We all know that marriage is a responsibility, and without the courage to take it, we are not qualified to talk about marriage. But everyone understands the big truth, when it comes to marriage, there are many people who will quarrel because of the trivialities of life, no wonder some people will say that marriage is because they do not understand and are combined, because they understand and are separated.
But two divorced people, it is impossible to die and not to interact with each other, there are many people involved in the child has to be inextricably linked with the ex, and even after the death of the ex, in order to help the child fight for rights, they will once again be involved in the ex-husband's inheritance dispute.
First, the mother pays for the maintenance of her son and embarks on a long road of rights protection
Cheng Haiyan, 52, and her ex-husband Li Tao divorced in 2006, which stipulated that her ex-husband would give Cheng Haiyan his own population grain field as maintenance for her son Li Long, but this agreement was never enforced, until her ex-husband died, Haiyan's demand for ration fields became another problem, and she embarked on a long road of rights protection with a divorce agreement.
In order to return to the land Haiyan on the road of rights protection for 9 years, the hardships and ups and downs of which only she can experience, now Haiyan has remarried, her husband is a driver, she is also very good to her, the couple's life is also very happy, she and the original Li Tao's son Li Long is 25 years old, working in the local area, has a stable income, and she runs around for half a life, now it is time to enjoy the blessings, why after many years, she still has to go back to the old road, once again involved in the ex-husband's inheritance dispute?
It turned out that Haiyan's son Li Long had a serious heart attack before they divorced, every year his son had to spend thousands of dollars to see a doctor, the weather changed slightly, the child had a high fever, in order to take care of his son, Haiyan could not find heavy work, nor could he find a night shift job, let alone find a long job, so he earned very little money. At that time, she cleaned at school, earned more than 500 yuan a month, and borrowed money to see her children every month.
As early as 1999, Haiyan could not stand Li Tao's domestic violence and his indifference to his children and had proposed a divorce to her husband, Li Tao said to her: "Divorce, divorce I will kill you, I will kill your relatives", and then there was really no way, she chose to take her son away from home.
Haiyan has a strong spirit in her bones that does not succumb to fate, no matter how difficult she is, she is not willing to give up her children, during that time she worked around, while taking Li Long to treat her illness, the separation life lasted for seven years before the two sides formally signed a divorce agreement. But when the divorce agreement was signed, Haiyan could no longer find her ex-husband.
The divorce agreement between the two stated that the ex-husband's ration field was used as the maintenance fee for his son Li Long, but after so many years, the ex-husband had contracted the land to others, so Haiyan sued her ex-husband in court in 2006, but the result haiyan lost the case, and the judgment wrote: The evidence provided by Li Tao included the witness testimony of the land contractor Li and the former village chief of Xinhua Village, the village accountant, the neighbor and others, confirming that Haiyan had informed consent to his lease of land and obtained part of the lease payment, and the two parties did not separate at this time. These are the exact opposites of what Haiyan said.
Although Haiyan insisted that their husband and wife relationship had long since ceased to exist in name only, and that the land proceeds themselves had not been taken in any way, the lawyer believed that the court's judgment was fair and reasonable, and according to the provisions of the Land Contract Management Law, the owner of the land contract management right could lease, transfer, exchange and transfer the land, because the two did not divorce at that time, they were in the marriage relationship, and there was also evidence that the two were living together, and under this premise, the man's subcontract for the land was valid.
Second, the inheritance identity was questioned, and the man scolded her: a face of horizontal flesh, not an ordinary person
The child was sick and tugged at the mother's heart, and when the child was twelve or thirteen years old, the child's body suddenly became fat, like a small landlord, because obesity oppressed the heart. The child was sick in class that day, and the teacher called to tell her that the hospital required surgery or the child would die.
In April 2009, with the help of well-wishers, 12-year-old Li Long successfully completed the operation, watching the child get better day by day, Haiyan felt very relieved, she seemed to have a lot of contempt for the past grievances, and did not look for an ex-husband until 2012, she heard the news of Li Tao's death from her good friend. According to the law, Li Long had the right to inherit his father's land, so Haiyan had the idea of claiming land ownership.
Haiyan went to her sister-in-law to ask for land, but her ex-husband's brother-in-law told her that the money Li Tao owed him before he died wanted to compensate him with these lands, which made her unable to believe it. Because the ex-husband has been working outside the home for more than ten years and has never paid child support for his son, how can he owe money to his brother-in-law?
Under the leadership of Haiyan, they found the home of Li Tao's sister Li Fang, Li Fang was not at home, the man sitting on the kang was her husband Li Xiang, after Haiyan explained his intentions, the other party questioned the identity of Li Long's heir, saying that he was not surnamed Li.
Originally, after Cheng Haiyan and Li Tao divorced, Li Long took his mother's surname, and now he is called Cheng Long, which became the reason for Li Xiang's refusal, and Li Xiang asked back, "Do father and son have two surnames?" Subsequently, Li Xiang questioned Li Long's identity on the grounds that the two sides did not do DNA.
