Today is March 8, International Women's Day, also known as "International Women's Day", which is often referred to as "March 8th Festival"!
This year's Women's Day has been calculated for 112 years, has experienced a century of continuation, and is an indispensable cultural witness to the progress and development of mankind!
Women can hold up half of the sky, and it is by no means an empty word; facts have proved that in today's long river of history, the fruits of women's hard work are no less than men's, and even more than men's momentum!
The remarkable rise in the status of women in social life also represents a true portrayal of the era of human civilization and the epitome of human progress!
However, there are still some female groups that need the care of society, the encouragement of friends, and the support and protection of their families!
Many years ago, passing by a small mountain village, I stumbled upon a family around the dinner table, and it seemed that there was a lot of attention!
A detail that I still can't forget, only to see a woman, busy in the kitchen, and it is a fire and cutting vegetables, busy feet do not touch the ground!
Before the meal was ready, a man strode into the courtyard, sat down at the table, and shouted loudly in his mouth: Come to the bowl of water to drink, thirsty to death!
Endure the smell of oil smoke and experience the scorn of the people around you!
Before the words could be heard, the man took out a box of cigarettes from his pocket, pulled out one by hand, and skillfully lit it; in an instant, a puff of smoke was revealed, and the feeling of riding the fog was wonderful!
After a while, the child will come back from school, take off his coat, and don't forget to help his mother serve the food!
Obviously, they are family!
Seeing this, my heart suddenly trembled, and my busy wife did not receive the slightest appreciation, but became what it should be!
A young child, seeing his mother's hard work, also knows to help his mother, and the husband around him, but there is no good return!
Although men are very tired and tired from working outside the home, when they return home from work, they should not snub the continuous efforts of their wives and the kindness of their children from the heart!
Think about how many families we have now, while enjoying the silent efforts of the people around us, while still complaining about the shortness of parents!
Say what today's meal is too salty, that peanut rice fried paste, boiled soup overheated!
The hard work of the wife and the inadvertent kindness of the child require us to give good feedback and positive responses, rather than blindly accusing and commenting casually!
Remember the happiness of love, and then look at the desolation of the breakup, the ruthless punch in the face again and again, and the true portrayal of life experienced again and again!
It is better to do it than to give the people around you a deep hug!
I have been married to my wife for more than 10 years, as an "old driver" who has been galloping in the married life for many years, I still want to advise friends, husband and wife, where there is any earth-shattering ghost story to say, most of them are some trivial things in ordinary life, although ordinary but can not start again, can only in ordinary life years, try to create their own extraordinary!
Husband and wife are together, it is inevitable to bump and bump, and the dispute between words and tongues; seeing that it is open and put down, why not?
People are full of feelings, no one is iron-hearted, I don't believe, you treat a person sincerely, and he is indifferent!
I remember once, I was washing, my wife was in the bedroom next to me, inexplicably talking, the sound of washing in the bathroom, directly drowned out her voice, can only hear someone talking, can not hear what was said at all?
While brushing my teeth and washing my face, I also had to reply to my wife's words, and I was also very helpless!
You said reply, it's not that you can't, but you don't know what you said, and what do you want me to answer you?
Not answering is also angry, arbitrarily echoing it, or not satisfied, it is better not to say anything, let the situation continue!
Hearing the above content, are many male friends who have had the same experience and scene?
If you are silent, you can solve the problem, but also talk, but also communicate, what else do you want to communicate?
If in the long run, the two people lack effective communication, after accumulating over time, will cold violence slowly form?
Obviously, keeping silent is not a good way to solve the problem, you say?
I have seen two people quarreling and not abandoning; rarely encounter a husband and wife of two children, usually do not speak, do not communicate, can continue to be together!
The cold violence between husband and wife is the beginning of the dangerous signals of married life!
People need to interact, need feedback, need to be recognized, need to be accepted!
Whoever says that couples who have been married for many years cannot use clever words; who says that the old two must follow the rules, as always; appropriately add some fun to life, and it is also a manifestation of loving life!
To love her, you must immediately and boldly tell her every day, and it is not impossible to be at all times!
Love the right person, every day is Valentine's Day, every day is also a day worth remembering; with the arrival of this women's festival, I wish female friends, more and more beautiful, more and more young, more and more feminine!
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