Hello everyone, I'm a big brother! As a parent, we all hope that their children are intimate and filial, knowing that they are distressed by their parents, in fact, these qualities can be detected from the performance of their children when they are young, if your children have such performances, as a parent, you must pay attention.
One: Do not understand gratitude
Some time ago, a WeChat screenshot of a conversation between an international student and his parents was circulated, which triggered a heated discussion among netizens.
Her parents worked hard to provide her with schooling, but she not only did not understand the parents' good intentions, but also resented and insulted his father with words. A child who behaves in this way simply understands the meaning of gratitude, and even if she can succeed in her career, do not expect her to have the heart to feed back?
Therefore, the big brother should remind parents, as parents, while doing their best to provide for their children, they must first teach their children what is love, how to love their children, what is gratitude, how to be grateful, so that children can go more smoothly.
Two: Do not understand the bottom line
Big Brother still uses an online hot search to tell everyone what does not understand the bottom line.
Such a small child, there is such a move, then when you grow up, it will not become more intense, parents for the child's doting, let the child do not know the bottom line of being a person, let the child grow up in love without rules, the child will lose the heart of awe.
Big Brother reminds parents that if parents are reluctant to make rules for their children, when he grows up, the rules will naturally punish him.
Three: Do not understand responsibility
In a small daily routine, the child accidentally moved by a chair and cried, how do you deal with it. Some parents not only appease the child, but also punish the chair, saying that the chair hurts the child, which induces the child not to understand the responsibility, invisibly helps the child transfer responsibility, and forms a "victim psychology". Obviously it is the child's fault, but it is transferred to others, and in the long run, the child will have no sense of responsibility. Only children who understand responsibility can take responsibility for their own lives.
The child is born as a blank piece of paper, and the parents' education methods and words and deeds profoundly affect the future of the child, and they want the child to love and filial piety to the parents in the future. Then, from an early age, we must establish correct values and rules for him.
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