Haiyan was very angry when she heard this, her son was indeed Li Long's, and now for this reason, her brother-in-law actually treated her like this. She also explained in a bad tone that when the child went to school, she gave the child a place in her name, and then changed her surname.
Li Xiang was a little unhappy to see that Haiyan was emotionally excited, he scolded Haiyan for not speaking human words, and personally attacked her: "She has a face of horizontal flesh, not an ordinary person", which was countered by Haiyan: "I can't say that we two have a face of horizontal flesh."
Cheng Haiyan patiently explained Li Long's helplessness in changing his name to Cheng Long, in fact, whether it was Li Long or Cheng Long, the surname did not affect the legal father-son relationship between him and Li Tao, and it was legal and reasonable for the son to inherit his father's land. But Li Xiang said that he wanted to use these lands to grow back his own expenses.
Third, no one dared to contract the expired land, and there was another hidden plot
It turned out that after Haiyan and her ex-husband divorced, Li Tao went to Harbin alone, and died of illness there, as a relative, he came forward to take care of Li Tao's aftermath, whether it was to see a doctor or bring Back Li Tao from Harbin, he spent more than 10,000 yuan, so he had to use land to compensate for his own more than 10,000 yuan.
When the mediator asked him to provide proof of cost, Li Xiang said that Li Tao was a sister, and when he died, I wanted what bills, and the mediator asked him to go to the hospital to adjust the bills, but he said, "I have time, so busy, and I don't understand."
Li Xiang could not provide bills for Li Tao's hospitalization expenses and funeral expenses, and it was impossible to verify the fact that Li Tao owed money. Haiyan said that three or four years ago, she also came to Ask Li Xiang for Li Tao's land, but Li Xiang said that she would give it to her when it was due. And Li Tao's 1.9 acres of land is close to two thousand yuan a year, and now he has planted it for eight years, and sixteen thousand yuan has been there, but Li Xiang said that he has not planted enough.
The 30-year cycle of rural land ownership is not immediate return, but until the expiration of the land in 2027, Cheng Haiyan does not accept this solution. She said that last winter she talked to Li Xiang about giving him 1,000 yuan per acre of land, but three or four days later Li Xiang told him not to plant. She found several people to pack the land, and the other party told her that you can't go out of the land, because Li Xiang has let go, and no one can plant this land.
Li Xiang denied that he did not plant others or cultivate land, and the reason for this was that Haiyan had said to him, I will not bring you a bag when I throw it away, and I will not worry about my land in the future. So he didn't want to take care of the file anymore.
Cheng Haiyan was impatient, in order to help her solve the problem, the mediator found Han Bo, the secretary of Xinhua Village, to help the two families coordinate, and the secretary said that there is no shortage of land in the countryside now, because Li Tao's land is not together, so no one is planting. The secretary said that Li Xiang actually helped Li Long a lot, after all, he took care of Li Tao's aftermath, which Haiyan should make the child grateful, and the previous things let it pass. Hearing this, Haiyan hurriedly apologized to her brother-in-law.
Li Xiang also understands Haiyan's mood, the child has a heart attack, she alone has suffered a lot, but the matter is over, the reason is the matter, mainly Haiyan's speech makes his heart unbalanced, which arouses his stubborn temper. In the end, Li Xiang contracted it for 800 yuan per mu of land, the contract period was seven years, and it ended on December 31, 2027, and Li Xiang transferred the money to Haiyan on the spot.
epilogue:
Quarrel, quarrel, after all, was once a family, there is no grudge can not be resolved, sincere communication, open-minded tolerance, the contradiction will disappear, in the witness of everyone, see Haiyan and Li Xiang after a year, once again on the land contract years, price and other issues to discuss, and finally reached an agreement. It also allowed Haiyan to put down a big stone pressed in his heart, and we hope that when the two sides solve the problem of litao's land inheritance, they can understand each other, and explain the law and reason.
To say that Haiyan these years are indeed not easy, in order to no longer endure her husband's domestic violence and inaction, she left home alone with a sick child, as a mother she is a competent mother, she understands her responsibility, does not abandon her son, in order to treat the child, but also to create a good environment for the child, she would rather run away from home and live separately from her husband for seven years, a person to work to take care of the sick son, this selfless maternal love is worthy of respect.
Haiyan is a very individual woman, she has her own persistence and persistence, for the child's maintenance, she has been defending her rights for so many years is to fight for the rights and interests that should belong to him, in her there is a tenacity that never gives up, the three views are very positive, is a very assertive, dare to say dare to do, independent and strong a woman.
There are many women who dare to be angry in the face of domestic violence, but choose to live in humiliation, such people can only be suppressed and destroyed, and Cheng Haiyan does not accept her husband's domestic violence, in order to live with dignity. In the face of her brother-in-law's repeated questioning and difficulties, she has repeatedly come to the door to communicate and solve problems for her son, and it is really a blessing for the child to have such a responsible and responsible mother, but unfortunately her ex-husband does not cherish it, which may be fate!