It's not that a Jiangxi daughter-in-law with a bride price of 380,000 can't afford to marry, but a foreign daughter-in-law is more cost-effective! It's time for you to open your eyes to the world!
During this year's May Day, a netizen shared his cousin's wedding, and the photo of the bride and groom instantly attracted everyone's attention.
I saw an ordinary-looking, thin-haired, and even a little pot-bellied man hugging the young and beautiful bride on the side, and more importantly, this bride was still a blonde foreigner.
Wearing a long white dress and big watery eyes, it was simply pitiful to me, and it was in stark contrast to the groom on the side.
In this regard, netizens on the barrage have "broken the defense":
"I have an opinion!" "Against this family business!" "It's worse than killing me."
Someone else said, "I want to open my eyes to the world!" ”
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Coincidentally, on May 3, a little brother from Shaanxi also made the news because of the wedding video.
For no other reason, he also married a foreign daughter-in-law from England, who looked almost like a doll.
Some netizens said: Brother, you directly married Long Ma back!
She was so beautiful in her wedding dress, she was like an angel.
Some netizens said: Everyone else is kissing foreign mouths, and I'm still looking foreign!
What's even more excessive is that many people in the comment area began to post their foreign daughters-in-law one after another, and others didn't look too sour after watching it!
"My Russian wife, the right choice in life."
"Is my daughter-in-law pretty?"
Pretty! Brother, can you introduce me to the one next to me?
"Brothers, look farther, Chinese men are really in demand abroad."
Okay, okay, we're still fighting singles, and you already own the whole forest. Is there still a shortage of people in the Czech Republic?
It's not just about being pretty! They don't want a bride price yet!
Even no house, no car, no bride price!
Is it too late for me to travel?
The following netizen, are you a little excessive?
There are not many girls who want to be with you when they rent a house, so cherish it, brother!
Not only that, but a large number of foreign netizens seeking marriage also appeared in the comment area.
In fact, it is not for nothing that international marriage is so popular now, and we can find the answer from many hot events.
said that the princess who can't move the matchmaker
Since the explosion of Wang Po in Kaifeng, scenic spots around the country have begun to invite Wang Po to the country to "tour the matchmaker".
However, Wang Po almost died as soon as she came to Jiangxi.
Everyone may have heard of Jiangxi's high bride price, and at first thought it was just an Internet rumor, but I didn't expect a female guest to directly throw out a request for a bride price of not less than 380,008, which directly made Wang Po speechless.
Not only that, but there is also a female guest who said that she has an income of 20,000 yuan a month, so the other party must be more than 25,000, and she also requires that the other party's emotions must be stable......
The princesses who asked to listen scratched their heads.
As a result, after someone said that the bride price in Jiangxi was too high, and the requirements of women were too high, a female guest directly retorted on the spot that it was because women had awakened now and were on the road of independent growth. Don't break the defense because of the bride price.
It is good to say that the matchmaker broke up unhappily in the end, and the princess could only say that she wanted to respect the customs of various places.
How can it be so "difficult" to get married
Some time ago, a young couple in Shangqiu, Henan Province was holding their wedding, but the joyful atmosphere came to an abrupt end at the moment of the bride's arrival, and the bride even had a physical conflict with the groom's relatives.
It turned out that the wedding car had just arrived at the groom's house that day, and when the bride was about to get off the car, the best friend on the side suddenly said: Doesn't the groom give a get-off gift? He also said that according to the customs here, he had to give it, otherwise he would not pay enough attention to the bride.
After hearing this, the bride also felt reasonable, and then agreed, and asked the groom to quickly get 28,800 yuan to get off the car, otherwise he would not get off.
But the groom's family was scraping together in order to buy a house and the bride price, and it was impossible to directly take out more than 20,000 yuan in cash at the moment, so they persuaded the bride to wait for her to make it up later, but the bride didn't expect to say anything, but the girlfriend resolutely disagreed, and said that it had to be given on the spot.
