Who will keep the old man's savings safe and appropriate? Hear about the clever ways the 71-year-old did it

Narration from Uncle Lu:

I am 71 years old, I used to be a small cadre in the town, and my wife opened a commissary in the town, two sons one in politics, one in business, supported two sons and a daughter, and in that era, our family's economic conditions were also very good, early on there were motorcycles, color televisions, and even washing machines, at that time, our family did not mention how beautiful.

However, the conditions of our family are so good, our husband and wife did not splurge hard, the flowers will be spent, and the ones that should be saved will also be saved. Until the year of my retirement, our two husband and wife were in the bank, saving more than 500,000 yuan of savings, and this money, my children are unaware, is our two couples secretly deposited, the purpose is to have a guarantee in the old age, in case the children are not very filial piety, our two sons still have this savings for the elderly.

After retiring at the age of 60, I let my wife close the commissary, and the two of us began to live a pension life, because I had a pension, which could support the two of us to live a very good life, and the interest generated by our savings in the bank was also very much, enough for me and my wife to go to entertainment and recreation, and I did not have to rely on my children to be self-sufficient.

However, the day was not what people wanted, the happy retirement life did not enjoy a few years, my wife died of illness, and with the departure of my wife, my physical condition also plummeted, and many old age diseases appeared.

At that time, I lived alone, and suddenly found that it was not good to go on like this, the body was not as good as a day, and the money placed in the bank was more and more uneasy, thinking that if I suddenly had senile dementia, or could not take care of myself, the money would not be easy to take. So, I began to worry about how to keep this savings safe and appropriate.

I have asked some old friends, and they said that I had to give it to the most filial children for safekeeping, so as to ensure that I would retire in my old age without worry. However, my two sons live separately from me, and it is also very good for me to come back every New Year's Holiday, and I don't know who is more filial and who can make me feel at ease to give the money to him for safekeeping.

Later, I thought of a good way to go to the home of my two sons to live in turn for the elderly to see who was really good to me. And go to live in the homes of my two sons separately, I did not eat and live in vain, but handed over my pension salary card to them, one to let me live at ease, the other is to say that money is the best tool to test people's hearts, I want to see how my two sons are in front of money.

First of all, I went to live in the eldest son's house, and at the beginning the eldest son and the eldest daughter-in-law were still very enthusiastic about me, especially after I handed the salary card to the eldest daughter-in-law, the two of them were full of laughter. For me, it is also a good food and drink hospitality, the room is the best prepared for me, facing south and with a bathroom. Usually, I am not allowed to do any work, the eldest daughter-in-law still gives me stew soup to drink every day, and the eldest son often takes me to the park to hang out.

However, their kindness to me has become more and more cold with the passage of time, and there is a kind of long-term understanding of people's hearts. The eldest son lived in the family for about half a year, the eldest son began to annoy me, because I often asked him to accompany me around, and sometimes I had to trouble him to take me to experience, and the eldest daughter-in-law, also nibbled on me, always in front of me, complaining that the family expenses were large, the mortgage pressure was high, the children's school expenses were very much, I came every day to stew soup, food expenses were also more, and so on. She wanted me to give her some extra money, and I told her that my money was all on the payroll card, and I didn't have any private money on me.

And the eldest daughter-in-law saw that I refused to take out more points, she began to have no good face for me, the food began to become dull, she knew that I liked stew soup, and gradually stopped stewing, housework also arranged for me to do, several times I was unwell, went to the hospital for examination, the couple did not take the initiative to pay, but used my salary card to pay. Although they were filial to me and did not deliberately resent me, I still felt that living in a very unpleasant place was always lacking a trace of warmth. Therefore, I lived in my eldest son's house for less than half a year, and I went to the second son's house in advance.

The conditions of the second son's home were not as good as my eldest son's, so I went to the second son's house to live, and I could only sleep in the same room as the younger grandson. And the second son's home is also on the outskirts of the city, there is no downtown bustle and bustle, I want to go to the park to play, but also have to transfer two buses. Although the conditions were a little worse, the second son and daughter-in-law were still quite good to me.

When I first arrived, I gave the salary card to my second daughter-in-law (my two sons, both daughters-in-law are in charge of money), but the couple did not dare to ask for it, saying that I was my money, and they would not be able to ask for it. I said I had to spend money to come here and live here, and I didn't want to burden them. But the daughter-in-law said, "Dad, supporting you is what we should do as children, where is the burden?" "But I tried to give them the money, and the second daughter-in-law saw that I was so persistent, so she accepted it."

I thought that the second daughter-in-law would be like the eldest daughter-in-law, seeing the money open, and squandering everywhere when she got the money, but I found that she did not. Every day I eat and drink well, I will take me on a road trip on the weekend, or go to the restaurant, and every two months my son will take me to do a routine examination, which is very attentive. I usually go out and walk far, and my second son will deliberately drive to pick me up.

And I also found that the salary card I handed to my second daughter-in-law was unused, except for the fact that I went to the hospital several times to buy medicine and spent hundreds of yuan, the money in the card was almost untouched. Compared with the eldest daughter-in-law, this is a world of difference, if it is changed to the eldest daughter-in-law, the pension may be withdrawn and used by her the next day.

Gradually, I found that the second son and the second daughter-in-law were really filial to me, not only would not use my pension indiscriminately, nor would they open their mouths to me for money, but also their attitude towards me had not changed much, and they had always been very good. Even though I was often sick and troublesome, the two of them did not bother me and served me with all their hearts.

Therefore, I decided to secretly give the more than 500,000 savings in the bank to the second son for safekeeping, and told him that he could not know about his brother and sister, and this money was not all given to him, and he could use the interest in it every month, but he could not take it for himself. In the future, after a hundred years, I will also take out three brothers and sisters to divide it equally.

However, I also know that I can't live with my second son for a long time, so that after living for a long time, the eldest son will definitely think that I prefer the second son, and even think that I gave the pension money to the second son. So, I continued to take turns living in their brothers' homes, and the pay card was handed over to whoever lived there. Although the eldest son's family, there is no second son's family comfortable, but still live well, at least my savings have found a custodian, I don't have to worry about this matter, and I also see the sincerity of the two sons, let me have a bottom in my heart.

Nowadays, I live a very good life, living in the eldest son's house, the eldest daughter-in-law took my salary card naturally will not be bad for me, that is, it is worse than the second daughter-in-law. And living in the second son's house, it is needless to say, knowing that I trust them husband and wife, so they are more filial to me, every month they put 500,000 savings of interest, they will not use it themselves, every time they take it out, they will use it on me, one will buy me new clothes, one will give me physiotherapy, one will take me on a trip, every day is happy.

Therefore, I feel that it is safest and most appropriate for me to give my old age savings to my second son for safekeeping.

epilogue:

In fact, the elderly's savings storage problem has always been very important, so to give the savings to who to keep, or where to put them must be properly arranged, after all, the old people's savings are the guarantee of the old age, and if they are not handled well, it will greatly affect the quality of life in the later years.

Because the elderly are a special group, easy to get sick and easy to forget, their own custody of money has not been as good as young people, so the elderly in the body is getting weaker, to find a filial piety to keep the savings, so that it can be safer and more appropriate to keep the money, and really when you need to use the money urgently, it is also convenient to receive.

However, who to give the money to keep well, we can also learn from Uncle Lu's approach, although a little eccentric, the method is cumbersome, but in the end it is still very good, at least can arrange the money safely and at ease, but also will not affect the relationship between children, is a very recommended method.