incredible! A couple in Shandong, after insisting on a Dink life for 30 years, resolutely chose to do IVF at the age of 50. Relatives and friends can not be persuaded, in the face of the interview, the old couple cried and said 3 words, it is simply too heart-wrenching!
Dink refers to a couple who do not have children for the rest of their lives.
When the couple got married, they made up their minds not to have children, and when they were young, they were indeed very dashing, and when their friends were busy earning milk powder money and circling around the children all day, they could do whatever they wanted and not be tied up by the children.
After 30 years, at the age of 50, they desperately want to have their own children, why?
The reason they gave with tears was: eat the family!
It turned out that several brothers of the man's family had talked about when the two of them died, sitting and waiting to divide their car and house.
Secondly, it was their nephew who often came to the door and said that he could help the pension to the end, but he had to give him the family property.
Finally, there are companies that use housing for the elderly, and they also come to talk about real estate to help the elderly.
Over time, the old couple could not stand it, severed all kinship, sold the house and sold the car and ran across the province to settle in Zhengzhou.
Thinking about it, they decided to have their own children even at the risk of giving birth at an advanced age and doing IVF.
In fact, in many places, especially in rural areas, there are no children at home, which means that people are weak and bullying.
Having children and not having children in a nursing home in the city are two completely different concepts, which means that no matter how much money you spend, there is no guarantee. Because nursing homes know you don't have children, there's no one to support you.
The role of raising children is not necessarily to prevent aging, but to give yourself a little confidence, is to give people who want to bully you a deterrent.
The most terrible thing in this world is the human heart, but it is too late to have a child at the age of 50, and when you are old, you have to work hard to take the child, and you have not waited for the child to grow up, and you are more than old.
I have to sigh that once I regret choosing Dink, it will take more hardship than giving birth when I was young, and I may not be able to succeed.
Ms. Yang and her husband are the same age, and after the two got married, they discussed making dink. In fact, at the beginning, Ms. Yang wanted children, and she chose Dink only under the influence of her husband.
Fast forward more than ten years, at this time Ms. Yang and her husband are already middle-aged people in their 40s. The husband who originally insisted on being Dink gradually changed his attitude, and he could not take his eyes off whenever he saw other people's children.
Later, the husband finally had a showdown with Ms. Yang, saying that he still wanted a child! This surprised Ms. Yang, who gave birth to a child at this age, was already an advanced maternal age and would be life-threatening.
But out of love for her husband, Ms. Yang still decided to have a child. So the couple began to prepare for pregnancy, but after two years of tossing and turning, she did not get pregnant, and Ms. Yang sought medical treatment everywhere and went to the temple to pay homage to Guanyin. After tossing and turning for more than a year, still not pregnant, the couple decided to go to IVF.
At this time, Ms. Yang is about to enter the menopause, so egg retrieval is a very difficult thing. It takes a few months to get a qualified egg, and it is not necessarily possible to match the embryo, and even if it is, the transfer may not be successful.
A few years passed, still without success, and Ms. Yang had to give up. After this, the husband sighed every day, and became more and more cold to Ms. Yang, always eating, drinking and having fun outside, and only returned home in the middle of the night, in his words, there were no children anyway, and the money was useless.
Whenever she arrived at this Ms. Yang, her heart was like a needle. Ms. Yang finally realized what people said that when she was young, she didn't want children very much, but when she was old, she was particularly eager to have a child.
One day, her husband suddenly proposed a divorce to her. The husband said bluntly that he had another woman out there, and that woman was 30 years old and pregnant. Ms. Yang was surprised, she couldn't believe it, but the truth was in front of her, and she could only accept it.
The role of raising children is not only to give themselves a little confidence, but also the continuation of life, the pursuit of the consummation of life, so that people have no regrets.
Now there are some young people who are reluctant to have children, about Dink, what do you think, come to discuss how many children have a higher happiness index, welcome to leave a message in the comment area!
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