When you are poor, not only do your relatives look down on you, but even your biological parents may despise you from the bottom of your heart. A netizen said: When I was the poorest, my relatives avoided me like a plague god. When I was penniless, homeless, and had no place to live, I was yelled at by my parents for arguing with my rich sister. They also say how much money your sister can make, and you unlucky ghost knows a fart reason. When I was older, I was kicked out of her house by my own parents and sister. I remember when I was rich, they came to my house every three to five minutes, and when they needed help, I would lend a helping hand. Now I am poor, and in their eyes I am not even a beggar. I am their son, brother, and they are my dearest relatives. I don't have money in my pocket, and I don't have a relationship with anyone.
When you are poor, what do your relatives do to you? Have you ever had a similar experience with netizens?
1. Never forget the help that my father helped some so-called aunts when he was alive. At that time in the countryside, my uncle was a foreigner who had never suffered from the countryside since childhood, and the farm work was done by my father for them. Many years later, when I was in junior high school, my father left unexpectedly, and there was no money in the family. After that, several aunts immediately changed their attitude towards my family, often saying that my mother would not help them with farm work, and often colluded to bully my family. I will never forget the bad deeds of these animal relatives to my family. Now that life is better, I just want my mother to enjoy her old age in peace.
2. 10 years ago, my mother fell seriously ill and spent all her family's savings (in fact, there was no money in the family). At that time, I was still in college and had no job. There was really no way out, and I began to borrow money from relatives. Borrow two thousand from my second mother (aunt), and she doesn't borrow it. Even if you don't borrow it, you actually say to others: Two thousand yuan, will his family pay it back? This is the second year after my mother left, and once I told my father with tears in my eyes, and I was also in tears, recognizing the true face of these relatives.
3, 10 years ago, I was 32 years old, due to family changes, spent all my savings, I also resigned to take care of my parents, and my girlfriend who fell in love for 7 years also failed (I don't blame him, I feel guilty, I am too helpless when I am poor). All the relatives stopped associating with my family, afraid that my family would borrow money. I'm an old bachelor, unaccompanied and unable to ask for help. Thankfully, it's all over. Now the child is 9 years old, smart and cute, the wife is also beautiful, and the parents are healthy. Rural 400 square meters of housing, small towns 120 square meters of housing. Although I have no savings, I am happy and happy. It's just that I don't have any more contact with relatives.
4, before the poor family did not have money to buy salt, thanks to grandpa to help my family. My grandfather looked down on my family, only for the rich uncle's family. Growing up, Grandpa never hugged me once, let alone bought me toys. My grandfather used to point his finger at my dad in front of many people and say that it would be nice if you could support yourself, and that we wouldn't expect you when we were old (to this day my mom cries when she thinks of the way they look at my family). I've been eating and living at my house this year, and those neighbors say that my parents are too good......
5, Mianyang people drifted by, after the earthquake in 2008, in 2009 10 years my family built a house, and used up the savings. In 11 years, my father was in a car accident, the hospital issued five critical illness notices, my mother cried and fainted several times, and my sister was also anxious to hit her head against the wall and could not get the money. My father and mother's friends and comrades-in-arms sent some money one after another, and none of my father's close relatives helped, and they said that they didn't have money to see any diseases, and who would wait for similar words when the time came. In short, it is a falling stone. Finally rescued Dad, and now the debt is paid off. We were welcoming guests for the New Year, and those close relatives were embarrassed to come.
6, my father died early, my mother also worked hard to provide for our two brothers and sisters to study. Once, when I paid the tuition, I really couldn't come up with the money. So I borrowed it from my father's brother, and my third uncle said lend it to you, do you have any money to pay it back? My mother didn't want to cry in front of us at that time, and ran to my grandmother's grave with her back to cry. Later, my mother told me after I started a family. Actually complain? Who called you poor; don't complain, that's your uncle. Alas, the money word is too esoteric...
When you are poor, what do your relatives do to you? Welcome to leave a message.