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"Dink" is actually an imported product from abroad, its English is DINK, which is the abbreviation of Double Income No Kids.
"Dink" is the pronunciation of DINK, which refers to a husband and wife who have a double share of income, but do not have children!
The word Dink was slowly introduced to China after 1980, when China was also in the midst of economic recovery, and some intellectuals chose Dink for various reasons.
In the '80s, these intellectuals were probably in their 20s, and now more than forty years later, these Dinks have entered the elderly, are in their 60s, and have also retired.
Because the Dinks have no children, these two aspects will be different from ordinary families
★ Work without worries
Why are people less willing to have a second child and a third child now? It is mainly women who work hard in the workplace, and once pregnant and have children, it will have a bad impact on her career.
So these women simply have only one child to complete the task, and the rest of the energy is focused on the workplace.
Dink doesn't have the process of having children, all their energy will be focused on work, so their achievements in the workplace will generally be higher.
Before seeing a street interview with a 60-year-old Aunt Dink, she used to be a journalist, and then she became a professional manager in a private company, and her annual income was also good.
Later, after retiring, he practiced piano, danced, and if he wanted to go out and play, the two of them took a road trip.
Indeed, in his professional career, because all his energy is placed in the workplace, the position is also relatively high, belonging to white-collar workers.
★ The economy is also relatively relaxed
Raising a child is really not a matter of adding an extra pair of chopsticks, and it is necessary to adjust the body from the beginning of pregnancy.
If you are not in good health, you must go to the doctor, and when you are pregnant, you must also do various obstetric examinations, and after the birth of the child, you must ask the child for a babysitter or bring it yourself, and you must give the child a good meal and play well and wear well.
After the children go to school, they have to pay tuition fees, and the various expenses of interest classes are not a small expense.
Not only does not having children have less of this expense, but also more energy to devote to work, so the Dinks generally have a more relaxed economy.
The Dink family, who have entered the old age, have money and leisure without children, whether they are happy or not
Happiness is actually a personal feeling.
If the couple insists on Dink together, and enjoys Dink very much, is very concerned about their own body, and is very healthy, then being a Dink family, in their 60s, can still take care of themselves, can go out to travel, can learn some skills that they did not have time to learn when they were young, and indeed have a very fulfilling life.
Just like the aunt in Beijing, after retirement, she went on a trip, learned to dance, and practiced words.
The hidden dangers of doing dink are also very large, especially for women, and it is more prudent to want dink
1, when the couple wanted to Dink when they were young, the middle-aged and elderly men wanted to have children
In fact, there are many such cases, and when they were in their 20s and 30s, the couple decided not to have children and wanted Dink.
As a result, when they are in their 40s or even close to 50 years old, men see that other people's families have children, and they are already financially good, and their positions are relatively high, they will feel very empty, and they want a child.
But at this time, women's fertility has declined, and even without the ability to have children, it is faced with the disintegration of the family, and then the man finds a young girl to have a child, and the woman is depressed.
After all, the fertility period of women will be relatively short, and the fertility years of men will be longer.
2, the couple was young when Dink, and it was especially difficult when they were sick when they were old
Nearly 70 years old Dink couple, the grandfather because of the heart attack to the hospital, the old lady outside the ward begged Guanyin Niangniang to bless her old man to rescue, has been begging the doctor must rescue her husband.
At night, we must insist on staying in bed, because a person returns to a lonely home, and he is also afraid, the elderly who have no children and no grandchildren will actually be particularly lonely, especially when they are sick, and their hearts will be particularly helpless.
3, Dink elderly people living in the nursing home is more likely to be bullied
It is not that when the children are old, they do not have to live in the nursing home, but when the elderly with children live in the nursing home, the children will go to see it from time to time.
Nurses and nurses in nursing homes will be more dedicated to the care of the elderly, because he knows that these elderly people have children, and if they are not carefully cared for, they may be complained by children.
But Dink's couple is easy to overlook, because the two old men are old and don't understand a lot of things, and if they don't take care of them well, he doesn't know who to talk to.
So whether to Dink or not, really think clearly, especially when the female is young, Dink, it is difficult to regret it when she is old!
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