There are also many "Dink couples" in the entertainment industry, such as Meng Jiahui Zheng Yijian and Liang Chaowei Liu Jialing.
Dink is not a derogatory term, and the most reasonable way to explain it is: to be able to give birth but choose not to be born, which is a subjective act.
Today, the couple we are going to talk about was once Dink, but Tan Jianghai and Wang Xiaoqian, who ended the Dink family due to an unexpected pregnancy.
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Mention Tan Jianghai and Wang Xiaoqian, some netizens do not know too much, Xiaobian first to give you a brief introduction.
Tan Jianghai, born in 1973 in Jinan, Shandong Province, graduated from Beijing Broadcasting Institute in 1996, entered the broadcast department of Beijing Television Station, won the third prize of the host "Golden Microphone", and successively hosted "Beijing Noon News" and "Beijing You Are Early" and other programs.
Wang Xiaoqian, born in 1973 in Qingdao, Shandong Province, joined CCTV in 1996 and has hosted programs such as "Serving You" and "Exchange Space".
In terms of work ability, Wang Xiaoqian is higher than Tan Jianghai, but they are not emotionally incompatible because of work.
In fact, most people work in the same nature, and it is easier to have common topics, such as Tan Jianghai and Wang Xiaoqian.
They first met in 1992 at a meeting of freshmen at the Beijing Broadcasting Institute.
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Many people make friends when they go to college, but in real life, most couples break up at graduation because of distance, or work and other reasons. This phenomenon is also known as the "graduation season, breakup season".
This is also a very common thing in the current view. On the university campus, people from all over the world gather, and two strangers, because of a word of concern or a look, may feel good about each other.
What's more, people like Tan Jianghai and Wang Xiaoqian are from Shandong? As the old saying goes: when a fellow sees a fellow, two tears flow.
Even if you don't know each other in a different place, you will feel kind when you hear that you are from the same place.
In this way, Tan Jianghai and Wang Xiaoqian slowly became familiar with each other, and they found that whether it was their thoughts or hobbies, the two were very similar, and in this way, they came together during college.
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Until graduation, they did not break up because of this, but after work, the relationship became better, knew how to think about each other, and after the work of both people gradually stabilized, in 1999, they entered the palace of marriage.
After getting married, they are very busy because of their work, and they have time to live a sweet world of two.
After some discussion, the two decided to be mr. and mrs. Dink. Compared with their decision, the old man in the family naturally hopes to hold his grandson or granddaughter, but they have been living outside, and there are not many opportunities to go home, even if the old man is in a hurry, there is nothing he can do.
Let's talk about Tan Jianghai and Wang Xiaoqian, because there is no child bondage, they can live the life they want, and when they have time, they will travel, and life is very comfortable.
However, after they had spent more than a decade with the Dinks, an accident occurred. It turned out that Wang Xiaoqian accidentally found out that she was pregnant during the examination.
She told her husband the news, and the two of them also considered all aspects. Moreover, At that time, Wang Xiaoqian was already forty years old, and she was a typical elderly mother.
Elderly women pay more attention to many things than other mothers, on the one hand, nutrition should be balanced, and there are good living habits, working environment, mood and so on.
But since he already had a child, he was reluctant to fight it, and finally chose to give birth. After the birth of the child, the two also underwent great changes, and Tan Jianghai changed from a big grinning person to a careful father.
Every three to five years, I will post photos of my daughter on social platforms, and I always have a happy smile when I am with my daughter.
Many netizens have left messages after seeing Tan Jianghai posting a photo of his daughter: "True fragrance", ah, the identity conversion is a bit uncomfortable.
Children seem to have such magic, parents are out of the hard work day, come home to see the child's smile, as if the fatigue has been eliminated.
epilogue
Before the child did not come, they were happy to do Dink, after the arrival of the child, Wang Xiaoqian and Tan Jianghai were also happy to accept, and after having a child, their family of three was also very happy.
In fact, for many Dink families, some people want to live in the two-person world, and some are anxious. But in fact, no matter what you choose, as long as the husband and wife negotiate well.
Are people more inclined to the Dink family, or are they full of children and grandchildren?