I admire two kinds of people like this:
When young, a woman who accompanies men through a hard life.
A man who spends a good life with women when he is rich.
Time has passed so many years, and the feelings between husband and wife have changed from love in their youth to more affection.
Sometimes suddenly, you will find that the two mouths will cross and become more and more cold.
In fact, it is not that the feelings have faded but because they are used to it, each other is used to each other's pay but does not know how to be grateful; both sides are used to taking but forget to pay, and the two habitually choose to enjoy but ignore the return.
People are always used to being natural, especially between relatives, and you give a smile to a stranger but a bad temper to the person you love the most.
When you get used to her washing and cooking before and after being busy at home, and you eat delicious meals and wear clean clothes, do you say "you're hard"?
There is nothing to take for granted, she is your wife not your nanny.
When you are used to his tiredness of running outside, accustomed to his hard work and difficulty outside, you always say that others earn more money outside than he does, and you don't know that he is working hard to earn money outside for you and your children to live a better life.
Your encouragement and support is the motivation for him to work outside, when he comes home, do you say "you have worked hard"? He's your husband not your wallet.
The greatest power in the world is love, and the most powerful weapon is touch.
Arguing, scolding, and fighting is the real love. It's not about breaking up when you're tired, it's not about being inappropriate. It is to want to be together even if you are tired, and to strive hard even if it is not suitable.
Tired because you care, inappropriate because you don't love enough, and real love doesn't have so many excuses.
Two people together for a long time will inevitably quarrel, women often say words like knives in anger, and the man who is willing to stay and argue with you and does not want to leave you half a step is the man who really loves you.
When you dislike the women around you who are not beautiful enough, have you ever thought that there are many men who envy her dead-hearted feelings for you.
When a woman gives you everything, you should be satisfied, she does not look at how handsome and rich you are, but that she is ready to share happiness and hardship with you.
When you dislike the man around you is not good enough, have you ever thought that his efforts day and night are to make the beloved you around you more superior living conditions.
When a man is willing to work hard for you with both hands, you should be satisfied, he does not look at how beautiful and sexy you are, but he does not want to suffer with his woman.
After being together for a long time, it slowly becomes dependence, love slowly becomes affection, even if two people do not have the original passion together, then please don't forget that there are still feelings.
When you want to let go, have you ever wondered why you came here with him in the first place?
The best relationship between husband and wife is: you know my hard work of earning money outside, and I understand that it is not easy for you to take a baby at home.
Good couples know how to pretend to be stupid with each other, husband and wife are not enemies, do not think about conquering and suppressing each other, do not blindly accuse each other of who is right and who is wrong.
There is no one right or wrong in love, no one is superior, no one is better than anyone, no one is not worthy of anyone. The division of labor is different, the responsibilities are different, the two are equal, and you are worthy of what kind of person you are.
The most shrewd husband and wife relationship lies precisely in not thinking about it, and only by not thinking about it in life can we respect and love each other.
Husbands and wives are not afraid of quarrelling and talking about not understanding each other, not knowing how to communicate, the best marriage relationship is to understand each other, encourage each other, and support each other.
So many years of ups and downs, ups and downs have come, women know how to stay together, men know gratitude, this is a lifetime.
Being able to be together in this life is the fate of the cultivation in the past life, and in this life, we must support each other to go on. Wait until the last moment of life and say without regret: "It is good to have you in this life." ”
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