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[Preface]
Over the years, the debate on bride price and marriage in society has not stopped, especially in the past two years, the woman's bride price has also risen, and it has become the last straw for the collapse of young men.
Nowadays, the increase in consumption level, the increase in the cost of living, and the lack of negotiation of bride price have become one of the factors affecting the marriage rate, especially the bride price.
This is not a good situation, and many people are worried about it, and some experts have suggested opening up international marriages to solve the problem of marriage difficulties for older men.
Everyone thought that this was someone talking nonsense again, but who knew that many young men and foreign girls had a wedding recently, which aroused the envy of many netizens.
【International Marriage】
I believe that in the May Day holiday that has just ended, many friends have participated in the weddings of relatives and friends, because many couples choose to get married during the May Day holiday every year, so as to avoid some people being unable to participate because they can't take leave.
On May 5, a special wedding was held in Yan'an, Shaanxi, and after the video of the wedding scene was uploaded to the Internet, it quickly aroused heated discussions among netizens.
Because the bride of this wedding is not Chinese, she is married from England, and the bride is very delicate, blonde and blue-eyed, with deep facial features, wearing a wedding dress, as beautiful as a Barbie doll.
Compared with the two newlyweds, the groom is much more ordinary, but he also looks very energetic, but the height of the two looks about the same, but I don't know if the bride is wearing high heels.
It is understood that the groom studied abroad very early, and the bride came to China at the age of 17, so she likes Chinese culture very much and is very fluent in Chinese.
Now that she is married to China, she is really happy, and bluntly said, "I am very happy to be a Chinese daughter-in-law, and my lover and I are very sweet every day."
This immediately aroused the envy of many male compatriots, some ridiculed that this is because male compatriots are beginning to "open their eyes to see the world", and some people posted the same foreign daughter-in-law in the comment area.
On May 1, someone also posted a video of his cousin's marriage, and the bride is also foreign, although not as beautiful as the British girl, but she is also beautiful.
Looking at the groom's appearance, the gap with the bride is a little big, not only does he look old, but his hairline has also begun to move back, and his belly is slightly bulging, looking like a middle-aged man with a fortune.
In addition to the two of them, men who have married foreign brides abound, and there are relevant data showing that the proportion of Chinese men marrying foreign brides has long exceeded the proportion of Chinese women marrying abroad.
Moreover, these foreign brides generally have a common characteristic, that is, there is no bride price requirement, and the rules of marriage are willing to follow the requirements of the South.
Because the cultural background of foreign countries is very different from ours, they do not have so many regulations or requirements, especially women in Southeast Asia and other places, who are very willing to marry in China.
【Origin of the bride price】
The bride price first originated in the Zhou Dynasty, when there was a set of processes, this set of etiquette is also known as the six rites, including the lottery, the name, the naji, the sign, the invitation and the welcome.
Among them, the link of collecting is to send the bride price to the woman's home from the south, and at the beginning it was still some valuable things such as cloth, but with the development of the times, it has become money and even real estate.
Over the millennia, this process has been passed down gradually, but in today's society, the meaning of the bride price has changed somewhat, and it has gradually developed into the support of parents for newlyweds.
In fact, the bride price is also a kind of protection for girls, but because some families do not consider the actual situation, the sky-high price, and the burden on the man's family, the bride price is gradually stigmatized.
【Expert Advice】
In fact, as early as March this year, Ding Changfa, an associate professor at the Department of Economics at Xiamen University, put forward a proposal to open up international marriage.
In response to the problem of "difficulty in marrying older young men in rural areas", he put forward this idea, believing that the problem can be improved by "bringing in overseas young women of appropriate age".
Although many people poured cold water on him at the time and questioned his status as an associate professor, many people still listened to this.
It can be seen from the many applauded comments in the comment area that Professor Ding's concept of marriage is still very advanced, but even so, marriage is a matter of your willingness, and even if this policy is really implemented, it still requires the efforts of men themselves.
But in fact, it is not so simple to marry a foreign bride, first of all, there are great differences between the two countries in terms of culture and living habits, and it is easy to have conflicts over time.
And there are also some transnational marriage scams aimed at men, they use the introduction of "Vietnamese brides" as an excuse to cheat money, and after that, the people themselves will run away, so it is necessary to keep your eyes open and decide carefully when you get married.
【Conclusion】
Nowadays, as society becomes more and more open, there are no restrictions on marriage between countries for a long time, and people are increasingly recognized for the concept of diversified and open marriage.
But after all, marriage is a lifelong event, there are many factors that need to be considered, and you must consider more before getting married, not only economic and cultural factors are important, but also language, living habits, etc.
And there is no need to blindly pursue this kind of transnational marriage, if you really have this will, don't believe the so-called "introducer", be careful of being deceived.
I hope that everyone can make the best choice in the end, have their own love and family, and at the same time, I hope that the current situation of the marriage and love market can be improved.
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Information sources:
Love Obligation published "(May 1, Hubei) Netizens posted a foreign daughter-in-law married by their cousin, and her appearance shocked netizens, she was really super beautiful.. #外国媳妇" short video
The short video "It is becoming more and more difficult for older young men in rural areas to get married: consider opening up international marriage to introduce a large number of overseas young women" published by Phoenix.com
The short video of "British Girl Marrying Shaanxi Guy Gets Blessed" published by Western Network
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