Let the child's waist be hard, you have to be a super parent who can "support the waist".
Every little baby is a unique seed, in the field of growth, they may waver, but what really makes them straighten their backs and smile proudly is often the hands behind them that are always firm - that is the "support" of parents.
First, let's talk about "respecting children, not forcing sharing". Have you ever imagined that little toy held tightly in the palm of a child's hand? That could be his whole world. When other children stared at it with longing eyes and asked to share, the child's heart actually experienced a small "earthquake". If parents ignore their children's feelings and insist on taking away the toys, the child's world may collapse. Therefore, parents need to be the guardian saint of their children's hearts, respect their choices, and let them know that their feelings and needs are equally important.
I think this is not just a matter of sharing, but also a respect for children's self-awareness and independent personality. When children learn to respect their own feelings under the guidance of their parents, they will gradually learn to respect others, and this kind of education is a real win-win situation!
Next, let's talk about "avoid comparisons, every child is a limited edition". When parents get together to chat, have you ever heard the words: "Your child is really good, but my family can't." This comparison is like an invisible knife that pierces the child's heart deeply. Every child has their own shining point and their own pace of growth. Parents should learn to look at their children with an appreciative eye and discover their uniqueness, rather than comparing them to others.
In my opinion, this kind of comparison is not only detrimental to children's development, but can also cause them to have low self-esteem and frustration. Parents should be a source of self-confidence for their children, so that they understand that they are unique beings in this world, and that they do not need to compare themselves with others, just be themselves.
Let's talk about "fighting side by side with children". In life, children will inevitably encounter various problems and conflicts. At this time, the attitude of parents is crucial. Do you choose to blame your children and leave them alone in their troubles? Or stand by their side and fight side by side with them? Wise parents choose the latter. Because, in the hearts of children, parents are the most solid backing. When they are struggling, the support and understanding of parents can make them feel reassuring and empowered.
I remember when I was a child, I had an argument with someone and came home feeling uneasy. But to my surprise, my parents did not blame me, but patiently listened to me tell what happened and taught me how to deal with it properly. At that moment, I felt strong support from my family and also taught me how to face problems bravely.
Therefore, I believe that parents should be their comrades-in-arms and guiding lights when facing their children's conflicts and problems. Work with your child to analyze problems and find solutions, so that they can learn to grow and improve in the process of solving problems. This kind of education not only cultivates children's independence and problem-solving skills, but also strengthens the parent-child relationship and makes the family more harmonious.
Next, let's talk about "protecting children's dignity and being their exclusive shield". Children's dignity is an important support for their growth, and once violated, it can cause irreparable damage to their psyche. Therefore, when someone reprimands a child in front of a parent, parents should not hesitate to stand up for the child's dignity.
I think this is not only a protection for children, but also a defense of their human dignity. Parents should be the most solid backing for their children, so that they can have enough courage and self-confidence in the face of external pressure.
Finally, let's talk about "paying attention to children's emotional needs and giving them a sense of security". As children grow up, emotional needs are one of their most basic needs. When children are criticized or otherwise frustrated at school, what they need most is understanding and love from their parents. At this time, parents should give their children enough support and encouragement to make them feel the warmth and safety of home.
I feel that this kind of emotional support is more important than material satisfaction. Because it is only when children feel the love and support of their parents that they can build a strong sense of self-confidence and security, so that they can bravely face life's challenges.
In addition to the above points, I would also like to talk about my own evaluation of the role of "supporting" parents. In my opinion, "supporting" parents is not only a role of protector and supporter, but also a role of guide and educator. They need to teach their children how to face problems independently, how to get along with others, and how to build self-confidence and security while respecting them. Only such parents can truly cultivate confident, independent and responsible children.
However, it is not easy to become a qualified "support" parent. They need to keep learning and growing to be able to keep up with the pace of their children's growth. At the same time, they need to be patient and loving enough to truly understand their children's needs and give them the best possible support.
Parents will also face many challenges and difficulties in this process. For example, how to balance the relationship between respecting children and guiding them, and how to protect children while not making them become too dependent? These are all issues that parents need to think about and explore deeply.
But it is these challenges and difficulties that make the role of "supporting" parents more meaningful and challenging. Every time we solve a problem and grow together with our children, it is a valuable experience and wealth for parents.
At the end of the article, I would like to leave a small suspense for parents: Are you ready to become the most solid backing for your children, and face the challenges and difficulties of the future with them? If you are not ready, then from now on, let us work together and grow together! Because only when we become the most solid backing for children, can they straighten their waists, move confidently into the future, and become the most shining self!