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What does marriage need most? Some people say love, some people say family, in fact, marriage needs to be deep in love, but also the warmth and stability in the family, both of which are long-term happiness.
Love is vigorous, wild and romantic, but also the only way for two people to run in, do not experience love, you can not get the marriage you want, love is the foundation, two people who love each other, can go far.
Marriage does not require someone to be too strong, and there is no need for one party to point fingers at the other, and even a lot of disgust and disdain in words.
Marriage needs husband and wife to be in the same heart, not who holds the power, willfulness, strong and willful willful will only push the marriage step by step into the abyss, husband and wife, more need is understanding and understanding.
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Ma Yiyi, who lives in Yiyang, Hunan Province, has been married to her husband Li Le for more than two years, and the two have a daughter, Lei Lei, who recently came from her hometown to Zhuzhou to visit her children, but she did not expect that her in-laws hid the children.
Not only that, her husband Li Le is even more avoiding Ma Yiyi and does not want to see each other, Ma Yiyi has not heard from her daughter for many days, as a mother, she is both anxious and angry, she does not understand why her in-laws do not let her see the child.
Ma Yiyi said that she had been "squatting" at her in-laws' house in order to find out where the children had gone, while her father-in-law, Li Mantian, said that she had only let Ma Yiyi meet her granddaughter a few days ago, and that she herself said she did not want children.
Li Le said that the child is indeed by his side, about Ma Yiyi, his face is full of helplessness and sadness, he said, his wife is a second marriage, but also with a child, in order to avoid contradictions, the two have been renting a house after living together.
Later, after Ma Yiyi gave birth to a child, in order to take better care of her, she returned to her hometown in Zhuzhou, but she did not expect that Ma Yiyi would be at odds with her family as soon as she returned, and she would offend relatives and friends in half a year.
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In fact, the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is more unavoidable, and the contradiction is inevitable, after all, the concept is different, and the man, as a husband and as a son, is in the middle position at the beginning, and must bear the responsibility of running on both sides.
However, in Li Le's eyes, Ma Yiyi was really messing around and making unreasonable trouble, and she was reasonable and unclear, not only to beat him, once she was angry, and even set fire indoors, fortunately, in time to save the time did not cause a catastrophe.
Ma Yiyi's personality is strong and willful, everything must be listened to her, Li Le is also a polite and easy-going person, his tolerance everywhere in exchange for Ma Yiyi's intensification, and Ma Yiyi also thinks that Li Le is weak and inaction.
In Ma Yiyi's eyes, Li Le has some "ma bao men", and there is no achievement, he is still old in his thirties, the two sides have begun to have no contact with each other, and Li Le transfers eight hundred yuan a month as Lei Lei's living expenses.
Later, the relationship between the two parties still came to an end, and in October last year, the two sides signed a divorce agreement, and the custody of the daughter Lei Lei belonged to Li Le, and Li Le paid Ma Yiyi 4,000 yuan in compensation, and the two parties divorced.
Unexpectedly, Ma Yiyi refused to go to the Civil Affairs Bureau for divorce procedures, and often came to her in-laws' house to make trouble, Li Mantian thought that she wanted money in the name of custody, and Ma Yiyi said that she repented.
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She said that when she first signed the agreement, she was also discussing custody of her eldest daughter with her ex-husband, and signing a divorce agreement with Li Le was only a temporary measure, and now that she has handled the maintenance of her eldest daughter, she has to start over.
Such a rebellion, the Li family naturally did not let it, especially the father-in-law Li Mantian, he could not let Ma Yiyi think how to do, and in his opinion, Ma Yiyi just wanted to use the agreement to ask for money.
But Ma Yiyi said that she was not for money, and now that the custody of the eldest daughter has been given to her ex-husband, she will let the younger daughter out, will she not become a lonely person, she wants to regain the custody of Leilei.
In fact, Ma Yiyi's life is also quite pitiful, since the death of his parents since childhood, and his younger brother Ma Xiaojun depend on each other for their lives, now That Ma Xiaojun has become a family, he also said that he was lacking in skills, he suggested that Ma Yiyi should not fight anymore, and it is easy to support himself.
Ma Yiyi did not do it, she accused Li Le of inaction, people to middle age still achieve nothing, while wanting to return to the custody of her daughter, she did not want anything else, this word came out, Li Le also could not help it, until she quickly divorced.
After some negotiation, the two sides still decided to give The custody of Lei Lei to Ma Yiyi, but she had to go to the Civil Affairs Bureau to divorce Li Le, after which the Li family would naturally return the child to her.
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People asked whether Ma Yiyi was so temperamental because of postpartum depression, And Ma Yiyi smiled and vetoed, saying that she was tough by nature, and in the eyes of her brother Ma Xiaojun, her sister did have a problem with her temper, which can be said to be bad with anyone.
And Li Le has reached the age of establishment, because he is not confident in his appearance, he has not been married in these years, and after knowing Ma Yiyi, he is also very obedient to her, but he also has no opinion, and Ma Yiyi is also more and more unaccustomed to her.
I have to say that Ma Yiyi's personality is indeed very willful, even to the point of wanton behavior, their marriage room is still surrounded by black ash, which was caused by Ma Yiyi's arson, and Li Le's eyes were helpless.
On the one hand, Li Le was anxious to get married, and Ma Yiyi wanted to find a home, and now divorced, the most suffering is Leilei, I hope That Mayi can take good care of her.