"Ordinary," the word, is too hard for most people in the world.
A native family with acceptable material conditions, a friendly and kind growth environment, a smooth process of study, a job to support oneself, a confidant lover, a filial piety child...
And the most important and basic thing is to have a healthy body.
Peng Kangli is not so "ordinary", she is just a 90 cm tall pocket girl, a "porcelain doll" who fractures her bones at every turn.
But she never gave up the hope of moving towards an "ordinary" life, and in the end she reaped the happiness that belonged to her.
Mountain girls have lost their parents since childhood and come from poor backgrounds but are still self-reliant
In 1992, Peng Kangli was born in a mountainous area in Loudi, Hunan Province, where conditions were very backward, and her family used firewood to cook water.
This is unimaginable in the modern era of advanced science and technology.
In addition to her family's poverty, Peng Kangli's father died in a car accident when she was 13 years old, and her mother left her when she was very young.
Since then, Peng Kangli and her grandparents have lived a poor life together.
But bad luck didn't spare her, and she was detected for dwarfism, and her adult height was only about 90 centimeters.
At the same time, she also suffers from brittle bone disease, which is extremely easy to fracture, and usually travels by crutches and support from others.
Even so, Peng Kangli has not given up the hope of life. The fact that her family is not from a good background does not mean that she must live her life in a muddy state.
In order to get a job opportunity, Peng Kangli set her goal at a first-tier city close to Hunan, such as Guangshen.
But her grandparents, because of her health, were very worried about her and did not want her to work so far away.
Peng Kangli is not short of small ambitions and will never give up lightly. She told her grandparents that she was going to the county town to do something and find someone to take her to the station in the county town on a motorcycle.
Then she asked the motorcycle driver to carry her onto the bus. This bus is going to Shenzhen, and Peng Kangli is like this, a person, bravely moving towards the unknown road.
When she arrived in Shenzhen, she found an art troupe with a disability.
The troupe gives her easy work, such as beating beats while others are singing, or clapping and waving her hands to stir up the atmosphere when the performance is high.
Although there is no skill in ease, for Peng Kangli, this is the first step to becoming an "ordinary person".
At that time, she did not think of getting married and having children.
But fate is so elusive, she is in this art troupe, met the other half of life.
When the art troupe encounters the object of interest, a look of support promises for life
When she first saw Xu Baohui, Peng Kangli thought he was a forty- or fifty-year-old uncle, and his facial nerves were atrophied and caused his facial features to be crooked, like burns.
After getting along, Peng Kangli knew that Xu Baohui was only five years older than her.
In fact, Xu Baohui is not born with a disability, his life changed at the age of seven.
That year, he went to his grandmother's house to play.
When the boy was seven years old, when he was naughty, he saw a tree and climbed it three times and two times. However, the foot slipped and fell, causing muscle atrophy in the face and legs.
This not only made Xu Baohui unable to move, but also caused his facial deformity. But Xu Baohui, like Peng Kangli, has an independent and strong heart.
After graduating from high school, he went to learn to repair home appliances, and finally mastered a craft for a living. Later, he opened a home appliance repair shop in his hometown and sold some home appliances by the way.
However, because the store was too small and the business was not good, he only sold one remote control a month when he was at his worst. Eventually, the repair shop also closed.
Xu Baohui, who lost his job, was not discouraged, he liked to sing since he was a child, and everyone said that he sang well.
Once, he saw a video of a Xidan girl selling art and singing on the street, and the same idea came to mind.
His first stop was Guangzhou, but his friends in Guangzhou told him that Xu Baohui's face might frighten the audience. Xu Baohui was momentarily timid, and the singing plan died.
Xu Baohui thought that his dream of singing had stopped.
On the last night of returning home from Guangzhou, he came to the Internet café to surf the Internet, and his life has since turned.
He was in Tieba and saw the Shenzhen Art Troupe recruiting. He sent a video of himself singing to the regimental commander, who immediately called him over to work.
After that, Peng Kangli also came to the art troupe. Just as Peng Kangli misunderstood his age, he also misunderstood Peng Kangli's age. He thought it was a twelve-year-old girl, but he didn't realize that she was twenty years old.
Neither of them felt anything for each other at first.
It was an accident that brought the hearts of both sides closer.
