Hello everyone, I'm a big brother! Through chatting with parents, the big brother found that today's children have more and more personalities. They are full of energy, can actively seek out knowledge of interest, and have a stronger ability to integrate knowledge. It is precisely because their horizons are more open that they have more confidence in their personality and arrogance.
However, some parents also realize that it is too individualistic and difficult to gain a foothold in society, and how to maintain a balance between personality and smoothness is the difficulty and core of education.
How to cultivate the child's personality and polish the child's edges and corners? Big brother to give you parents a trick!
1, there is no rule can not be a square circle
The growth of children is the process of continuous improvement from making mistakes to correcting mistakes. Establish rules and regulations for children, let children understand what can be done, what can not be done, which behaviors need to be criticized, which need encouragement, parents must discuss things.
2, less criticism, more encouragement, accept the child's ordinary facts
The words and deeds of parents have a great influence on children's emotions, wills and behaviors. As a parent, we must accept the ordinary facts of the child, help the child's problems in time, and encourage the correction of the child's mistakes. Reduce some excessive criticism of children, and treat them normally.
3. The parent's vision is the starting point of the child
For children, the height of parents' vision is the real starting point for children, and parents can be far-sighted is the key to cultivating children; parents should not only stare at the little bit in front of them, only care about temporary gains and losses, and cannot only look at the appearance of things.
If you can't see the advantages of the child, blindly accuse the child of mistakes, the child's initiative will continue to be hit, which is a very cruel thing.
In fact, whether the child is talented or not, or full of personality, can be sleek and sophisticated, for parents do not have to be too anxious, do not have to force polishing, do not have to be better themselves, you can bring better love to children.
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