1, interdependence, mutual understanding.
The relationship pattern of each couple is different, but each other needs to slowly run in and cultivate each other. I think the best relationship model between couples is to gain mutual understanding and mutual dependence, and also have their own independent living space. So when it comes to getting along, it's possible to be very relaxed without too much hassle or too much stress. Two people are able to communicate well when encountering things, are able to maintain a consistent rhythm, and are interdependent.
2, mutual respect, equality.
Many people in the pursuit of each other is very good will respect each other, but after becoming a couple will become very casual, sometimes the conversation between each other will also be invisibly hurtful, if for a long time in this state, one or both parties will not be able to stand. Therefore, good relationships and intimate feelings are based on the premise of mutual respect and equality, and both people must learn to get along under the premise of equality and mutual respect, rather than because they feel that "you are chasing me", so I am superior to him, such feelings are not long-lasting, mutual respect, equality is very important.
3, pay together, and have space for each other
I'm sure everyone agrees "if you love someone, you should be nice to her." "But I think there's a premise here that she has to be kind to you too." The mutual giving of a relationship is to make the other person feel the love from you. In the process of our love, only the other person's efforts will make you feel that she loves herself. However, only one party pays, and over time, he will feel particularly tired and sad, and this relationship will not last long. Because if you feel the love from the object, it is easy to generate thoughts out of nothing. So if you want your relationship to get better and better, it's that you need to dream of supporting and giving to each other. There is also to leave some private space for each other, because if there is no private space between couples, then it is easy to have contradictions, so that people have no sense of freedom, affecting each other's feelings, only by leaving some private space for each other, it will be easier, happier, and the feelings will develop better.