Interpretation of emotional topics, taking you into more positive emotional worlds! I am your emotional relief, but you have to know how to let yourself go!
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People, two years to learn to speak, a lifetime to learn to shut up!
As I get older, I understand more and more that the most difficult learning in this life is to "shut up". Interacting with people and learning to "shut up" is a person's advanced practice!
In all kinds of relationships, we all care about the word "sincerity", but these two words cannot be used willfully and extensively in real life. In particular, the sincerity of language requires everyone to be properly self-vigilant.
It is quite possible that your truth is an unpredictable harm to others and to yourself!
Smart people will be selectively sincere. In a sense, whenever and wherever you open your mouth, you must follow "reasonableness".
Many times, things that harm others and harm themselves happen mostly because of their own mouth!
Dealing with people, do not use sincerity and stubbornness, and learn to "shut up", which is great wisdom! Here are 5 sentences, it is best to always hide in the heart and not to say to anyone:
Sentence 1: Two people talking, not mentioning the third person!
If you can, when interacting with people, once you happen to meet two people talking, don't say anything about a third person who is familiar with each other. Whether it's good or bad, it's best not to mention it.
The heart of harming others must not be there, and the heart of preventing people must not be without. The speaker has no intention, the listener intends.
You never know what kind of exaggerated words your language will be passed on in other people's populations.
To interact with people, sincerity is to help others from the heart and really bring benefits to them. For people you don't like, really keep your distance.
This is the best sincerity.
And who you are grateful to, you only need to use practical actions to do it to the person. It is far better to have a complaint in your heart than to say it without any benefit.
The best value of people living is not to create trouble for themselves!
Sentence 2: Don't be ugly and your own unbearable past!
In real life, we must know the reality that "people have no thousand days of good flowers and no hundred days of red". When the wind and waves are calm and have nothing to do with profits and losses, anyone is a close friend. Once the human heart and human nature reveal their ugliness, the old best friends will also turn against each other.
Why is it that the more people who know you well, the more they can hurt you the most? It is because he knows too many of your "secrets".
Some people, because of too much experience, have too much unhappiness in their hearts, and they intend to talk to people they trust to decompress, and finally "decompression" has become a sharp weapon to stab themselves.
Family ugliness cannot be publicized, because outsiders will deliberately use your family ugliness to define your personality in front of some "problems".
Don't tell people about your unbearable past, no one wants to really empathize with your past through your grief. When you do something that doesn't fit the listener's mind, your unbearable past encounters will be identified as "deserved."
What's more, there is no secret in the world, you think you trust someone, tell him to keep secrets for you, in fact, your story has long become a secret known to the world.
In real life, you are likely to be deeply affected by the circulation of these "experiences".
Sentence 3: Don't tell anyone how much you have savings!
No matter how much you have savings or whether you have any savings at all, you have to keep your mouth shut to outsiders.
If you have little or no savings, others will use you as a negative benchmark to encourage others in the "preaching" of your good.
If you have a certain amount of savings, others will easily borrow money from you, and then there is no hurry to pay it back. Or, you'll be mistaken for you at Versailles and get jealous, tripping you up everywhere.
Don't be defenseless against anyone.
Know that the dangers of real society will always exceed your imagination.
Whether in film and television dramas or in real life, those who expose their real savings bring trouble and danger to themselves abound.
If you don't want to put yourself in a dilemma, if you don't want to bring you unforeseen dangers, if you don't want to be a negative benchmark for others after dinner, be sure to hide your savings.
Sentence 4: Don't talk about the emotional situation with your other half!
There are many people who get involved in marriage and love, and they will drag others to share their daily life. As everyone knows, in such sharing, there is a hidden unfortunate possibility of their marriage and love life.
The person who can share must be his most trusted close friend. If you praise your significant other too much or belittle your other half, it will make your friends pay more attention to your other half's curiosity.
People look at people from different angles and evaluate them differently.
When people look at people, after a long time, it is easy to see the spark.
When people look at people, as the days go on, they will see that the problem is not a problem.
Fireproof and anti-theft, anti-girlfriend/anti-buddy. How many people have a touch of green on their heads because of their girlfriends/buddies? How many people, because they listened to their closest friends, gave "rationalization" advice, and rubbed shoulders with the people they really loved?
You know, the happiness and unhappiness of married life are in your own hands and you don't need to share or gain experience with anyone.
Careful management, cherish with heart, do not invite unnecessary people into marriage and love, and do not affect their marriage and love relationship because outsiders are really smart people.
In the adult world, learning to shut up is one of the most difficult subjects to practice. Countless people have not been able to successfully graduate in this subject.
At any time, you must understand that some words you put in your heart are the best protection for yourself. Even if you have a problem, be careful to choose the right person to say it again.
In fact, in this realistic society, people who hope that you are good are almost really close to zero except for their parents. People who look at your jokes abound.
There are some things that you think are shared with the people you trust the most, but the people you think are the most trusted people don't necessarily regard you as the most worthy object of your keeping secrets.
There are some problems that you think you will get help by saying it, but you are actually just blocking yourself, adding to the trouble and difficulties.
In real life, you have to know that you have only one person to rely on, and that is yourself. This person can only be yourself. You must live in harmony with yourself, be your friend, and redeem yourself.
Remember:
Evil comes out of the mouth, don't use your own mouth to consume yourself and hurt yourself. Life is not easy, you must always carry clear in order to protect yourself thoroughly.
Keep your mouth shut, can you do it?
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Love is man's purgatory in the world. Love or friendship, the right time meets the right person to cultivate the right results!
Topic Discussion: Are you a person who knows how to "shut up" and protect yourself? Leave your unspeakable words below.