When Kang Hui's mother was critically ill, she waited for 3 days facing the door, and finally could not hold on, and when she died, she weakly said to her daughter: "Mother in this life... maximal... Regret, that is, I did not hug my grandson, my heart is unwilling, I..." Before I finished speaking, I left.
Kang Hui's CCTV colleagues once commented on him: Kang Hui's cabinet has always been neat for more than 20 years, the tie is a tie, the suit is a suit, and the manuscripts are also arranged and classified very neatly.
It can be seen that Kang Hui is a very serious, rigorous and meticulous person, and he has been what everyone calls "other people's children" from childhood to adulthood. ”
Kang Hui has excellent grades since childhood, the top five in the city in the middle school entrance examination, the high school is among the best, the college entrance examination score exceeds the heavy line a lot, and he can go to the top three famous universities in the country, but he chose the broadcast hosting major of the Communication University of China because of his personal hobbies.
After graduation, directly into CCTV, according to the saying, such an excellent person, should love the career double harvest, there is no regret.
But on the contrary, he has a deep sense of guilt for his parents, but at the age of 51, he has not had a son and a half daughter.
Kang Hui and his wife Liu Yajie are alumni, and some classmates feel that the personalities of the two of them are very similar, so they introduce them to each other.
The first time she ate, Liu Yajie saw that Kang Hui, like most straight Chinese men, had a "straight" side.
After the two finished eating, Liu Yajie accompanied Kang Hui to choose gifts for friends, but as a thank you, Kang Hui only bought a popsicle for Liu Yajie.
Because Kang Hui is a pragmatist, he thinks that eating popsicles can make the other party cooler.
After shopping, Kang Hui sent Liu Yajie home by car, and Liu Yajie made up the plot of the novel at that time: the two people who met for the first time could wave goodbye when they were separated, thinking that it was quite romantic.
Just when Liu Yajie laid a good mood and was ready to turn back to Kang Hui after getting on the car, the moment he waved his hand, Kang Hui disappeared as soon as he slipped a cigarette, yes....... he...... That's it.
Later, after the two got married, there were also noisy moments, but they were together for 22 years, which was also a smooth harmony.
Their common teacher once described the marriage as quiet, clean, and quiet.
Their marriage is so pure, probably because they have no children!
After getting married, there were two things that made the two decide to be a "dink".
The first is the house price.
After Kang Hui and Liu Yajie got married, when they were ready to buy a house, they found that the housing prices in Beijing were ridiculously high, and with the salaries of the two of them, even if they did not eat or drink for more than 100 years, they could not afford to buy a house in Beijing.
Therefore, the two first made a decision not to buy a house, ready to rent a house for a lifetime, so that not only the pressure of life is small, but also the money saved can be used for tourism and other living expenses.
The second is the chicken feathers that give birth to a child.
The two have a lot of friends, after seeing anyway have children to get trivial, as well as the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, after the fatigue of raising children, coupled with the high pressure at work, the husband and wife have decided to be a lifetime of Dink.
At that time, there were also many friends around who also chose Dink, only had dogs, and insisted very well, so the two decided so happily.
The husband and wife have no opinion, but Kang Hui's parents are unwilling, the parents are traditional people, whether it is from the aspect of incense inheritance, or from the perspective of the old age life of the husband and wife, the parents are strongly opposed.
Kang Hui's mother sometimes even ran to Kang Hui's house to persuade the two to have children, but the stubborn two people were not moved.
Gradually, the parents were helpless, and later, the father died and the mother became seriously ill.
Before her death, her mother also called Kang Hui and said, "You don't even want a child, how can I leave with confidence?" You've disappointed and saddened me so much! ”
When her mother was dying, Kang Hui did not rush to her mother's side in time, and could only say to her daughter: "The biggest regret in my life is that I did not hold my grandson!" ”
After Kang Hui, who was in the field, learned of his mother's death, he prostrated his head three times in the direction of his mother.
Later, in his sleep, Kang Hui dreamed countless times of what his mother wanted to say to him, but he had a look of wanting to say and stopping.
Later, Kang Hui slowly grew older, especially after the age of 45, every New Year's Festival, other people's homes were full of children and grandchildren, a group of lively scenes.
However, Kang Hui's family is always alone, and the husband and wife are always on duty, or both are on duty.
Because everyone knows that the two have no concern, on holidays, the two of them have become the main force on duty.
Usually there is a headache and brain fever, there is not even a close relative around, especially walking on the street, seeing others with a girlfriend in their left hand and a son in their right hand.
Kang Hui's heart was inexplicably uncomfortable, at the same time, some of the friends who were with Dink with them could not hold on any longer, and the children were already several years old.
Gradually, Kang Hui was a little shaken, but it was already too late.
At this time, Liu Yajie's body has not been allowed, almost 50 years old, although it looks good, but after the examination, the doctor directly said: "Too difficult, very difficult!" ”
Although the two people regretted it again, the child was probably out of touch with them, and later, Kang Hui wrote in his autobiography: "I really regret not having a child, even if it is only to have one!" ”
However, there is no regret medicine in the world, and the youth and youth that were missed will never come back.
Since you enjoy the simplicity and freedom of a person, you have to bear the loneliness and loneliness that comes with it at the same time.
Although as good as Kang Hui, it is really golden and unsupportable.
Perhaps when it comes to seven years and eighty, the most heart-warming thing is this precious family affection and human fireworks!