At that time, Peng Kangli walked on crutches as usual. Suddenly, her feet slipped and she fell heavily to the ground. At this time, Xu Baohui happened to pass nearby, and when he saw Peng Kangli's appearance after wrestling, he suddenly felt pain.
Xu Baohui hurriedly stepped forward and picked up Peng Kangli and placed her on a stool. At this moment, the two of them looked at each other for a moment.
It is also this look, the feelings between them, from ordinary same things to love.
On Peng Kangli's twentieth birthday, Xu Baohui walked a long way and bought Peng Kangli a doll and a box of chocolates.
That day, they established a relationship. Xu Baohui solemnly promised Peng Kangli: "I want to take care of you for the rest of my life, no matter what happens." ”
Peng Kangli was very worried that Xu Baohui's parents would not agree to be together because of her body.
But Xu Baohui's parents gave an answer that was contrary to what she expected.
Marriages are occasionally unhappy but sweet, and they are suddenly pregnant when they do not intend to have children
Xu Baohui was born in 1987 in Yancheng, Jiangsu Province, with a twin brother and an older sister. Perhaps it is the younger brother in the family, coupled with Xu Baohui's body, the parents have always held an enlightened attitude towards Xu Baohui.
When Xu Baohui took Peng Kangli home, they did not dislike Peng Kangli's body.
It is only because Peng Kangli's legs and feet are inconvenient, Xu Baohui often carries her out, and they are worried that Xu Baohui's body will not be able to eat.
Xu Baohui's mother, Xu Qilan, once said to Xu Baohui in a serious tone: "As long as you feel that you can do it, then there is nothing we can't do." ”
The trust of his parents inspired Xu Baohui, and he tried to make himself a responsible man.
After Xu Baohui followed Peng Kangli to her hometown, he saw that Peng Kangli's family was surrounded by disciples, and he strengthened his determination to take care of Peng Kangli.
And Peng Kangli does not want to become a burden for Xu Baohui. She wasn't tall enough, and the bench came together. Standing on the bench every day to do housework, he quickly won the favor of Xu Baohui's parents.
In early 2012, Xu Baohui's father reached the end of his cancer. His last wish in life is to see Xu Baohui's two brothers get married.
In order to fulfill his father's last wish and to give himself a home, Xu Baohui and Peng Kangli married.
After marriage, Xu Qilan regarded Peng Kangli as her own, and Peng Kangli often needed help because of walking problems. When Xu Baohui was away, it was Xu Qilan who was beside Peng Kangli.
Peng Kangli has not had a mother to take care of her since childhood, and in her mind, Xu Qilan is just like her mother. Whenever Xu Qilan was mentioned, her tears couldn't help but flow down.
And the husband and wife duo have not stopped dreaming because of their disability.
With the company of his wife, Xu Baohui plucked up the courage, stood on the street again, and began to husband and wife.
However, because of the physical reasons of the two people, it will always attract the misunderstanding of many enthusiastic people.
Once, they were singing in the street when the police suddenly came up to check their ID.
It turned out that they suspected that Peng Kangli was a child laborer and Xu Baohui was a human trafficker. Xu Baohui could only pull out his ID card and marriage certificate to explain the origin of the matter.
Although there are often some small twists and turns, as well as the burden of the economy, the husband and wife are very strong and independent, and the home is organized and clean.
As for children, Xu Baohui already knew before marriage that with Peng Kangli's physical condition, there may be no children in the future.
But what they never expected was that after two years of marriage, Peng Kangli actually became pregnant unexpectedly.
After giving birth to a child through countless hardships, he found that he had become a "porcelain doll" at the age of three.
At that time, Peng Kangli and Xu Baohui ran all over Dongguan, Quanzhou, Nantong and other large and small hospitals, and they only came to one conclusion - Peng Kangli's body was not suitable for childbirth.
Because her body is too small, if she wants to carry a normal-size fetus, then her internal organs will be squeezed together, especially the heart, which will bear a great burden and may even be life-threatening.
The doctor advises to remove the child.
Peng Kangli had a hard time accepting this fact, and she had just left the clinic with tears flowing directly.
However, Peng Kangli very much wants a child.
