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JunJun never imagined that when divorced, this man would go to great lengths to fight with himself for the custody of his daughter and show that he cared so much about his daughter.
Junjun has always been widowed parenting, and men have never shown the slightest sense of responsibility for their families and children. Since having a daughter, a man has never changed his daughter once to diaper, coaxed to sleep, and even when the daughter is crying, she is still irritable and yells at the child, let alone the housework at home. If it wasn't for his mother's help, Junjun really didn't know how to survive.
Not to mention the economic aspect, after having children, men never leave the house again. Looking at the man's exposed face after marriage, Junjun knew that he was not married, and when his daughter was very young, he thought of divorce and stopped the loss in time. But he couldn't bear to let his daughter become a child of a single-parent family, and thought that he would give his daughter a complete family when he was wronged. But in the days that followed, the men became more and more excessive, and the monarch's heart was like ashes, and he also realized that such a seemingly complete and twisted family was not as good as a single-parent family. Therefore, he resolutely proposed a divorce, thinking that with the man's previous performance, the custody of the daughter would be his own without doubt.
However, when Junjun filed for divorce, men began to fight for custody of their 4-year-old daughter. He also appealed to the court on the grounds that his economy was more stable and his family was more suitable for the growth of his children. And privately said to Junjun, "I don't raise it, and you don't want it", Junjun was mad.
In reality, many men are very strange and usually don't care much about children. But when I divorced, I began to stage "fatherly love", desperately fighting for the custody of my children, and I did not intend to raise them. "I don't raise, you don't want" When divorcing, men's intentions to fight for custody of children are too sinister.
Many men fight for custody of their children when they divorce just for face
The more men who have no sense of responsibility for the family and the children, the more they value face. If the child does not follow him at the time of divorce, is taken away by the woman, and the blood of his own family flows at home, the insider will always point out. Many men will feel that their faces are dull and their faces are damaged. So even if they don't have much affection for their children, they still have to fight for custody to keep their children around, which in the eyes of outsiders, they are people who value feelings. Even if they just throw the child to the elderly to bring, they will not take the child themselves.
Many men divorce and fight for custody purely because they don't want the woman to be better than to respond to her
Many men, that is, invincible, during the marriage, they do not let the woman live well, let the woman's married life be a mess, the woman finally made up her mind to jump out of the mud pit and start a new life. The man continues to haunt him, knowing that the woman cares most about the child. When divorcing, take the child as a chip, all kinds of blackmail the woman, the custody of the child is in their own hands, and they can respond to the woman from time to time in the future, anyway, it is not to let the woman live well. I have to say that the intention is really sinister.
My classmate's ex-husband is usually indifferent to his children. Custody is required in divorce, and the children are not taken care of. As soon as the child fell ill, all the school problems, the former mother-in-law pushed all to my classmates, although my classmates divorced, but in fact did not leave the scumbag's family at all, can not get rid of at all.
Such a man, irresponsible and selfish, meet such a man is really a shadow that cannot be shaken off in a lifetime.
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