Pay attention to the diary of the fish parenting do not get lost on the way to parenting
Parents with easy babies understand high-quality companionship, and there are two misunderstandings about high-quality companionship that you must be clear. One is for example, for example, the father with the baby often children there to play with their own mobile phones next to the side, you leave the child only a pair of torso to see the phone, no attention to no interaction, what is called, this is called accompaniment is not called companionship is not high quality; the other is for example, the grandmother with the baby from morning to night also wash and cook very hard, when the mother leaves the child off work The child is kissed with the mother, this is because you accompany the child for a day and do not go to work The hour of the mother's company is of high quality, and the accompanying child is not in the length of time but in the quality of companionship. So how to achieve high-quality companionship, in fact, it is very simple to do the following four points you will find that accompanying children is actually a very interesting thing.
First put down the mobile phone to do something interesting with the child, we can read picture books to the child to accompany her to do games, and even go out to pick up stones and collect leaves. Put the body and mind of adults and children in the same time and space, discuss and communicate with each other and explore together, and children will worship you.
The second response to the needs of children, especially one to three-year-old children into the first rebellious period of life, they have all kinds of needs and curiosities in their minds, he wants to do a lot of things, such as opening the door, pressing the toilet, pressing the elevator, and will ask you a lot of why, if you can give him help and explain the child will trust you.
The third understand the child's thoughts, the child's innocence and bad emotions are his unique temperament at this stage, do not hit him with adult standards. The child shouted: Mom, look, there is a little snail here. What a good look to hurry home to eat, you don't want to be so upset, you can say, really there is, the mother has not seen, then we say goodbye to the little snail, and the child will be more confident.
Fourth, let the child play alone, and some mothers said that I would be exhausted every day to read picture books and play games to her children. In fact, giving children the time and space to play by themselves is also a kind of high-quality companionship, when children play on their own, such as building blocks, playing with sand, what we have to do is to wait and not disturb, you will be more worry-free, children will be more independent and focused.
In fact, everyone thinks about why some parents feel tired with their babies, and some think it is very interesting to bring a baby, because accompanying is to fulfill a responsibility, and companionship can enjoy parent-child time. You may wish to spend a little time every day trying high-quality companionship, children and you believe that there will be a new transformation.