Choosing marriage without a deep emotional foundation is like sailing against the current. Losing feelings after marriage means divorce.
Feelings are not omnipotent, but marriage is very dependent on the feelings between husband and wife. On the one hand, it is the foundation, and on the other hand, having good feelings can run a marriage happily for a long time.
Domestic violence and affairs are taboos in marriage, and as long as there is one, there will be countless times. For families, otherwise fragile relationships cannot withstand these storms.
The man took out a deposit of 100,000 yuan to save the stepson, after the successful operation, the wife disappeared with the stepson, Chen Guoqiang of Changsha, Hunan Province, is forty-three years old this year, three years ago he and his wife He Fang, who is three years younger than him, were married shortly, the little daughter was born, and the cute daughter also added joy to the family.
Chen Guoqiang is the first marriage, and He Fang is married for the second time. He Fang also has a son, Liang Xiao. With the marriage of He Fang and Chen Guoqiang, Liang Xiao also lived with Chen Guoqiang, and even moved his household registration and changed his surname.
Six months after marriage, Liang Xiao was found to have a brain tumor. Despite being a stepson, Chen Guoqiang spared no effort to treat. At that time, he was still in debt, and he took out all his 100,000 savings to treat his stepson.
Liang Xiao's surgery was very successful. After he was cured, he was no different from ordinary people. Now he has found a job, but Chen Guoqiang said that he was deceived because after his stepson's surgery, He Fang was completely different.
Chen Guoqiang said angrily that his wife had been away from home for three months. After she left, Liang Xiao followed her, leaving Meng Meng, who was more than two years old. It was not easy for him to take his daughter alone.
Chen Guoqiang accused He Fang of being ungrateful, having no sense of responsibility for the family, and ruthlessly leaving his young daughter behind. In this regard, He Fang's family is also very angry, because Chen Guoqiang often violently abuses He Fang.
In the eyes of others, he is a good stepfather, and in the eyes of his wife, he is a "demon"
In the eyes of others, Chen Guoqiang is a good stepfather, he spent all his money to save his stepson, and in the eyes of He Fang's parents, Chen Guoqiang is a very unqualified son-in-law, and he even attacked He Fang in front of them.
For He Fang, this stepfather, who is very good in the eyes of others, is like his own nightmare.
Domestic violence is absolutely not allowed in any case. In terms of physical condition, women are weaker than men, so bullying is not the work of gentlemen.
For his domestic violence, Chen Guoqiang did not admit it at first. He only felt that it was some dispute that occurred when the husband and wife quarreled, but no matter what He Fang took out to prove it, he would not admit it.
He has not cared about his own misbehavior of domestic violence. He felt that this was no big deal, to Chen Guoqiang
Domestic violence, He Fang was angry in his heart, and he did not dare to go home.
He Fang said that her ex-husband died in a car accident more than a decade ago, when Xiaoliang was only six years old, she had grown up with her son in recent years, met Chen Guoqiang three years ago, and had the idea of entrusting her life.
Unexpectedly, shortly after marriage, the brain tumor was found out, and He Fang was also overwhelmed by this, but Chen Guoqiang planted the seed of doubt in his heart, and he thought that he was used by He Fang.
Chen Guoqiang said: "She treated me as a wronged head" Xiao Liang's tumor has been formed for 5 years, and he thinks that he is hiding something and wants to use himself as a marriage to make him pay his stepson.
He Fang was very aggrieved, she did not know that her son suffered from this disease before she got married, and she did not choose Chen Guoqiang for money at all. At the beginning, Chen Guoqiang's money for marriage was lent to him by a friend.
He Fang's son Xiao Liang is also grateful to his stepfather for saving himself, but he is very angry that his stepfather attacked his mother, and his desire for control is also very strong, suppressing the whole family.
When Chen Guoqiang took out his savings to save his stepson, his excavator income became lower and lower, and the economic conditions became worse and worse Chen Guoqiang's temper became worse and worse, and he often started his wife.
Not only that, Chen Guoqiang also sued for divorce twice, but in the end neither of them succeeded, and now the marriage has also been shaken. So the local community staff also mediated them.
Chen Guoqiang said that the stepson's tumor has not been completely cured, there is a possibility of recurrence in the future, if you want to reconcile, you will not be responsible for the stepson, that is to say, let the stepson leave.
Of course, such a request could not be accepted, He Fang resolutely divorced, Chen Guoqiang was very vague, and finally accepted the persuasion of the community staff, and the two decided to calm down for a while before making a decision.
Editor's opinion:
Marriage is different from love, marriage means family, and two people should consider daughters over the age of two. After all, the child is innocent, and divorce will have a big impact on her.
The role of parents is important throughout a person's life. Children who grow up in single-parent families can never fully feel the love of their fathers and mothers.
Chen Guoqiang's savings to save his stepson are commendable, but this is not a reason for him to do something to his wife. Even if he is kind to his wife and hurts his feelings by doing it, sooner or later the marriage will break down.
Marriage needs to be managed. It is not to see who paid how much money, Xiaobian hopes that two people will take a step back, repairing this marriage is not impossible, it requires two people to pay sincerely.