She felt that her mother had not wanted her since she was a child, and she hoped to have a child to make up for her regrets.
At the same time, Peng Kangli still has a small thought.
She felt that procreation was the right of every ordinary woman. If she can give birth to a child, it means that she has taken another big step towards "ordinary".
For this reason, Xu Baohui and Peng Kangli had a big fight.
Xu Baohui has a completely opposite attitude to Peng Kangli.
The moment he lifted Peng Kangli up, he decided to take care of the girl in front of him for the rest of his life, and he couldn't see Peng Kangli suffering any risks because of the child.
If the child and Peng Kangli can only choose one, then he will not hesitate to choose Peng Kangli.
But at Peng Kangli's insistence, Xu Baohui still compromised.
During the whole pregnancy process, Peng Kangli did not worry much, but Xu Baohui was worried all day.
Because many hospitals are reluctant to take the risk of Peng Kangli's pregnancy, they go around and return to Xu Baohui's hometown of Yancheng to give birth. Yancheng Hospital takes good care of them.
Finally, after Peng Kangli gave birth to a healthy baby boy after the caesarean section, named Rongrong.
Peng Kangli later mentioned this matter, full of emotion and excitement.
The child is born with five pounds and seven pounds, and does not need to be sent to the incubator.
The hospital also showed their kindness, and they collectively raised the cost of having a baby, which greatly reduced the financial pressure for them.
Later, Rong Rong was found to have mild brittle bone disease.
From birth to about three years old, he fractured or slightly fractured his bone about ten times.
But Peng Kangli does not regret it, she believes that Rongrong can face all the difficulties of life strongly.
The child's healthy growth is excellent, and the couple's life is hard but strong
Rong Rong did inherit the tenacity of Peng Kangli and Xu Baohui, and even though he was pregnant with brittle bone disease, he still grew up positively and optimistically.
And as he grew older, rongrong's brittle bone disease symptoms became less and less, and now it was no different from an ordinary child.
In 2021, Rong Rong is already 6 years old. Now in elementary school, I look very cute and agile, and I have gathered the advantages of my parents. At a young age, he wrote a good handwriting.
And RongRong had excellent grades, and scored 100 points in Both Chinese and Mathematics.
Peng Kangli wanted to give the child a praise hug as before, but found that the child gradually grew up, and she could not hold it.
At the same time, the couple's career has also begun to have a new improvement with the diversification of online platforms. They chose to start singing live on the short video APP.
Netizens were impressed by their strong character and superb talent, attracting 2,000 fans in just one day.
The couple is busy with their careers, but they still have a heart for the sake of others. In order not to disturb the neighborhood, they bought the loudest speakers to sing, and they did not broadcast live after 9 p.m.
With the improvement of the live broadcasting industry, they also worked hard to expand their careers, and at the same time, they also started a small business of department stores, often selling some common items with good quality and low prices.
But joy and pain are always there. Xu Baohui's body has some repetitions, and he has just had surgery to remove polyps from the intestine some time ago, and also removed a tumor in the esophagus.
Before long, he had problems with his left lower limb again and had to stop the livestream.
The more this is the case, the more it can reflect the love of a family of three than Jinjian.
Rong Rong sensibly and obediently takes care of her father, and Peng Kangli has also been accompanying her husband in the hospital for treatment.
Once, Xu Baohui also wanted to change his appearance through plastic surgery, so that when he went to a parent-teacher conference in the future, he would not embarrass his son.
But in the end, he still hasn't changed.
Perhaps in the eyes of Xu Baohui and Peng Kangli, maintaining the most authentic self is decent enough.
Xu Baohui and Peng Kangli's lives are slightly flawed, and RongRong is not born with a promising Kangzhuang Avenue. But they never complained, giving the world the greatest tenderness, and the world reciprocated them with tenderness.
And many people who are healthier than them can't be like them, with the bondage of family affection, love, and the spirit of never giving up on life.
They can't be "ordinary" all their lives, but they know life better than many "ordinary people".
Source: 2017 CCTV Channel 3 "Departure to Happiness" 2018 Tianjin Satellite TV "Happiness Comes Knocking" 2019 CCTV Channel 3 "Happiness Bill" Xu Baohui Kuaishou Account: Yancheng Wandering Singer Hui Zai