Recently, a man posted a reward of 100 yuan, asking netizens to support him and want to save his wife. Unexpectedly, it attracted merciless comments from netizens: The one who quits parenting first is the one who quits marriage first!
According to the man, he shared his bed with his wife for many years because he had to take care of the children. After discovering that his wife had an ambiguous chat with another man last year, the two had a big quarrel, and since then the relationship between the husband and wife has become worse and worse.
Now, he found out that he still loved his wife and wanted to get her back, so he spent a "huge amount of money" of 100 yuan to ask netizens for support.
As soon as they heard about the cause and effect, many people found out the details: in order to take care of the children, they slept in separate beds for many years. When it comes to "many years", it is conceivable that the responsibility of taking care of the newborn is handed over to the wife as soon as the child is born.
only mentions that his wife is separated from him, but he does not mention that he has evaded his parenting responsibilities for many years.
Everyone knows how difficult it is to bring a newborn. Obviously, the children are not the wife's alone, but they are forced to become "widowed education". Presumably, the wife's fatigue and disappointment are increasing day by day, but the husband turns a blind eye.
Many netizens also understand their wives very well, saying: "Widowed" for so many years, isn't it normal to finally find someone who can understand and care about you?
It is often said that the relationship between husband and wife is actually a legal partnership. Support each other, understand each other, exchange each other's difficulties and happiness, and make the small family have a good time.
Even if you can't provide great wealth and wealth, at least you can give each other emotional value. Home is a harbor for tired birds to return to their nests, not a lonely castle in a corner.
As netizens said, what is the difference between husband and wife sleeping in separate beds for so many years since the birth of their children and divorce and separation. A man who can give 100 yuan to netizens is estimated to be a king of pies in life, and he can't count on it.
Between husband and wife, children should be the crystallization of love, there must always be someone to make money to support the family, but there is no evasion of parenting responsibilities, not close to the wife and children, no one will always be selfless dedication.
Instead of using 100 yuan to ask a stranger for help, it is better to use the money to let his wife eat a good meal.
What do you think about this?