In the ancient land of the East, China, which has a long history, has always had more men than women, and as a result, women have a higher status than men in the marriage market. What is just helpless is that in some rural areas, there are even more than a dozen young men queuing up to go to a woman's house on a blind date and waiting to be picked. However, facts always develop and change beyond our expectations.
Today, I want to tell you a story that aims to awaken your awareness of the current plight of Chinese men in the marriage market, and at the same time show what kind of turmoil is quietly emerging.
In fact, the total number of men in China is tens of millions more than that of women, which makes the status of women in the marriage market always higher than that of men. In most places, it is an objective fact that men need to show more strengths in order to find a suitable spouse.
What's even more worrying is that because of the relationship with the strong spending power of women when they are single, capital promotes various film and television dramas to define their own views on marriage and love, and the domineering president falls in love with me.
At the same time, it also defines the behavior of delicate women, what is not improvised, to wear high-quality clothes, how many times a year to travel abroad, to have a famous brand, every woman's wardrobe lacks a piece of clothing, etc.
It is an assumption of the concept of a woman's singleness, in order to make money for the business, and in the case of a woman who is single, consumption is to please herself, so it is easy to consume impulsively, and buy luxury goods recklessly, as long as she meets the standards of the advertised exquisite woman, whether you have to buy it or not.
Capital doesn't want women to get married, because women have to spend money on their families when they get married, and they have to spend it on their children when they have children. Therefore, a large number of women do not make do with it, thinking that they will find a better one, and the latter is better than the current one, so they leave themselves behind, which aggravates the ratio of marriage between men and women.
Recently, the incident of the fat cat committing suicide for his girlfriend continues to ferment, and the fat cat can't get his sincerity when he works hard. In the end, the woman broke up with a sentence! directly smashed a man's psychological defense line and chose to commit suicide, which also made many men realize that the pursuit of the final result may not be able to exchange a life for sincerity, and the licking dog economy collapsed instantly.
The gradual decline of blind date programs in recent years, as well as the chaos of the marriage and love network that broke the news of 315, all show that China's marriage and love market has gradually entered a rational stage, and men are beginning to know what they want. On May Day, fewer people are getting married. Men have been suffering from the culture of "licking dogs" for a long time, and it is time to awaken.
With the occurrence of the fat cat incident and the exposure of the culture of fishing for women, the love state of men has undergone a qualitative change, since the status quo cannot be changed, then change the strategy and find another way, not only China has women!
And now, a new wave is emerging, and that is transnational marriage. **Many men are looking abroad to find a mate, just like the international server game we often hear about, we Chinese players successfully become partners with foreign friends across servers. They began to make up for their knowledge of English, or use translation software to communicate with women abroad.
Recently, there was a little brother who successfully went ashore, and the news that a young man from Yan'an married a British beauty, and the other party looked similar to Long Ma and was also on the hot search, which is a good example.
Recently, many netizens have complained that the video platform has been attacked by foreign girls, and there are many beautiful foreign ladies, which is good news for our Chinese men to face the world, and the situation in our country may take a turn for the better.
Finally, I would like to make it clear that the most important thing is to look at this issue rationally. International marriage is just a trend, and it can't change the status quo of so many single men in the country.
Relevant domestic data show that the main force of Chinese men's foreign marriage is Vietnam and other Southeast Asian regions, which still has many problems. We should be rational, respect everyone's choice, and let everyone seek a peaceful heart.
I hope this story can open up rational thinking about this phenomenon.
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