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If marriage can stick to it, I don't think anyone will go to the point of divorce. Women, in particular, are originally easy to enter a door, but it is not easy to get out of a door. The fate of two people is exhausted, and if there is no child to tie up, then the breakup may be easier. But if you have a child, you must consider not only whether it will hurt the child, but also consider the custody of the child in the future. It is said that children, as the crystallization of love and the people they cherish the most, will definitely hope that they can raise children. But the reality is sometimes different, especially now that many women are reluctant to fight for custody anymore. So what is the real reason, four divorced women told the truth
Fear of affecting one's own remarriage
Remarriage is a very realistic topic. Because a lot of men can't accept divorced women with kids. It cannot be said that such a woman is selfish and does not love children, only that she thinks more about herself. In order to make himself marry better in the future, he ruthlessly threw away the piece of meat that fell from his body.
Want to break with the ex
For example, when I was with my ex, my heart was already in ruins. Even the hatred for her ex-husband was transferred to the child. So after the divorce, I don't want to have anything to do with my ex-husband anymore, and I want to cut it off from now on. Not even willing to have any connection with her ex-husband because of the child, a little connection.
Don't want to carry a "drag oil bottle"
Some women, not afraid of their own children, are not afraid that they can not afford to raise children, but just worry that they carry a "drag oil bottle" and affect their remarriage in the future. Remarried couples involve a lot of uncertainties and realistic factors, with a child, it is inevitable for men to measure and choose from many aspects. And after remarriage, a woman with children will inevitably have various conflicts between children and her husband. After all, not all women can remarry a man who accepts her children and approves of her children.
Hate men because seeing children reminds you of men
When a woman hates a man, to a certain extent, she often can't stand a little stimulation. This man existed like a nightmare for her. Once mentioned or remembered by external factors, it is often extremely uncomfortable and heart-wrenching, so serious that it affects psychological and physical and mental health. Therefore, naturally, there is no way to raise the child born between them wholeheartedly, because as soon as you see the child, you will think of the man. So, this kind of woman doesn't want children when she gets divorced.
Emotional message: There are many reasons why women divorce and choose not to have children, some are worthy of pity, some are spurned, but no matter what, you have to admit that children are born to cling to their mothers and want to get their mother's love. This is inseparable from the ten months that the child stayed in the mother's belly, and for those women who have no choice but to give up the child, it is the pain of their life, worthy of sympathy and pity. For those irresponsible women, using the child as a tool for revenge, or never caring about the child, they will regret it one day, because the child needs the company of the mother, and your absence will inevitably cause the child's childhood and the lack of good memories. If you have the ability to keep your child around, you will realize that the child really needs that maternal love.