There is a "little tiger" at home: unlock the growth code behind the baby's "temper tantrum".
Since the first birthday of my cute "little tiger", I seem to have stepped into the "minefield" parenting battlefield. used to be a soft and sweet little angel, but now it seems to be a different person, and he starts the "crying mode" when he doesn't agree, which makes people scratch their heads. This sudden change made me, a novice mother, "can't hold it", and also triggered my curiosity and exploration of this special stage of growth of babies.
Thinking back to a year ago, the baby was still a well-behaved little cute baby, so soft and cute that people wanted to pinch it. But now, when he crosses the "one-year-old threshold", he is like a wild horse that has escaped, and he is so willful that it makes people have a headache. Why is this so? I was lost in thought.
In fact, if you think about it, this is just a necessary stage in the baby's growth process. As their self-consciousness awakens, their perception of the world becomes more and more acute. They begin to understand their existence and power, and want to express their needs and wishes in various ways. Unfortunately, the language and mobility have not kept up, so we can only get our attention through crying and tantrums.
Moreover, baby tantrums may also be related to their physiological needs. For example, if they are hungry, sleepy, or unwell, they may not be able to express themselves accurately in words, and can only vent their emotions in the form of crying. At this time, we have to incarnate "Sherlock Holmes", carefully observe the state of the baby, and meet their needs in time.
So, in the face of the baby's "temper tantrums", how should we deal with it? This is really a technical job!
First of all, I have to say that staying calm and patient is key. When babies cry, we are easily led astray by their emotions and become excited. But that will only make the situation worse. Therefore, we should try to stay calm and deal with their crying with a calm mind. At the same time, you must have enough patience to listen and understand your baby's feelings, so that they can feel our love and support.
In the process, I gradually realized that understanding and accepting your baby's emotions is the key to solving problems. We should not blindly blame them for being willful and vexatious, but we should look at the problem from their perspective and understand their needs and troubles. In this way, we can better communicate with our babies and help them establish the right way to express their emotions.
In addition to understanding and acceptance, we can also try some "practical experience". For example, when babies have tantrums, we can gently soothe them and convey love and warmth with hugs and kisses. If your baby still cries, let them vent for a while and wait for a little more to stabilize before communicating. At the same time, we can also teach babies some simple emotion management skills so that they can better express their feelings and needs.
Of course, when dealing with the problem of the baby's temper, we also have to adhere to some principles and bottom lines. Although we need to understand and accept our baby's emotions, we should not indulge their behavior indefinitely. For unreasonable requirements and behaviors, we have to firmly express our positions and attitudes, and guide the baby to gradually develop good behavior habits.
Getting along with the baby during this period of time made me deeply realize that parenting is not easy. Babies are not their fault for having tantrums, but rather a normal part of their growth. As parents, we need to treat them with a more tolerant and understanding attitude, and accompany them through this special stage with love and patience.
At the same time, I am also aware of the great responsibilities of being a parent. We need to continue to learn and grow, and improve our parenting knowledge and skills to better cope with the challenges of our baby's growth. Only in this way can we become a solid backing on the road of baby's growth and accompany them to grow up healthy and happy.
In this parenting journey, which is full of challenges and surprises, I have come to realize that every growth of a baby is a test of our patience and wisdom. In the face of the baby's temper and crying, we must not only learn to understand and accept, but also learn how to guide and educate. And all this is inseparable from our deep love and selfless dedication to the baby.
In addition, I also realized that parenting is not an overnight process, it needs to be experienced and felt with our hearts. Every baby is a unique individual with their own personality and needs. Therefore, we should not simply apply the parenting experience of others, but should formulate appropriate parenting strategies according to the characteristics and actual situation of our own babies.
In the process, I also learned how to adjust my mindset and emotions. In the face of my baby's crying and temper, I try to stay calm and rational and deal with it with a calm mind. At the same time, I also learned how to communicate effectively with my babies so that they can understand and accept my guidance and education.
Of course, the process of parenting is also full of fun and surprises. When I see my baby gradually learning new skills and knowledge, I feel extremely relieved and proud. These beautiful moments have strengthened my belief and determination in parenting.
I would like to conclude by saying that parenting is like a marathon that requires long-lasting patience and perseverance. Let's use love and patience to accompany babies through every stage of growth! Let us continue to learn and grow on the road of parenting, become better parents, and witness a better future for babies!