My son is in kindergarten, there are more girls in the class, there are few boys, look at this ratio, for the son's wife problem, I am really a little worried. But this kind of small thing, when talking, parents are talking and laughing. But I don't know that today's inadvertent is tomorrow's big problem.
After all, it is really difficult for today's boys to marry a daughter-in-law, not only the sky-high bride price, but even the most basic requirements of buying a house and land, which may not be met by parents. It is hard to reach the standard, will the daughter-in-law kick the old one away when she enters the door? It's hard to say.
In order to meet the needs of sons and daughters-in-law, what are the requirements of other girls, we have to meet them!
What age is this, and you still expect other girls to accompany your son to work hard, endure hardships, and endure wind and rain together? International jokes, where is there such a simple, beautiful girl!
Therefore, the following four types of families should pay attention to, if there are boys in the family, it may be more troublesome to find a daughter-in-law in the future.
First, families with many brothers
According to the reason, the brothers in the family are very good! Have a care for each other. But in fact, modern people can think openly, you have more boys, then the family's property will be divided up more, and now the children are one by one, full of selfishness, how can they be willing to find a family that shares the family property fairly with their own old?
Besides, there are more brothers, there are more troubles, and the relationship between concubines will be more complicated, in order to avoid this kind of trouble, the average girl will not choose at all because of her husband's personal or family conditions.
2. Families with poor in-laws' health
If there are many elders in the family, and the physical and mental health is not guaranteed, even young girls who suffer hardships will avoid it. I don't blame them, after all, the current social competition is too fierce, work, study, and later have to raise and so on. The higher the cost of living, the more realistic the children are, which is also survival of the fittest, not transferred for personal will.
3. Families of elderly pregnant women
Some people are really willful, the two children are older, partial fight for the second child, the result, life pressure, economic pressure to grasp, but the child is born, can not not be ah, as a result, the boss to get married when the problem, people do not want to just get married on the family on multiple children.
For example, if you have a baby at the age of fifty, even if you have a large pension, the cost of raising a child is greater. When you have no energy at all, the child is just in need of family companionship and help, but you have no energy for both of you, and you can only drag the boss into the water. It can be seen that people who take risks to have a second child at an advanced age are really fighting for their own lives and the happiness of others.
4. Do not marry a single-parent family
The comprehensive quality requirements for a person in this era are too high, so that the children of single-parent families will be affected in the marriage market. After all, psychology pays attention to a person's mental health and the company of parents. In pedagogy, the influence of the original ecological family on children's hearts is also interpreted.
In short, when families marry girls, they will also have requirements for whether they are single-parent families.
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