In "Thirty Only", there is a line that is very heartfelt: "Children, it is the debt of our past life." If we don't have the ability, we will be the ferryman's boat, and we will send it wherever we can before we close our eyes. They themselves are the big boat, so we have to be the lifeboat on the top, and in case something happens, we are the ones who will finally send them ashore. ”
I deeply believe that the love of parents for their children is natural and engraved in the bones. From children learning to learn to get married and start a family, as long as you are a parent, as long as you still have the ability, you will do everything you can to help your children. Originally, the relationship between parents and children, you raise me small, I raise you old, is a virtue and a virtuous circle.
But just as not all parents in this world are qualified, not all children will know how to be grateful and reciprocal when they grow up with the love of their parents. This part of the children, they will think that their parents should give to themselves, and they do not need to be grateful, do not need to return. Once the parents cannot help, they abandon the parents and stay away from the parents. Chen Juxiang put on such a son.
Chen Juxiang's original family, relatively poor, coupled with her parents' preference for sons and daughters, she began to earn money to supplement the family when she was very young. Later marriages were also the words of the parents, only because the in-laws could give a little more bride price. Originally, the in-laws' economic conditions were OK, and in theory, her life should be better. But coincidentally, after she entered the door, the in-laws' business began to go downhill. In less than a few years, not only did I catch up with my original savings, but I also owed a lot of money.
Chen Juxiang's in-laws naturally pushed all this to Chen Juxiang, believing that it was she who brought obscurity when she entered the door and affected the family. Fortunately, the husband can still carry it clearly, and Chen Juxiang can still feel a little comforted. Relations between her and her in-laws began to ease, after she conceived and gave birth to a son in October. The birth of her grandson, coupled with Chen Juxiang's hard-working efforts, finally made her in-laws no longer complain about her.
Because of the restrictions of family conditions, Chen Juxiang and her husband decided not to have a second child and do their best to raise this son. Chen Juxiang herself does not have much culture, but she knows that only when a person understands culture and has the ability can he go out and have a big show. So she and her husband are two people, one mind to make money, and even two jobs per person, just so that her son can eat well and dress well. Will not be looked down upon by their peers, can spend their minds on learning.
Fortunately, my son was angry, grew up healthy and healthy, and his academic performance has always been the best in the class, and finally in our expectations, he was admitted to college and walked out of the ravine. Chen Juxiang is very proud, and she also feels that the efforts of her two sons for so many years are worth it. The two of them, as parents, gave their son what they could give, but forgot to teach their son what filial piety was.
After his son graduated, he stayed in the big city and successfully found a job. Chen Juxiang does not think that it is wrong for her son not to return to his hometown, in her career, she still respects her son's choice and judgment. Since the son thinks that the current city is more suitable for his development, then as a parent, he must support, after all, when he was thinking about it, didn't he hope that his son could have a career? But after she started working for her son, she rarely called her parents and was a little uncomfortable.
However, she soon made an excuse for her son, believing that he was too busy, but this excuse was shattered the first time she went to her son's home in the city. After working for three years, the son got married and started a family, and the daughter-in-law was a city girl, and she had never come to the village once, saying that it was too far away. Chen Juxiang did not say much, and like most parents, took out his life savings to help his son buy a marriage house.
But even though Chen Juxiang and his wife gave everything, after the granddaughter was born, the two went to the city to see their granddaughter, and they were still sneered at. At noon in the summer, after arriving at her son's house, the daughter-in-law did not even give a glass of water. Instead, he looked disgusted and said, "Are you old, so you can't smell your own body, and you are not afraid of choking your children." Don't come over after nothing happens, we can't afford to buy these things in the field, you take a bunch of them, put them on the couch, they are all dirty. ”
In this way, Chen Juxiang's two sons worked hard to bring a lot of things to his son's house, and he didn't even eat food, and he came back with red eyes. On the way back, Chen Juxiang did not hold back, crying out, she did not blame her daughter-in-law, after all, it was not her own flesh and bones, after all, she did not bear her own nurturing grace. She was cold to her son, and when her daughter-in-law said these poignant words, her son did not say a word.
After this time, the two never appeared in front of their son again, and the son tacitly did not come to see his parents. Every time Chen Juxiang received a phone call from her son as if he had completed a task, he couldn't say a few words and was over. Seven years later, Chen Juxiang and his two sons went out to play together at the invitation of neighbors. The neighbor has a filial son who will take his parents on a trip when he is empty. This time, the neighbor insisted on taking Chen Juxiang with two mouths, and the two thought about this life, and indeed did not travel well, so they agreed.
It was also this time that there was a car accident on the way back, and Chen Juxiang's husband died. Because the responsibility for the accident lies with the other party, Chen Juxiang received a compensation payment, and she hid the compensation money from her son. Before her husband died, he had told her more than once that his son was unreliable, and the two of them tried to save some money, and later sold the old house in the village and went to live in a nursing home together.
Although Chen Juxiang felt that even if her son was indifferent to his parents now, he should not really not give his parents a pension, but she told her son that his father had a car accident, and his son's first reaction was that he did not have money to pay for medical expenses, and when she heard that his father had died, she was relieved, she decided to listen to her husband's words. But she thought she was smart, thinking that if she didn't say it, her son wouldn't know, who knew that his son already knew.
So Chen Juxiang saw her son and daughter-in-law returning with her grandson and calling her a boo. After taking care of the aftermath, the son even proposed to take Chen Juxiang to the city for the elderly. Chen Juxiang thought about it and felt that his body was indeed not very good, since his son and daughter-in-law had filial piety, then he promised to go to his son's home for the elderly, and his children and grandchildren were on their knees, and it was not bad.
Chen Juxiang did not think about what made a son who originally did not have much gratitude to you suddenly become enthusiastic, and what made a daughter-in-law who originally hated you and was dirty and smelly suddenly agree to live under the same roof. Chen Juxiang stepped into her son's home for the second time, and her heart was full of emotions, and she thought in her heart, if her husband had not died, the two sons could come together and enjoy the life under the knees of their children and grandchildren.
Chen Juxiang, with the help of her daughter-in-law, cleaned up her room, and her son had already prepared a table of meals. Chen Juxiang looked at the family, so happy, her eyes red in the smoke of the meal. Sun Tzu saw Chen Juxiang in tears and asked, "Grandma, why are you crying?" Are you worried that your mother will let you go back after taking your money? Mom said you have a lot of money and said she would let you go back when she got it. ”
Listening to Sun Tzu's words, Chen Juxiang suddenly understood that the current happiness and harmony were all acting. When the daughter-in-law saw that the child had said the wrong thing, she immediately explained, but how could Chen Juxiang still believe it? Fairy tales are unbridled, but sometimes they are the truth. The son saw Chen Juxiang's indifferent face, and finally did not want to disguise, he said: "Mom, you are old, and you can't use much money, besides, my father's compensation, I also have a share, you take it out to us, why can't you?" Didn't you often say that parents live for their children all their lives? ”
Chen Juxiang smiled and didn't say anything, and his son probably wanted to slow down, so he didn't force Chen Juxiang to ask. After a sleepless night, before the sky was clear, Chen Juxiang took the clothes she had come to and embarked on the road back to the village. When she got home, she told her son that she had returned to the village. She decided that she would go to the nursing home in the future, and if she did not educate her son well, she would no longer expect her sincere children and grandchildren to fall on her knees.
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