More and more young people feel that children are a long-term burden, and getting married and having children is a torturous thing! Satisfied with the current environment, perhaps only concerned with the current life...
Many young people have a very wrong perception of getting married and having children;
Some people just want to be in love; some people just want to get married, and then Dink;
But being constantly urged by friends and family to have children, urging them to raise their own children.
Many people will think: is it wrong to get married without having children and choose Dink?
In fact, in my opinion, in the current living environment, at the moment, raising a child of your own is still the right choice!
Some people will worry that the cost of raising a child is so high now, coupled with the pressure of their own life is very huge, bringing a child into this world, is not to let the child suffer? Yes, the cost of living is very large now, and I am exhausted, and wouldn't it be more tiring to have another child? I would like to say: What is the significance of what you are currently striving for and what are you trying to do? Is it simply to make yourself happy, or is it just to live for the sake of life? So what was the point of getting married in the first place? So far, most people have done what they should do at the age of doing things! Before the age of five, grow up happily and carefree in the arms of your parents; before the age of twenty, learn knowledge, learn skills, be independent, and understand the truth; before the age of thirty, start a family, choose a partner, and raise children. After the age of thirty, life moves forward steadily, and the days to come will be the same.
But anyone who chooses the wrong way of life is either regretful or regretful for life! If you don't study hard at the age of twenty, it becomes more and more difficult to learn at a later age. There is no family at the age of thirty, there is little to find a suitable partner in the future, and it will become difficult to have a child. Some people will say: Isn't it happy to jump in the bar and play games every day now? I just want to say: young and crazy, ignorant and fearless! Now you, at the age of twenty, obsessed with fun, have you ever considered why you wouldn't like a ten-year-old's toy, and you wouldn't like a teenage kid's game console rag doll! When you're in your forties and fifties, can you still immerse yourself in a bar, ballroom, and game hall every day like you do now?
When you are old, you don't mean that you can have money, live in a nursing home by yourself, and do your own things after your own, these are the wild thoughts of young people in their twenties on the surface!
You have to think about it, when you are young and strong, you can't save much money, sometimes even patchwork, when you are old, do you really expect yourself to save eighteen million for life? So the child is still the right choice. However, we still need to know that children are not only just raised casually, but also the cultivation of important qualities! Don't say who has several children, old age or children no one cares! This is the responsibility of nurturing! No one wants to see their old age desolate, when the lights of the family, the parents are dead, the partner is old, both sides face this time, the inner loneliness is born! I hope that every young person has more expectations for the future!
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