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Marriage, which is a chicken feather, lives with two mouths, and cannot avoid bumps.
Such an incident broke out on the Internet.
Jinhua, Zhejiang, a small couple who have been married for several years, are financially strapped, and the children's milk powder money cannot be squeezed out.
The wife felt that it was okay for adults to save money and use money, but they could not suffer the children, so they went back to their mother's house to borrow money to buy milk powder for the baby.
After the wife took the money home, the husband wanted to ask his wife for money and buy a cigarette for the uncle, on the grounds that the uncle was very helpful to their family, and he wanted to take advantage of the uncle's birthday to express it.
My wife was very angry when she heard this: The money was lent to me by my mother for the child, do you want to give affection? Which one is important?
Without a word, the two went to war.
Wen Dou was not only angry, but also staged an all-out martial act.
Thunderbolt pulls a punch. The two also went outside, and the onlookers helped call the police, otherwise they did not know whether more serious consequences would occur.
The police came and the couple pressed the pause button.
In the end, the couple's unit came forward, paid the salary advance to the two children in advance, and also sent milk powder to the child. Help the little couple get through the difficulties temporarily.
However, the unit is not a charity and cannot help all the time. In the future, we will still face a dilemma, or we need to solve it by the couple.
This marriage has already had security risks.
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Many netizens are complaining that men are not responsible, know that there is no money to have children? Even milk powder can't afford to buy, sick hospitals don't dare to go, and children can't afford anything. And someone more ruthless: This is not a divorce yet? Long pain does not spit short pain...
Looking at the discussion of netizens, my heart is full of mixed feelings.
Poor couple Pepsi lament! Money is not a panacea, but no money is impossible, especially after having children, if you want to give her (him) the best life, you need more expenses.
The cost of living increases, the income stands still, and the days will be stretched. Emotional outbursts have become a way to vent.
And these two mouths are "people in temperament". Fighting became inevitable. The reasons for this are nothing more than these two points.
(1) The wife returns to her mother's house to borrow money, although she is a mother, but for the daughter who is married, it is also difficult to talk about, if the mother's family has a brother-in-law or a brother-in-law, she will feel humiliated.
If her parents did not have any savings, they would feel guilty, but for the sake of their children, she could only reluctantly open her mouth. Borrowed money, the wife wants to dedicate money to special purposes. The husband asked for money and gifts, and obviously did not think about his wife's feelings. It is also disrespectful to her.
(2) The husband wants to take advantage of his uncle's birthday to buy cigarettes and return the favor, and he is also a person who cherishes love and righteousness.
He wanted to take money from his wife, and he should think that his wife was a family member, his uncle was an outsider, and the husband and wife who bought cigarettes had a light on their faces. But the husband ignores that the favor he owes is probably before the wife marries in? Or, to help his parents.
The husband's uncle is not related to the wife by blood, and the gift should not take the money borrowed by the wife. Even if you owe affection after marriage, you must communicate well with your wife.
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Life in the world, need emotional support, need to help each other, life will have a taste.
Marriage is also a game of love and life.
Everyone wants face, but they still have to consider the actual situation.
Between relatives, what can pull you when you are embarrassed is indeed to be remembered, but family affection is also a long stream. You can also come to Japan for a long time.
The two of them made a fuss like this. The uncle must have known, how could this not be a psychological burden for him? It will also be awkward to meet later.
The husband is not only reckless, but also too low in emotional intelligence. My wife will be very tired with him, but some netizens say that divorce, I think it is still necessary to think twice.
Who can guarantee that divorce will meet better? Who can guarantee that you will meet someone rich in a second marriage?
Those who speak harshly may not be able to make a decision on the spot, but just want others to realize their wishes.
In matters of feelings, we must still be rational and objective, and we should not be coerced by public opinion.
Outsiders just suggest that the only one who really appreciates the cold and warm of life is yourself.