Parenting is foggy, don't let the old routines pit the baby!
In this era of information explosion, parenting seems to have become a hot search war on the Internet. We are standing on the cusp of the times, holding all kinds of parenting cheats, but there is still a fog in front of us. The parenting scriptures of the previous generation are like hidden "pits", and if we are not careful, we may be planted with a big heel.
Looking back, those dusty memories seem to be still vivid. The parenting style of the older generation always carries a "traditional style" and "sense of the times". At that time, parents believed in the iron law of "no fight, no device", and felt that only strict discipline could shape a good boy. However, this simple and crude parenting method often ignores the inner needs and emotional world of children, leaving them with an indelible psychological "shadow area".
Not to mention the ubiquitous "comparatively ill". Parents always like to compare their babies with other people's "school tyrants", trying to stimulate their baby's self-motivation in this way. However, this comparison is often counterproductive, not only making the baby feel inferior and frustrated, but also may make them start to doubt life: "Why am I always worse than others?"
As parents in the new era, we stand at a turning point in history. It's time to revisit those old parenting styles, learn from them, and don't repeat them. Of course, this does not mean that we should completely abandon the traditional concept of parenting, but to bring up the baby in a more scientific and humane way.
In my opinion, the core of parenting is actually understanding and respect. Each child is an individual with their own thoughts, emotions and needs. As parents, we should listen to the baby's voice, understand their inner world, and respect their personality and choices. Only in this way can we establish an equal and intimate parent-child relationship and lay a solid foundation for the healthy growth of the baby.
Of course, parenting is not so easy. In these challenging and uncertain times, we need to be vigilant at all times to avoid falling into various parenting "minefields". For example, don't blindly pursue the so-called "perfect child", pay more attention to the baby's interests and specialties, encourage them to develop their potential, don't spoil the baby too much, teach them to think independently and solve problems, don't forget to give the baby enough love and support to meet their emotional needs.
At the same time, we also need to understand that parenting is a marathon, not a 100-meter sprint. It requires patience and effort from us to continue to accompany the baby to grow up. In this process, we should not only pay attention to the progress and growth of the baby, but also pay attention to our own growth and change. Because parenting is not only a responsibility and obligation, but also a process of self-improvement and growth.
However, despite our efforts to avoid stepping on pitfalls, the road to parenting is still full of unknowns and suspense. We don't know what challenges and difficulties we will face in the future, and we don't know if our parenting style is really suitable for our baby. This uncertainty makes us anxious, but it is also this uncertainty that motivates us to keep exploring and learning.
In these uncertain times, we need to keep an open mind and a spirit of innovation. Dare to try new parenting ideas and methods, and have the courage to face the challenges and difficulties in the process of parenting. Only in this way can we go further and further on the road of parenting and create more possibilities for the future of the baby.
I would like to conclude by saying that parenting is a journey that has no end. In this process, we will experience countless joys, sorrows, and sorrows, but as long as we love, accompany, and guide with our hearts, the baby will be able to thrive and become the pride of our hearts. So, let's work together to hold up a clear sky for the baby's future!
(I am willing to fight alongside you on this parenting journey full of unknowns and challenges.) Remember to continue to follow me, I will share more parenting experience and experience, let us explore the mystery of parenting together, and witness the growth and transformation of the baby. Working together to create a better future for the next generation!)