From the beginning of marriage, the two sons have become the closest people, whether they are respectful or playing, whether they are gentle and sweet or husbands singing with women, the two people are tied together, getting along day and night, and walking hand in hand through every spring, summer, autumn and winter. Two people want to be long-term, the four things in the family are not enough for outsiders, otherwise, it is too easy to affect the trust between the two people, affectionate become jealous, sweet becomes aggrieved, and finally has a fatal impact on the direction of marriage.
First, the family's income is not enough for outsiders
Now in society, the gap between rich and poor is gradually widening, some people are rich before marriage, the pressure of life after marriage is great, and slowly become embarrassing, at this time, some family wives will feel that men have become useless, they can't earn money, it is easy to produce contradictions, but do not disclose this information to outsiders, poor and lowly couples are sad, rich, others must be jealous, no money, others must despise, this is human nature.
Even if it is their own parents and friends, there are many persuasions and dissuasion, and ordinary people are often susceptible to the influence of others, and it is easy to change their positions with a few words of brainwashing, after all, the fact that there is no money is there.
Therefore, husband and wife want to be long-term, the economic situation of the family should not be told to others, as long as both parties work hard, poverty is short-lived, and there are hands and no stuttering!
Second, the contradictory words between husband and wife are not enough for outsiders
Between husband and wife, every day together, just like the upper and lower jaws, where there is no collision and no friction, there is a contradictory life is normal, as long as there is no domestic violence, no cheating, no cheating, small fights are normal, who have not yet a little temper, encounter emotional problems, calm each other down, and then give each other a step down, bedside fights and bedside and.
The most taboo to tell outsiders the angry words when they are angry and quarrelsome, in addition to easy to cause ridicule by others, it is easier to cause greater contradictions, even if it is their own parents, not only is it easy to make them worry, when they meet their unenlightened parents, they will also add fuel to the fire, hard to touch, no one is afraid of anyone, resulting in the breakdown of the marriage of the little two.
The shortcomings of three or two people are not enough for outsiders to be humane
Jin is not complete, no one is perfect, want to be inseparable from their other half for a long time, decide not to let themselves become the person who hurts each other the most, two people live together, know everything about each other, shortcomings and deficiencies are at a glance, once two people have contradictions, tell outsiders about shortcomings without any cover, not only will make their lovers unable to look up in front of others, but also make others despise their lovers, the future development of their lovers is very bad, and even affect the psychology of lovers. Being hurt by the people around you is the most difficult hurdle for a person to cross, and it is easy to go to extremes if you can't figure it out.
Fourth, the fault of parents is not enough for outsiders to be humane
Small family encounters problems, two people are very good to solve, this time is not how good people are to do things, but the fewer people who are mixed, the easier it is to sort out the problem, both husband and wife also understand each other's parents, more or less understand their faults, once they encounter problems, tell others about the other parents' things, not only do you have no brains, but also make the other party disgusted to the extreme, no one sees their parents being numbered, will willingly accept, a good son is not as good as a good daughter-in-law, A good daughter is not as good as a good son-in-law, emotionally her own children are closer, but in dealing with people, the idea of a good other half plays a decisive role, love the house and Wu, but also for the sake of loving and honoring each other's parents, rather than killing a boat of people with a stick.
Between husband and wife, is a lifelong hand in hand partners, everyone must pay their own sincerity for each other's sincerity, know how to love others is also a very deep and profound learning, know how to be considerate and understand love, in order to live a sweet life, happiness for a long time.
Feel the beauty with your heart, and write your life with words
Author: Ji Nuohan
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