Throughout our lives, whether we are chasing and catching up with each other, or living slowly and leisurely, in fact, our purpose is only to achieve happiness.
When you are young, you don't understand, happiness may be a sword to go to the end of the world, it may be a vigorous love, after a little older, happiness may be accompanied by someone, maybe it is a trivial ordinary day, maybe it is the well-being of the family.
At different ages, everyone's definition of happiness is different, but no matter what, the so-called happiness is love, hope, and future.
The happiness of middle-aged people is actually very simple.
When they were young, the newborn calves were not afraid of tigers, with a passion, with a spirit of not being afraid of losing, to explore the world, to discover the beauty of the world.
After some experience, you will find that after going around, you still return to the starting point, even if the footsteps you have chased have made yourself extremely happy, but the rushing heart still hopes to find a foothold and find a home.
Happiness after middle age is to be able to give yourself a down-to-earth feeling, to be able to touch yourself, and to hold yourself in your hands.
In a limited life, it is enough to have a happiness that can be held.
01: Someone accompanies you towards twilight
A sentence in the "Six Records of Floating Life", "No one stands with me at dusk, and no one asks me if the porridge can be warm", the tao exhausts the heartache of many people and describes the suffering of many people.
The happiness of middle-aged people is that someone accompanies you towards the twilight.
Maybe the love of youth is vigorous, and the person who loves most is forgotten in the jianghu, but if for a marriage, for a middle-aged person, in fact, love or not is really not so important, more important is the comfort level when getting along.
Who craves solitude? But who isn't lonely? While we learn to grow independently, we still hope that someone will accompany you, someone will understand you, and someone will protect you.
After middle age, it is often a state of being old and young, the burden of life suddenly becomes larger, and can only go to struggle, and after the end of a tired day, you can see a warm and harmonious home, you can get understanding and understanding of your partner, it is a kind of happiness.
Lovers and children are the closest people you will have for the rest of your life, and they are also people who can willingly give everything for you.
Maybe under the grind of life, you are no longer the way you were, but no matter how late you go home, there is still a lamp left for you, no matter how thoroughly you lose, there are still some people who support and accompany you, which is the happiness of middle-aged people.
Therefore, when everything is still too late, go home to see more, spend more time with your family, and taste the most common and practical happiness in the fireworks life.
02: Have a healthy body
If we don't have a healthy body, we can't see our future, and we don't have any happiness to speak of.
As the saying goes, "There is no filial piety before the bed of a long illness." ”
Even if the children who were filial to each other at the beginning could not always guard their own side, could not put themselves first, and even because of their own illness, they would affect the happiness of their children.
Some things, in the face of human nature, are really fragile, if you don't touch it, you can still keep the happiness you already have, and if you touch it, maybe just a little, you can make your existing happiness fall apart.
The happiness of middle-aged people is to have a healthy body.
Material conditions are indeed very important, and the abundance of life can indeed make a family more happy and satisfying, but if you disregard your body in order to chase the wealth in material life, then after losing your health, you will definitely get a lot more pain than happiness.
Even if you don't think about the people around you, you should also think about yourself, because after losing your health, all the pain will be inflicted on yourself, there are diseases, and there is a bad nature.
Many people in life reach middle age, they begin to complain, complaining about this for a while, complaining about that for a while, in fact, this is often a manifestation of the authorities' fans.
If you can broaden your vision a little, if you can enlarge the scope of happiness a little, it is easy to find yourself surrounded by happiness.
The arrival of accidents is always unexpected, and many loves that have not yet been said are buried in those accidents, so people should still learn to cherish the happiness of the moment.
When we are young, our definition of happiness is not very accurate, but as we get older, true happiness will slowly be outlined, and this process requires us to know how to jump out of the shackles of the past in time.
And the happiness of middle-aged people, but so, is very simple:
Someone to accompany you to the twilight, this is someone who loves you, someone who is loved by you, the rest of your life will not be lonely:
Having a healthy body, this is the manifestation of having a future, as long as you are alive, there is hope in life, and happiness will come unexpectedly.
No matter how simple life is, no matter how ordinary life is, there are beautiful little blessings hidden.
For the rest of your life, may you and I see those small blessings and cherish the happiness of the moment.
I am Aya, a warm-hearted emotional writer, and I am so fortunate to meet you in this life! Click a note, let's grow knowledge together!
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