Children's noisy incidents lead to frequent conflicts, why modern people are more and more "malicious" towards children

As soon as the holiday arrives, the train and plane are full of families traveling with babies, which is inevitably noisy, so there is such a rule with babies on a high-speed train: "If the child cries, please take it to the connection of the carriage to coax." ”

As soon as this provision came out, it immediately aroused heated discussion:

Some people think that "children are particularly noisy in the car, such a rule praises both hands!" ”

Some people think that "such a rule is too harsh for children, it is really unfriendly!" ”

Is it a harsh requirement that the child be asked to take it to the carriage junction as soon as he moves?

I don't know when it started, the current people's "malice" towards children is increasing, from the beginning of taking the boy into the women's bathroom to the current high-speed rail top, each time can trigger widespread discussion, the comments are even more shocking.

Some people even say that children should stay at home and not go out.

More and more people are reluctant to have children, and more and more people begin to hate children, this "hatred of children" phenomenon is becoming more and more serious, why?

Unbearable "bear child"

Frankly speaking, bear children are really annoying.

On a high-speed train, the bear child pulled the passenger's hair, and also played the braincase of others, and the persuasion was fruitless and caused a conflict, but he did not expect that the child's parents were angry: "He is only the first grade, how old are you, how is he played?" ”

On one train, the child kicked the back of the passenger chair in front of him, was stopped, and the child's mother and father even abused the passengers, which later led to a physical altercation.

"Raising without teaching, the scourge of parents; Teaching without a way, parents are guilty."

Everyone hates bear children more and more, in fact, they hate the bear parents and bear education behind them.

What "bear parents" are best at is turning a blind eye to their children's mistakes, and "tolerance and maintenance" again and again, making children more and more emboldened and unscrupulous, children do not understand, parents do not understand, and finally arouse public anger.

The psychology of "bullying the soft and fearing the hard"

For the high-speed rail regulations, there is no lack of people who applaud and bully the soft and fear the hard.

Children are noisy and have no quality, so the quality of adults is high?

Those who occupy seats, those who are not allowed to move the seat in the front row, and adults who put their feet on the front seat are everywhere;

Loud phone calls, watching short videos outside to brush dramas, playing cards and laughing adults are even more numerous,

Why didn't anyone ask them to go to the carriage junction?

Because they do not dare, they dare to accuse children who are younger than themselves and are not yet mature in mind, but they dare not demand adults who are taller than themselves.

To put it bluntly, it is "bullying the soft and fearing the hard".

Frankly speaking, when I saw those messages full of anger, I even secretly rejoiced, glad that my children have grown up, and flying by high-speed train will no longer "annoy" people.

It is advised not to go out with children. This is not realistic, does having a child mean losing the qualification to go out? Will having children become the target of public criticism and be blamed everywhere?

Parents need to do well

This society hates bear children, and even more hates the unqualified bear parents and education behind bear children.

A mother is afraid that her children will be too noisy on the high-speed train and affect others, so she buys stickers in advance, and after getting on the bus, the children are not noisy or noisy, and concentrate on playing stickers.

A parent carefully prepared earplugs, candy and apology letters for the passengers on the plane, greeted everyone in advance, and the passengers on the flight expressed their understanding.

Some parents prepare snacks for their children, and some prepare cartoons for their children.

There are always more ways than difficulties, and as parents, there are always ways for children to sit quietly and without making noise.

And the reason why Xiong parents allow their children to make trouble is because these children will annoy others, not themselves.

As parents, we want others to accept our children, and we must first discipline our children's behavior, rather than letting them go free.

Be tolerant of your children

We can't beat a child to death with a stick, thinking that he is a nasty bear child, especially for younger babies.

Some babies are not adapted to the unfamiliar environment, afraid, the environment makes him uncomfortable, or physically uncomfortable, he will hum and chirp, or even cry.

The "bear children" on the journey are only a few, and most of the parents they meet are reasonable and will try to take care of the baby and not let him disturb others. For them, we should be more tolerant of children and more understanding of parents, instead of blindly accusing and complaining.

Have you ever met noisy children during your travels?

Take the baby out, do you have any good little tricks to appease?

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