A buddy who played together complained yesterday that when he was not at home, there was a bear child from a rural hometown in the family, still a little girl, and he had a distant relationship with him. As a result, the bear child sneaked into his room while the parents were chatting, and gave Huo Huo all the two-dimensional hands he had accumulated and collected for many years.
This is something he has collected for many years, and there are many excellent ones, and there must be eighty thousand worth of less than 100,000. He was in a hurry, communicating with the other party, and the other party's understatement was not a toy? Pay you! But when he told the price, the other party did not answer the phone.
And after telling his parents, the parents were embarrassed to be in the way, and now he was really angry, but he couldn't get the child over and beat him up. Now I am angry with my parents and angry with this distant relative.
In fact, the birth of bear children is a pair of unreliable parents behind them. Some families dote on their children too much, but they will make their children go to extreme bears.
And the excessive love between father and daughter will also make the filial piety of the daughter go to the opposite.
For example, a few days ago in Dalian, Liaoning Province, where a daughter drove her mother to death, such as the case of Rong Ting, the daughter of Rong Lanxiang, the principal of Lanxiang Vocational School, who reported her mother, which is clear evidence of this situation. It is the excessive love of the parents that makes the daughter's filial piety go to the opposite side, and also makes the daughter have an endless greed for money. The father's unthinking dedication to money eventually became the reason for the loss of affection between father and daughter. Shakespeare's King Lear is also a tragedy of an unbalanced father-daughter relationship. King Lear also had two daughters, whom he poured out of his family's wealth to buy a dowry. But after marriage, they were forced by their husbands to try to exploit King Lear.
The father gives his daughter a lot of money, excessively cares for the child, and prevents others from accusing, which seems to be an endless love for his daughter. But if she goes too far, the daughter is prematurely spoiled by the father's excessive love.
In the end, she would not even want to give her father the slightest love, and even become reluctant to even look at the "poor father" for the last time. In Dickens's novel Martin Hoswei, there is a bourgeois named Antony Hosswei. He was a mercenary, unsympathetic man. His son Venus, Huo Shuwei, under his ears, also developed a greedy possessive desire for money. Antony was proud that his son could cherish money as much as he did, but he did not expect that his son's heart was more poisonous than his, and his means were more cruel than his.
These are actually a reflection of the real world, especially today, when children no longer respect their parents because you are a parent and I am a child. They will judge the correctness of their parents' statements, they will demand that parents give them equal opportunities, and what they need is justice.
As a father, the upbringing of children must first be based on tolerance, generosity and kindness. Children's imitation of their fathers will have an impact on their whole lives. The influence of the father's daily life on the influence of his children is very far-reaching. In some important aspects of life, the next generation is undoubtedly a copy of the previous generation.
In life, there are many fathers who mistakenly believe that giving their children a good material living environment is the most important and natural thing, at least adapted to the development of modern life. But they forget to give children a superior material life at the same time, but also to give children a rich spiritual life, so that children understand the hardships and tribulations in life, so as to help revise children's life values.
If you are a father, do you dare to admit your shortcomings in front of your children? Are you willing to explain your mistakes in front of your children? If you don't dare, then you can decide: you are not a qualified father. In life, there are many parents who, after their children have done something wrong, reprimand their children in a tone of voice, saying, "I have long known that you will not work in this way, but you will not listen to you." "After the horse, wait for the child to have an accident, then come to blame." Before or when the child does something, he is either waiting and watching, or he is not clear about the right and wrong of doing so, until it turns out that the child is wrong, he stands on the right position and does things after zhuge liang. For children, such parents are the most infuriating and hateful.
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