Everyone often says that the husband and wife are originally the same forest birds, and the great difficulties come to fly separately, but even so, but if such a thing happens to themselves, many people are unacceptable.
After all, marriage itself is the spiritual union of two people, the purpose is to overcome difficulties and hardships together, if even this can not be done, then what are the hardships and hardships between husband and wife? Why people want to get married, it is not because life is not easy, you need to find someone to help yourself in the same boat, life is not easy, so you need a person to come to the same boat together.
Ms. Tan is a native of Shandong, originally had a very happy and happy family, and she was also a child and daughter. The sudden illness forced this happy family to press the pause button, at this time she and her husband have been married for 10 years, during which 10 years have given birth to a son, gave birth to a daughter, the children have been in elementary school!
Originally lived a very happy life, but just 5 years ago, when the disease was first discovered, the doctor and Ms. Tan were particularly optimistic, after all, it was only then that this disease was discovered, and there were many ways to treat it. And Ms. Tan and her husband are also doing their best to treat, because Ms. Tan does not want to lose the mother of the two children.
During the treatment period, although the money was more spent, the husband did not complain at all, but when Ms. Tan was passive and wanted to give up treatment, the husband often advised his wife to cheer up, and the two children were still waiting for a normal day to recover. Every time she thought of her two children, Ms. Tan wanted to grit her teeth and persevere, and the 5th year after the operation was indeed recovered!
Although she had to take medicine all the time, but at this time, she felt like she had picked up a life, and she originally thought that her happy life would start again and be able to return to the right track, but after 5 years, the disease recurred again, and after this recurrence, the doctor said that she was not so optimistic, and told Ms. Tan and her husband to prepare 500,000 yuan of medical expenses.
500,000 is a huge medical expense for an ordinary rural person, Ms. Tan and her husband were stunned after hearing this, and after the two people reacted, the husband and wife hugged their headaches and cried. Life is very cruel to them, just gave them hope, and now this only way to live has been cut off, Ms. Tan wants to give up, but her husband still refuses to give up. Instead, the husband and wife took out all their savings, and after completing the operation and the first course of treatment, Ms. Tan's medical expense gap was getting bigger and bigger.
After the husband saw this situation, he was also very helpless, and had to go out to work, because the education was not particularly high, but also to raise two children and his parents, but also to support Ms. Tan's medical expenses, and some salary every month. Before I saved it, I was divided into various expenses.
Later, the husband was also more and more silent, unable to say what he wanted to give up, but there was no way to continue to suffer like this, when the doctor announced the second treatment, the husband suddenly knelt on the ground and pleaded with Ms. Tan for divorce: "Wife please let me go, I really have no way to stay up any longer." ”
This sentence of her husband made Ms. Tan feel very angry, and her husband's helplessness and strong support also made Ms. Tan feel more sad. I don't know if I should give up, if I give up, it means that my life is gone, my two children will have no mother, and my elderly parents will not have daughters.
The husband's divorce made Ms. Tan's parents particularly angry, feeling that the son-in-law was ungrateful, and her daughter was still fighting the disease, but the son-in-law wanted to divorce. In the end, Ms. Tan still persuaded her parents to let her husband go, saying that she had spent so much money before and after her illness for so many years, and when she had the first surgery, her husband sold the house for himself.
After listening to the daughter's advice, the parents also shed tears, and they also knew very well that the son-in-law was not easy, but it was the life of his own daughter, and if the son-in-law gave up, it would mean that the daughter had no hope. In the end, Ms. Tan signed the divorce agreement, and both children were given to her husband, who was saddled with hundreds of thousands of debts.
Ms. Tan is taken over by her parents, in order to make her daughter get better again, her parents hung up the nursing home for sale, Ms. Tan advised her parents to be conservative in treatment, and her parents refused, saying that as long as there is a glimmer of hope, they will not give up.
Personally, I feel that the greatest love in the world is the love given to us by our parents, but the love of our parents is also particularly heavy. The road of life must be slowly walked by yourself, life is your own, no one can add oil and vinegar to themselves, the taste is good or not, you must adjust it yourself.
Through this story, we tell everyone that family affection is like an umbrella, when we need help, this umbrella holds up a clear sky for us, family affection is like a jar of honey, adding a touch of sweetness when we are happy, and the love of parents is really great. So I hope that everyone must cherish everything that our parents have given us, and if the Father does not have parents, there will be no us.