1. Dazzling childhood
In 1982, a family full of laughter and laughter was given a new life in the capital Beijing, Che Xiao. Born in a scholarly family and an artistic family, Che Xiao thrived in a star-studded environment.
She is like a bright star, radiating brilliance.
Che Xiao's mother, Wang Liyun, is a well-known performing artist who has starred in many popular dramas and popular TV series, and has won many honors such as the "Plum Blossom Award". His father, Che Xiaotong, is also an outstanding representative of the General Political Repertory Theatre, he is not only a talented actor and director, but also an influential writer.
As if it was the arrangement of fate, Che Xiao has a unique family background since she was born, which undoubtedly indicates her brilliant achievements in the entertainment industry in the future.
When Che Xiaonian was only ten years old, she appeared on the stage of CCTV's "Double Support Spring Festival Gala" for the first time, and won warm applause from the audience with her outstanding performance. Playing the leading role in stage plays such as "Back" and "Wind Chimes", she is known as a treasure in the hearts of teachers, and her classmates regard her as a role model, and relatives, friends and neighbors also praise this lovely "child star".
Stepping into the cardamom years, Che Xiao became more and more slim, like a fresh and refined hibiscus flower, becoming the focus of the campus. Whenever she goes out, she always attracts a lot of attention and causes a hustle.
Compared with her peers, Che Xiao's childhood and youth were full of joy and pride that others could not match, but it was also destined for her to embark on a different life journey.
2. The marital crisis of loving couples
In the depths of Che Xiao's memory, his parents have always been a loving couple. Whenever her mother, Wang Liyun, returns home from filming abroad, the family always gathers together for a reunion dinner, and after the meal, they will walk the streets together to taste delicious ice cream.
Whenever my mother's relatives came to visit Beijing and the room at home was tight, my father, Che Xiaotong, would not hesitate to give up his bedroom so that they could live in it, and he chose to settle down on the balcony.
When relatives leave Beijing, Che Xiaotong always prepares sumptuous gifts for them and personally escorts them on the train back to their hometown.
However, there is no doubt that all the people around Wang Liyun and Che Xiaotong can clearly perceive the huge personality differences between them. Wang Liyun is a cheerful and optimistic person, she is always enthusiastic about everything; On the contrary, Che Xiaotong is more introverted, more inclined to remain silent on weekdays, and his style of action is also more steady.
The once loving couple is now drifting apart due to various contradictions, and there is always a tense atmosphere in the family and constant quarrels.
For Che Xiao, the most painful thing is to witness the fierce dispute caused by his parents over trivial matters. At this time, the young woman could only cover her ears tightly, hide in the room, and silently shed tears of despair.
I still remember the scene when my mother angrily closed the door and smashed a vase to pieces. Che Xiao was so frightened that she cried and asked her mother, "Will you be separated from your father?" Wang Liyun shook her head with tears in her eyes and replied firmly, "I want to create a complete family environment for you."
However, there is often a gap between real life and the ideal state. Conflicts between parents are intensifying, and quarrels are becoming more frequent. When Che Xiao was about to graduate from high school, Wang Liyun finally confessed to her daughter the struggles and forbearance she had experienced in this marriage over the years, and she had made up her mind to divorce Che Xiaotong.
When he learned this shocking news, Che Xiao felt extremely painful, and tears blurred his vision. Although she did not want her parents to be separated, the pain her mother endured was too heavy.
3. Career take-off and marriage separation
In this way, when Che Xiao was 18 years old, she witnessed the break of her parents. Soon after stepping into the door of Beijing Film Academy, Wang Liyun and Che Xiaotong began to live separately.
Alone in the empty dormitory, Che Xiao sat there for a long time, his heart full of endless sadness.
Once upon a time, she had seen many cases of divorce causing harm to children. Some divorced couples even turn against each other, and their children are forced to choose a side and suffer unnecessary harm and pressure.
Che Xiao was deeply frightened, afraid that his parents would embark on that path of no return, and he might be indifferent to him in the future.
Thankfully, Wang Liyun and Che Xiaotong did not completely break up. After the divorce, they became more tolerant and understanding of each other. The love for his daughter has not diminished in the slightest.
During the Spring Festival every year, Che Xiao can still get together with his parents and share the joy of family; On the first day of the Lunar New Year, she would still greet her father as usual. Even when her mother's relatives came to the capital, they would bring carefully selected gifts to Che Xiaotong.
What is amazing is that Che Xiao can still feel the warm family atmosphere around her parents, and this unique family warmth successfully smoothed her wounded heartstrings.
In 2004, Che Xiao, who had just walked out of the university campus, quickly became a household name among the popular actresses with her unremitting efforts and fighting spirit. One after another high-profile film and television masterpieces, such as "Children of the Compound", "Sailors Club" and "Silent Witness", etc., have witnessed her brilliant achievements in the field of career, making her shine in the dazzling entertainment industry with her parents.
However, her emotional journey is full of twists and turns. In 2010, at the age of 32, Che Xiao tied the knot with Li Zhaohui, the richest man in Shanxi at the time, and this sensational wedding made many young women envious.
