking down, being helpless, never just because of one thing...
The grievances that can be said are not grievances, the sorrows that can be expressed are never sorrows, and the misfortunes that can be exposed are never unfortunate!
A man, the greatest despair, hiding in the tears of a broken pillow towel in the middle of the night! Hidden in the ice cubes of dawn coming, covering the eyes... Then, pretend to be indifferent and continue to walk on the road of survival!
In a short video, the old mother who collected the waste product walked into the high-end community and was stopped by people who were too "influential"! The old lady said that someone let her come over and wait for the carton, but in the end she was ruthlessly pushed away...
If life hadn't had to be so hard, that age would have been a hedonistic year for spending time in the old age and dancing in the park!
Takeaway, we all thought it was a little brother, but when I just took the meal, I saw a middle-aged big sister. It was already cold for three or nine days in the northeast, but the eldest sister was running sweaty...
If it is not forced by life, who can be willing to make a "living map" and be urged to feel hot for three or nine days?
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I once thought that the person who lost his deep love was the obstacle that life could no longer exaggerate, but later learned that human suffering was never just love, but survival in the face of many pressures!
However, in the face of experience, after comparison, I understand that the original pressure is a thing with no upper limit, as long as you insist on bearing, you can survive!
A hundred years of life is a process of continuous experience, continuous growth, and continuous self-enrichment of life!
It doesn't matter who you are, how old you are, or what you've been through! What matters is who you see yourself, what role you are in the moment, and what kind of mentality you face the experience!
Live, be born, live! Although a hundred years of loneliness is life, red dust comes and goes in an empty space, this process of living is too difficult! But so what?
All the sudden changes, no matter how you used to be, how it just passes you, the more you fear it, the more proud you are!
It's easy to get a hundred, I'm afraid to carry too many regrets a hundred! Isn't it too much of a regret that people are alive? With regrets but a residual life, how can life be the end?
Although, I don't believe in past and present lives, but if there is, what will you do then?
Life cannot be repeated, if there is a cycle of life, do you still have to start another journey with regrets? Don't!
Live this life well, live well in the present!
Everything will really pass! Don't you believe that the things you used to think you couldn't survive have all passed?
As long as you are alive, everything will have a chance!
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Encountered a terrible past, it's okay! You still have a future!
Love the wrong person is not afraid, there are right people, even if you have not waited for the right person, you can also live well because of the abundance of your own life!
It's okay to do something wrong, there's still a chance to fix it or make it up from somewhere else! Even if everything becomes a foregone conclusion, but to go all out is a consummation without regrets and shame!
The suffering in front of you, although you don't like to reject each other, but when you are powerless to resist, you get used to it!
Sometimes, when you can't do anything about it, learn to admit it! Then, in the days of confession, turn yourself into a stronger person, because no one in your life can carry the weight for you!
The losses and misses of the past, as long as you don't let that experience play out again, you win, don't you?
Yes, many people are afraid of their experiences and have thought about a hundred, but those who can survive hardships have ushered in the spring of their lives!
In fact, it is not easy for everyone! We can't aspire to who feels empathy for us, just as we can't empathize with others!
Many times, we think that we feel empathy for others, but we just overestimate our own empathy!
The days are fast, the cold winter has quietly passed most of the time, and spring is coming!
I hope that you, me, and he can turn the previous idea of "a hundred" into the motivation to plan yourself, shake hands with yourself on the most difficult days, cross all the mud with yourself, always encourage and cheer for yourself, and smile at yourself when the spring flowers are full!
May we spend the rest of our lives:
All the tears, because of the joy of the cry! May we all be able to be on our own life journey, not dependent, not dependent, to be a really powerful person, out of their own wonderful!
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