Author: Ganbei
First public number: Ganbei
Chatting with a male friend, I said I was 90 years old, and he smiled evilly: "Oh, I am exposed to my age, it turns out that you are thirty-two years old!" ”
The man inadvertently spied the pride of the woman's age, which made me not shocked, what is strange, I am thirty-two years old, what "exposed" is not "exposed", I did not think to hide.
I don't have that fear of age, and I don't understand why a woman's age should be a secret, the secret should at least be mysterious, age is something that everyone has, and there is nothing mysterious about it.
And I really like my own thirty years old.
Stop shedding tears for love.
Women almost always have to be thirty years old to understand that love is not the whole of life, not even a small part of life.
Thirty-year-old women who look at the horoscope will automatically skip the part about love.
If you want to love, you have to love, don't love, there is nothing to predict. If the master is really enlightened, he should tell me when and how to get rich, instead of wasting my limited spiritual power on men.
The "tomorrow there will be rain" in the weather forecast is more meaningful than the "be careful to quarrel with your partner" in the horoscope.
In love with a thirty-year-old woman, men are better off "seeking their own blessings".
Eat what you want, don't eat and pull down, don't expect someone to bring the rice hot to your mouth. Don't be too clingy, don't expect only you in her world, and don't have the silly idea of telling her to give up her career and serve you wholeheartedly, it will be laughed at.
Don't try to PUA her. Women live to thirty, more or less have some stubborn confidence, tell the girl that she is not thin enough and not white enough, maybe she will be inferior for a little while, and the light mature woman said to try, she will only return to you a word: roll!
Don't compare her to her mother. Saying what "if I am blind, my mother will give me eyes" paragraph, will only make the light mature women laugh, is there anything wrong with you, a young man still play non-mainstream?
Thirty years old, with its own shape.
Round, square, flat, long, less easy to be swayed by others.
Very lazy, not very willing to adapt to other people's tempers. If you want to be gentle, go find a gentle one, and if you want to be stout, go find a stout one. There is not so much spare time to train men, we are only willing to accept the finished product.
As for the feat of telling the prodigal son to turn back and get lost, let someone else complete it, the woman to thirty, not the Virgin.
At the age of thirty, his sense of life is gradually getting better.
Just a few years ago, I didn't understand Lu Xun's articles and Du Fu's poems. Thirty years old, suddenly enlightened. It is like being opened up to the second vein of Ren Dou, the perception, the sense of body, and the sense of understanding are all in one place, and they have stepped into a grander poetic world.
You can see it, and you can do it.
I can go and help the people I want to help.
Sick babies, crying widows, elderly people with limited mobility, poor families with nothing. Thankfully, at the age of thirty, I have accumulated my strength and I can go and help them.
It is no longer a solitude of watching the suffering of others, unable to take a penny out of his pocket.
Dare to make your own voice within the scope of your ability, help the weak who are willing to help, do not cause trouble, and are not so afraid of things.
I can protect my family.
From a protected little doll, she has become the pillar of the home.
I can take care of my parents' food and clothing, my children's milk powder, the living expenses and medical expenses of the whole family.
The mother, who has suffered most of her life, is now becoming more and more rounded,
Her first necklace, her first ring, her first bracelet, all came from me. The dresses of spring, the cardigans of autumn, the debts of decades are filled in the same way in a few years, thank you thirty years old, so that I have the ability to repay my father and mother.
Dad can finally have his own hobbies.
Love to drink tea, miscellaneous tea sets to collect a bunch, sent him a few cakes of good tea, I don't know if he can taste the difference, that frame is in short like a decent look. He also loves to write, so he bought him a wolf pen, bought rice paper, bought authentic emblem ink, and sprinkled it at will.
When I was a child, I thought my parents were supermans, and now I feel that I am also superman.
It's amazing that my parents can help them realize their dreams in their later years.
Less inferior.
When I was a teenager, I attended the banquet and carefully carried the small teapot, and the little girl who toasted tea to everyone present grew up. Sitting peacefully on the table, talking and laughing, not caring too much about the left and right faces, and not having to bow down and say insincere words.
When another little girl appeared on the table, like a teenager, who was tight-handed and didn't know why, I could smile and sit next to her and tell her with my own strength: "Don't be afraid, if you don't want to drink, you can not drink." ”
I'm a lot fatter than I used to be, but I don't care about weight as much as I used to.
I remember when I was in college, the whole swimming class was tightly wrapped in a bath towel, for fear that others would see the slight bulge under the bath towel. At that time, I was only ninety pounds, but I always felt that I was the fattest person in the world.
I'm one hundred and twenty pounds now.
But I dare to wear a swimsuit, from one end of the pool to the other, no need to close the lower abdomen, no need to hold the chest, the old lady is like this, you judge me, it is your fault, not my fault.
Thirty is good.
There is a kind of round domineering, mellow and incomparable.
Have your own time, have your own ideas, have your own bottom line, and the ability to defend the bottom line.
No longer force everyone to like me, no longer deliberately cater to everyone's pleasure, no longer force their bodies into uncomfortable clothes and shoes, no longer for the evaluation of others, conscientious and careful to reflect on themselves.
At such a good and confident age, what is there to hide?
Wing Mei said: Don't P shed wrinkles, every one of them is my hard work.
Yeah, every one of them is something I've worked so hard to grow.
If you have seen my experience along the way, know the pain I have tasted, the grievances I have swallowed, the traps I have walked, you should know that every wrinkle is not easy to come by, they are not burdens, they are medals, they are a woman's struggle history.
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