However, the good times did not last long, due to the different personalities and interests of the two, coupled with the opposition of family members on both sides, this marriage finally failed to last long In May 2012, Che Xiao and Li Zhaohui ended their marriage in a hurry without their parents' knowledge, and it was rumored that the breakup fee was as high as an astonishing 300 million yuan, which undoubtedly pushed her to the forefront of public opinion.
Fourth, the role model of parents leads the way forward
Just when Che Xiao was deeply emotionally confused, her parents successfully helped her out of the shadows with their selfless love and understanding. Although they have been divorced for many years, Wang Liyun and Che Xiaotong have always maintained a close connection, caring for each other and being considerate, and have become the most important relatives in each other's lives.
Whenever Che Xiao was depressed and confused, her parents would always appear by her side as soon as possible, bringing her comfort with the power of family affection and endless care. There was a time when Che Xiao had just experienced the pain of divorce and was on the verge of mental depression, Wang Liyun resolutely put down her busy work and accompanied her daughter through those difficult years with Che Xiaotong.
The three of them spent happy time together at home, making dumplings, playing poker, listening to beautiful music, and patiently guiding Che Xiao. Seeing the father's deep affection for his daughter and the mother's considerate care for her husband, Che Xiaotong couldn't help but be moved to tears many times.
Even though she has been divorced for many years, Che Xiaotong still pays attention to his ex-wife's living situation. Wang Liyun has been running around for a long time, and her physical condition is deteriorating day by day, so Che Xiaotong often reminds her to pay attention to maintenance, and she can appropriately reduce the amount of filming of one or two dramas every year.
And Wang Liyun often buys daily necessities for her husband and takes care of his diet and daily life, lest he ignore the details of life as he grows older.
There is a woman named Wang Liyun, who once hurried back to Beijing in a busy crew, but accidentally left behind her precious key. At this moment, with just a phone call, Che Xiaotong will immediately deliver the key to her in person without hesitation.
This touching episode made Che Xiaotong moved to tears many times.
Faced with the loving daily way of getting along with his parents, Che Xiaotong's endless longing and yearning for a beautiful marriage suddenly emerged in the depths of his heart.
Fifth, bravely pursue love and glow with happiness
With the sincere care and encouragement of her parents, Che Xiaotong gradually got rid of the shadow of divorce, regained her courage, and actively looked for that heart-warming love. She is looking forward to finding her destined soul mate and moving on to the next stage of her life together.
Time flies, and in the blink of an eye to 2014, 32-year-old Che Xiao is in the golden age of entering the marriage hall. As a public figure, it is not easy to find an ideal partner. Mother Wang Liyun knew her daughter's loneliness, and silently screened many excellent men for her, hoping that she could regain happiness as soon as possible.
However, it is a pity that Che Xiaotong has never been able to find the person he likes, but feels exhausted due to frequent blind date activities.
Che Xiaotong deeply understands the hard work of her parents, so she decides to wait patiently and manage every new relationship with her heart. Today, nine years have passed since the divorce, and she is on the journey again, looking forward to meeting him one day.
Regardless of whether the parents choose to remarry or not, Che Xiaotong will give full support. Because she has realized another beauty of life in her parents, and feels the tolerance and understanding that husband and wife should have.
For a long time, the reason why Wang Liyun and Che Xiaotong have been able to get along with each other is precisely because they know how to use love to resolve conflicts and use understanding to eliminate estrangement.
Sixth, take your parents as an example and continue the marriage story
Looking back on the past, Che Xiaotong was deeply shocked by the attitude of her parents who still lived in harmony after their divorce. Although the marriage did not come to an end, they resolved the disputes and pains caused by the divorce with a broad mind and kind heart, and finally maintained the intimate family relationship.
This love for her daughter is even more enthusiastic than the days of love.
This spirit of mutual help inspired Che Xiaotong. She recalls her childhood when her parents quarreled and she was in fear that they would turn against each other like other divorced couples.
Today's Wang Liyun and Che Xiaotong, looking back at their emotional journey, is undoubtedly a unique picture of a new life after divorce with closely linked trust and love!
As a daughter, Che Xiao saw her mother so strong and open-minded, and the pain in her heart was even more indescribable. But she secretly made up her mind to emulate her parents in life, open the window of her soul, and meet the unknown fate of the future with a positive attitude.
She refused to let the haze of the past envelop her body and mind again, broke free from the shackles of the world, and moved forward bravely.
As long as we have a kind and understanding heart, we will definitely be able to enter the palace of happy marriage!
Time flies, and today, nine years after the divorce, the single Che Xiao once again embarked on a new journey, waiting with great anticipation for her fate. She often has a fiery heart and fantasizes about a beautiful picture of the future in the mirror: maybe she will be like Wang Liyun, gentle and considerate, taking care of the other half; or, like Che Xiaotong, he became a strong pillar of the family in a silent way.
No matter how they will be by each other's side in the future, Che Xiao is unswervingly determined to go all out. Because she has learned the true meaning of marriage from her parents: that is, to narrow the distance between each other with love, and to accept each other's shortcomings with a tolerant mind.
Only in this way can we spend our lives together until our gray hair grows.