The relatives on the groom's side even talked and persuaded for more than half an hour, and they were about to miss the auspicious time, and finally they were really anxious and could only pull the bride's best friend away first, but the bride directly fought with the groom's relatives in order to protect her best friend, and even said that she would not get married.
The development of things was so unexpected, netizens were shocked after reading it, and they all said that there was something wrong with this girlfriend!
Afterwards, the girlfriend could only post an explanation on the Internet, saying that the go-off ceremony was a traditional custom in Shangqiu, and she just didn't express it clearly.
But netizens didn't buy it, and some netizens said that they were from Shangqiu, and the new daughter-in-law got in and out of the car just a few hundred yuan of lottery heads.
However, more netizens said that in addition to the bride price, what are the matchmaker fees, boarding fees, getting off the bus fees, and changing the mouth fee......
It's too much, why is it so "bothering" to get married?
Mr. Deng from Wuhan also has a headache because of marriage, he has a girlfriend from Fujian, and the two have a good relationship and are officially preparing to get married this year.
Mr. Deng has taken out a loan to buy a new house in Wuhan, but his girlfriend said that he wants a bride price of 300,000 yuan, and his girlfriend's name must be added to the house.
But Mr. Deng's economic conditions really did not allow it, so he wanted to discuss with his girlfriend whether he could reduce some bride price, but his girlfriend who had been in love for many years rejected mercilessly, saying that this was a tradition in his hometown and could not be changed. The marriage of the two is also deadlocked because of the bride price.
I have to say that the cost of getting married now is too high, not to mention that marriage is just a relationship, and the cost is not ordinarily large.
Some time ago, there was a lot of uproar in the "Fat Cat Incident", a 21-year-old guy transferred more than 510,000 yuan to his girlfriend who had only seen two sides by calling day and night, and finally jumped to his death due to the double pressure of physical and psychological pressure.
But even the day before jumping into the river, he was still transferring money to his girlfriend.
Even because his girlfriend's expenses were too high, he didn't even have the money to go to the doctor.
After the incident was exposed, netizens strongly condemned the fat cat's girlfriend and sympathized with the fat cat's experience.
Open International Marriage?
Behind this one event after another is our pursuit of love, but now marriage is only a standard measured by money.
Seeing that the bride price in China is getting higher and higher, many men have set their sights on transnational romances.
Some experts even propose to open up international marriages and introduce a large number of overseas young women of school age, which can greatly solve the problem of difficult marriage for young men in China.
But is it really that easy to marry a foreign daughter-in-law?
First of all, you need to learn a foreign language, and secondly, you need to be financially strong enough to travel back and forth between the country and the country frequently.
After all, you can't marry and then don't let a foreign daughter-in-law go back to her parents' home, right?
Not only that, but you also have to overcome different cultural differences, after all, even the living habits of the North and the South are not the same, let alone different countries.
In addition, even if a foreign-related marriage can obtain a "Chinese green card" for a foreign daughter-in-law, the other party cannot engage in any work in China for five years. So for the past five years, you have to completely support each other.
Of course, if you originally wanted to marry a wife who was married at home, it would make no difference.
So what do you think about international marriage? You can leave a message in the comment area to discuss.
Resources:
Urban scene: A post-00s blonde and blue-eyed British girl marries a guy from Shaanxi, China
https://www.douyin.com/video/7365374680733060379?modeFrom=searchResult
Beijing Daily: Matchmaker fee, bride price, boarding fee, alighting fee...... Why is it so "difficult" to get married
https://baijiahao.baidu.com/s?id=1798532411037299937&wfr=spider&for=pc
The Paper: Is it effective to alleviate the problem of marriage and love among older men and young people in rural areas?
This matter丨To alleviate the problem of marriage and love among older men and young people in rural areas, does international marriage work? _China Politics Library_The Paper