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Zhang You would never have thought that he was so "popular" among his relatives and was vying to let his children get close to him.
Zhang you are over forty years old, because of his wife's health, the two decided to Dink, and the two worked hard for many years to save a lot of family business. When the family was revived, Zhang You informed the family of his Dink decision.
Soon the news spread throughout the circle of relatives. Subsequently, Zhang You often received calls from relatives from all walks of life, or he wanted to let his child go to school there, let him take care of it, cultivate feelings, and give him a pension later. Either let the child transfer to his name to enjoy the preferential policies of his city, and even many let Zhang have support money, saying that he does not want children anyway, and the pressure is not so great.
Zhang You couldn't cry and laugh, and sighed in his heart that people are really too realistic now. The point is that my mother also has such an idea. Since his mother knew that he did not want children, every time she called, she said that she would let Zhang You's two nephews follow him to study. Zhang You refused on the grounds that he was not a biological child and could not enjoy the policy. His mother said that he could transfer the two little nephews to his name, and his parents agreed. He also said that the little nephew is now young and does not understand things, and he will follow his relatives when he raises him. Zhang You was really helpless, and had to agree to take care of his two nephews more often.
It is very unreliable to expect other people's children to retire
Zhang You's mother has such a normal idea, she has no children, and her nephew is the closest to the next generation. My mother was also afraid that he would not have any help in his later years, and when the time came, he would be too miserable, so he thought of letting him and his nephew cultivate feelings.
But the reality is that people's parents are still there, how can not be familiar, even if they are good to him when they are young, and spend more money on him, in his heart, they are not as important as their parents, after all, they are just touching themselves. People with a grateful heart may remember to come and see when they grow up. But some people who do not have a grateful heart do not know gratitude to their parents, let alone outsiders, and may not come and go when they have no value to him. In the future, he will even turn against him because of a little thing, sheng mien, dou mi vendetta.
The Dinks are a big piece of fat in the eyes of relatives and friends
It is no exaggeration to say that the Dinks are a big piece of fat in the eyes of their relatives and friends around them. When he is alive, he can loot money from him, and may inherit a large inheritance after death. Dink lives a dashing life and has a high quality of life, but his body and mind are stressful because everyone around him is staring at you and even wants you to die early.
To put it mildly, Dink is hard, and in his prime, his parents and brothers are like vultures watching rotten meat plan how to divide you. While you are alive, be careful of their calculations. After death, they will also fight for property, leaving a lot of strife.
So if you decide Dink, in order to avoid being calculated early and have trouble behind you, you must plan in advance. Let those with ulterior motives die first. In addition, consider the pension problem in your old age, deal with your pension and property issues through legal channels, and avoid trouble in the future.
【Topic Discussion: Do you have Dink by your side?】 】
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