With the enrichment of people's social material level, the increase of mental pressure and the deep penetration of the concept of equality between men and women, more and more families choose to become "Dink".
Some time ago, the popular saying of "original family" did cause some people to grow up with different degrees of fear about starting a family, especially raising children.
The optimal age for childbearing does not have a choice of children, and after gaining weight, it is actually a particularly difficult thing to do.
In today's China, if you want to pull a child to grow up, it takes a lot of time and effort.
With children, parents must reduce many of their own social interactions and hobbies and live in forced "bondage" at all times.
Just like Kang Hui, for the mother who has passed away, he deeply regrets that he cannot have children.
Raising children, there is a real feeling and a sense of accomplishment, but this is also accompanied by an inexplicable sense of loneliness, which is really sad.
Therefore, under the influence of people's speech and social opinion in the past, most unmarried women clearly expressed a sense of fear of childbearing.
Some couples worry about the lack of financial strength and are more worried about the suffering of their children after birth.
If a person does not feel happy and warm in the original family, or experiences some psychological trauma, it may affect their view of marriage and even dare not have children.
"Fairy" happy times or buying some luxury goods to satisfy their own material pleasures, compared to couples with small children, their hearts are not too much bound, which is indeed enviable.
Some people like the happiness of a family of three, while others like the romantic feelings of two worlds, and even some people live alone for a very small time, as parents must respect the idea of children.
How should parents deal with children who choose "Dink"?
They worry that the children will have no one to take care of it in old age.
However, in the traditional concept of "three filial pieties have no descendants", the initial Dingke refused to allow the next generation to travel around the world, which also became synonymous with rebellion and betrayal in the eyes of parents.
Nowadays, with the spread of social media, "Dink" chooses contradictions and reconciliation, detachment and darkness, joy and loneliness are gradually understood.
When "not having children becomes Dink" becomes the choice of urban youth, we want to see that behind this choice, does the "Dink" family really only care about their own enjoyment, evasion of responsibility and subversion of tradition