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In the face of losing money and endangering your child's life, what do you choose as a parent?
I used to think that parents must not hesitate to choose to "lose money", can not let the child have the slightest danger, the child has a little danger, parents are intolerable.
Even if you just see the child crying, the heart is as uncomfortable as a pinprick, and there is nothing wrong with giving up some money, but the child's inner uneasiness and trepidation are too damaging to the child' damage, not to mention that it may endanger the child's life.
Until I saw this pair of parents, I refreshed some of my understanding of parents, some parents will really have property first, children second.
The young children in Jiangsu were locked in the car, and their parents refused to smash the window to save people
Yesterday in Jiangsu, something happened that many parents did not understand.
A girl is trapped in a car, and through the window glass you can see the girl's face red, crying, full of fear.
The fire truck came quickly, and the firefighters wanted to smash the window glass to rescue the child as soon as possible, because the child looked so pitiful.
But something unexpected happened, and the child's parents did not agree that the firefighters were doing this, on the grounds that the locksmith had been called, and the master would come immediately.
The firefighters had no choice but to obey their parents' arrangements.
Firefighters cover the glass of the car with combat suits to avoid direct sunlight from increasing the temperature in the car too quickly, and also detect the temperature in the car from time to time to prevent the temperature in the car from being too high to hurt the child.
The final result was good, and the locksmith arrived in time to open the car door to rescue the child.
Although the result is good, but caused a lot of people to discuss, people more reaction is not to understand, obviously can save the child, why let the child endure this painful suffering?
If something happens to the child, won't the parents regret it?
Some netizens said: This parent is either really stupid, or really wise, and Zhuge Liang is good at calculating.
Zhuge Liang's ability is counted, and if zhuge liang's ability is really there, he will have become a celebrity long ago.
In the face of danger, are you willing to let your child take risks, or lose your property to keep your child safe
From the parents' point of view, they may say, what's the big deal, isn't the child okay? The child is fine and has not lost property, isn't that the best way to deal with it?
Even now, when the child is safe, I still don't think this is the best way to deal with it, because the growing fear has hurt the child as I wait.
The longer this fear lasts, the greater the impact on the child, is a window glass important, or is the child's mental health important?
This is still a contrast when there is no other situation, the longer the child stays in the confined space, the greater the possibility of brain damage, so it seems that for thousands of dollars, the child's life safety is endangered, it is really not worth it.
A few days ago, an unpleasant thing happened in my family, the baby and the mother, the husband in the corridor, two adults, actually let a child into the elevator, watching the elevator door is going to close, the baby instantly cried, I ran out of the room, the mother reacted in time with her arm into the gap in the elevator, the elevator opened.
Mom's actions were dangerous, but she could only do so, and even then the baby was so frightened and sobbed for a long time.
My husband was not satisfied with my attitude at that time, he said that it was not that nothing happened, I said, it has happened, but it has not caused a bad impact, the child's fear has been generated.
These two days, the child refuses to take the elevator, and must be held to enter the elevator.
However, fortunately, the first time to soothe, will not cause much harm to the baby, in time, the impact of this matter will be weakened.
However, the longer you are locked up in a small confined space, the greater the harm to your child.
There are several things in the child's growth, the more parents pay attention to the better
For children, it is either not life-threatening or safe.
We must try to give the child the correct guidance, so that the child may try to have as little fear as possible.
The first thing is about the private car, for young children, parents must take good care of the child, do not leave the child alone in the private car.
This is something that can easily happen and is something that endangers the safety of a child's life.
Even if the child is rescued in the end, it will leave a big psychological shadow.
The second thing, also mentioned above, is that the child enters the elevator alone. Be sure to remind young children that they cannot enter the elevator alone, and even if they are often reminded, they must pay attention to the children.
For example, after going out, the child goes out first, reminding the child not to enter the elevator, but to wait for the mother to enter the elevator together.
This is also a daily trifle that cannot be ignored.
Then there is the inability to climb the windows.
Before a friend shared a state in the circle of friends, the picture is a 3-year-old son climbing the railing of the floor-to-ceiling window, with the text: scared and sweaty, this kid is too naughty.
Many times the child's ability to move will exceed the expectations of our parents, which is not a good thing, and often when we find out, it has caused tragedy.
Be sure to take good care of your child, don't let your child be in the slightest danger, and it is best not to let your child experience this fear.
Memory has a concept of time, but fear can travel through age and remain imprinted in the depths of a child's mind.