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The son of the little uncle's family, who just turned two years old last month, has a strong ability to "move his hands" and "move his mouth".
Seeing his sister sitting on the couch watching TV, in order to attract her sister's attention, he would go forward and first touch his sister's face, and then take advantage of his lack of preparation to "slap" his sister's face twice, making his sister tear up.
Seeing his uncle lying on the couch taking a nap, he wanted his uncle to play with him, but he could not express it in complete language, so he put his mouth forward and bit into his uncle's face, causing his uncle to scream in pain.
Seeing Grandpa on duty, he just sat down on the couch, in order to show his welcome to Grandpa, he first lay down in Grandpa's arms in a playful manner, and then slapped Grandpa twice without defense, making Grandpa blush.
Unlike some families, my mother-in-law and father-in-law are quite sensible and never let this situation go unchecked. Instead, patiently tell the little nephew that it is wrong to hit people, and when necessary, he will also use some disciplinary methods to let the little nephew have a long memory.
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However, the recent video of a three- or four-year-old girl on the Internet playing a trick on her grandfather has subverted our cognition.
From the video, we found that the little girl in the red dress had a fierce face. She kicked Grandpa first, who symbolically slapped the little girl's leg, but didn't hit it, just hit the edge of the little girl's dress.
The little girl intensified, raised her left hand and snapped Grandpa's arm, and Grandpa only symbolically returned it. At this time, the little girl seemed to be provoked, raised her hand and scratched her grandfather's face, and the grandfather had to quickly hold his head and dodge.
The little girl who is angry, the grandfather who is angry but has not really started, the grandmother who sits next to the grandparents and grandchildren to watch the hilarity and smile from time to time, and the little girl's mother who laughs while filming with her mobile phone, seeing such a "family configuration" can't help but make people sigh. However, the little girl's mother posted the video online after filming it, accompanied by the title "Daughter is awesome", which is simply creepy!
The video quickly became popular, and many netizens participated in the hot discussion. Some said, "Strange family." Some said, "Habits are like killing children." Some said, "That's how the bear kids who beat people in kindergartens are taught." Some said: "The little girl has a fierce face, and it is true that family education is too important!" Some said, "Isn't Mom ashamed?" Some said: "An abnormal family will only harm the children." ”
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How terrible is coddling?
The cousin's son is 30 years old and is already a father of two children, and the daughter is 20 years old and is currently in her sophomore year. When the son was a child, because he was a son, the whole family felt that this was the bottom of the succession, so all kinds of doting, it can be said that it is to wind and wind, to rain and rain. After the birth of her daughter, she was spoiled because of her cleverness and cuteness, and all her bad tempers were tolerated one by one.
And the consequence of this is that now the son and the grandfather fight without being polite; the daughter and the father fight, and they are never soft.
Homeschooling is really too important for a child's growth!
Yesterday afternoon I was going to go downstairs to throw away the garbage, and waited for the elevator for a long time, but the elevator did not go anyway, and it was parked on the fifth floor. It took about ten minutes before the elevator came up. When I went down, I deliberately stopped on the fifth floor to see what was going on. As a result, I saw two seven- or eight-year-old girls playing with the elevator button, and I reminded them of two sentences, and when I closed the door, the two little girls actually began to swear. I was particularly surprised, what kind of family can teach such a child?
Children are not distinguished, how should parents educate? I think the words of netizens are very reasonable-
"Don't say it, when my child was more than two years old, I scolded my grandmother, I slapped my mouth twice, and I haven't said dirty words until now in high school." When children behave disrespectfully, they should be educated earlier instead of playing around. Otherwise, the child will think at the beginning that scolding the old man is making the old man happy, and the formation of habits will be arrogant. ”
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Do you have such bear parents and bear children around you? Let's hear it.