Men will not write their own scum on their faces, the beginning of any relationship is tender and sweet, all kinds of entanglement, no one can imagine that in a few years you will return to the bridge and the road, each becoming the new joy of others.
Women are emotional animals, and once faced with separation, those past loves will turn into swords, torturing themselves to a thousand holes and fragments.
Silly woman, don't be in a hurry to be sad, if after the divorce, he can't do these 5 "make up", it means that your choice is right, divorce out of the sea of suffering, life can start again.
01. Economic compensation
You gave him the best of youth, those ignorant admirations, deep misses, honest and selfless dedication, the hardships of conceiving in October, the willingness to manage day and night, the caution of taking care of his lows, and spending every important moment of life with him.
Even if in the end you part ways and love has been exhausted, but the love of these years must be there, he can't use time and companionship to make up for you, but he can give more money so that you are not bent by life.
02, the house is left for you
Your little girl started from scratch with him, this is your first house, you have spent many sweet and distressed times here, and the corners and corners of the house record your love life. Now that you have a good conscience, he will understand that you have nowhere to go, and that the companionship of these years will leave you with the house.
If he hadn't done that and watched you wander the streets unattended, then I would like to congratulate you, sister, on divorcing this scumbag.
03. Maintenance
Even if a man can easily get angry, the piece of flesh that fell off his body cannot be cut off at all. So when women divorce, most of them fight for custody.
If a man can call on time after a woman fights for custody, then the woman is not very blind at first, at least the man is responsible. If this man is not even willing to pay the child's maintenance fees, and is cruel, there is nothing to be nostalgic about.
04, take care of your face
Divorce is not a glorious thing, and it is especially cruel for women.
Responsible men will take care of your face, take all the faults in the marriage to themselves, and describe you as virtuous and generous to the outside world, so that they can block the mouth of yo-yo for you, and facilitate you to have a good reputation to meet the next lover.
05, no longer disturb
One of the rules of being a good ex is never to bother the other person after a breakup.
But some men are eating in the bowl, looking at the pot, always feel that all the women in the world should revolve around him, once the ex-wife no longer needs him, he will be entangled, all kinds of tricks, with the feelings of the past to kidnap each other. Women who have encountered this kind of thing must have been relieved at that time. Fortunately, I divorced this man, otherwise it would be even worse now for myself.
There are only two ways to heal the wounds, either to make yourself meet more wonderful people, or to make your life full enough, the former allowing you to throw away the pain, and the latter leaving you without time to remember.
Once life goes, except for life and death, there is no major event. Even if the divorce can be painful to shed a layer of skin, but do you know how to treat yourself with the years? Instead of torturing each other with the wrong people, it is better to let go and embrace a new life.
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