Bear children and work are not wearing the sky together, and no matter how focused they are, it is difficult to escape the critical blow of "mother" three consecutive calls

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These days the domestic small partners say that they are at home again, single out the children at home + work, the baby is scolded miserably, their work efficiency is also a mystery, none of them can take care of it...

Why are bear kids and work so unworthy?

Orange I, a real little expert with a baby, while playing with the housework can be an excellent old mother, now working at home for almost 7 years, and have not explored a way to write while taking the baby, with the baby I am good at, writing I am also good at, but these two add up to really not ...

It is said that my children are so old, relatively good to bring, do not have to wait to eat and drink Lasa, let him do something he will go, can also play by himself for a long time, I occasionally feel a little leisurely, and even see the needle brush mobile phone, but this does not mean that I can spread my hands to do my own thing.

Of course, I can do something mechanical that can be stopped at any time, such as washing dishes and folding clothes. But remember, don't do the brain thing, bear children are the sworn enemies of intellectual activity, their voice and touch, like an invisible egg beater inserted into the skull, can effortlessly mix your delicate brain cells into a paste!

As long as there is a bear child present, concentration and investment are useless, no matter how you are hit by inspiration, no matter how much you think like a fountain, it is difficult to escape the critical attack of the "mother" three consecutive calls, you can ignore the child, but you can't stop the brain from collapsing instantly and losing a lot of cache data. By the time I got back to God, my brain had completely cooled down, and only a white expanse was left clean!

Statistics show that if you are interrupted at work, you need to work for another 30-50 minutes to return to your original state...

In this way, you lose a wonderful idea that you can never get back, just to tell your baby that the little duck you drew is so cute.

And the bear child stood there looking at you with a flickering innocent look, completely unaware of what a spectacular mushroom cloud he had just created in his mother's head...

Still, it's hard to blame your child for this kind of thing, and it's hard to completely forbid your child from looking for you because you're at work.

First, children do not understand the seriousness of "interrupting the train of thought", after all, children who are playing are often interrupted by adults.

Second, the child's business is also a matter, he is still a child, the support and help of adults is a necessity for him, and he should not find an adult when he has something to do!

But these things are also really annoying, saying that it is important is a joke at all, but it is not important to say that it is not important, it does not matter!

First of all, the things that must be dealt with urgently must be taken care of:

Mom, I'm done pulling the sorghum!

Mom, brother bullied me!

Mom, wow, it hurts

Mom, there are spiders, ah!!!!!!!!!

……

Second, even if it is not a particularly urgent matter, it is difficult to ignore:

Mom, what does this word say?

Mom, I don't have any paper to draw!

Mom, there's no net!

……

Again, even if you know that the baby is purely brushing up on the sense of existence, it seems inappropriate to ignore it:

Mom, do you like me? I like you!

Mom, look at the gift I made for you!

Mom I miss you, when are you going to be okay?

……

If you ignore this, what if you will feel inferior to your own animals?

Of course, you can not manage it all to the end, do not have to leave the desk, and even sometimes move your mouth, but there must be a little response, but once you respond, the inspiration of this grinding little goblin immediately sprinkled with joy and ran out of shadows.

And the most amazing thing is that when you are okay he is fine, and as soon as you have something to do, he is in trouble.

The divine beasts can play with their own pleasure for more than an hour, ignoring you at all, idle you shaking, but you answer the phone for less than a minute, and you are sure that there will be a heart-rending cry...

Mr. Juicer said that when he was a student, he used to work as a cashier in a clothing store, and there were not many customers, so the workload was actually not large, but he only did it for a week and could not continue, preferring to continue to be a poor student.

Because although most of the time in the store is empty, but there will be customers at any time, you have to be on standby at any time, customers have to greet immediately, so you can't do your own thing when you look at the store, you can't be distracted, this is an irresponsible performance, so when there is no customer, you can only be in a state of extreme boredity and dry consumption, and within a few days you will feel that the exhausted mind is dry.

Then he said, I didn't know at the time, there is another thing in the world that is more dry than looking at a clothing store, that is, watching children - at least those customers who come into the store are very polite, and they don't move and scream and cry...

It is not easy for parents to work from home, it is not easy for children to be bored at home, everyone is considerate of each other, help each other!

Orange has sorted out some games of staying at home with children in the epidemic area, and posted them today in the hope of helping friends:

In addition to the little dolls who need to accompany them, there are many big children in online classes, and those who have experienced it know that working while accompanying children to online classes is simply a horror movie!

You have to supervise the class, remind you not to desert, but also have to help assist, the child is not obedient, saying that you are different from the teacher, you can not be fierce, but also have to help the homework to turn in the homework on time...

Aaaah, minutes can make you collapse and your blood pressure soars by 180! Mother's love balance becomes negative!

The online class thing is also quite magical: the teacher is still the teacher, the student is still the student, the schoolwork is still the homework, why just move the location back from the school back to the home, and suddenly it becomes extremely difficult?

Some time ago, Orange wrote a special article, you can poke the link to see in detail:

All in all, a small screen can only transmit images and sounds, and it can't create a class atmosphere at all! If you want your child not to fall behind in the class, or try to create some classroom atmosphere for your child as much as possible...

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