Today eggshells talk to you about this topic together, many couples have feedback with me, saying that the family hinders the marriage of two people on the grounds that two people are not door-to-door pairs, and asks themselves whether they should continue to insist. Today, Eggshell will talk about this problem from the perspective of astrology, and also talk about his own views.
I think it's the right thing to do
In my understanding, the door-to-door pair is actually equal to the combination of the plate, and the door-to-door pair in the mouth of the old people is actually the simplest way to compare whether the three views of two people are likely to be compatible.
There was a mother who came to me with information about her child and object. Before that, she did not give me too much background information about the two people, after reading it, I felt that the two people could not be together at all, not only married, but even in love for a long time, each other's families would cause war, so I vaguely asked the client mother whether she agreed to the marriage of the two children.
This client's mother only told me the truth after seeing the results, it turned out that she was the boy's mother, in this relationship belongs to a family with a better economy, but they are not deeply rooted in the family, but in the early years of poverty, and later after their own and the boy's father's struggle, there is some family business, the boy is well protected, they originally did not expect the child to be able to take on any big responsibility, they want to find a kind girl to the boy as a partner, they can give some financial support, Therefore, the requirements for the woman's family situation are not particularly high. And this year, the boy himself fell in love with a single-parent family, and the girl who graduated from junior high school brought home in the New Year to ask for the opinion of his parents to see if he could get married. As a result, the father strongly opposed, feeling that single parents + junior high school graduates and master's degree graduates of their own children are not particularly right, boys believe that they can not discriminate against others because of family and academic qualifications, the father believes that the environment affects people, girls can not say that people are not good, but with their children is not particularly suitable, need to reconsider, can not marry too quickly.
This mother is very difficult in the middle, she wants the child to be happy, and she is afraid that the child is not happy, and she is worried that what the father said will come true, and she is worried that if the father looks away from the son and misses true love, in desperation, she looks for me to see the marriage plate.
So let me talk about the results of my merger, I also do not approve of this couple, the reason is not the family situation or education, but first of all, the boy's personality is idealized, is well protected, and at the same time yearns for the father's vigorous behavior, belongs to the type of want to do more and do less, he is reading more, but for some human relations, and interpersonal relationships, there is no opinion, and girls, in fact, will always be inferior because of academic qualifications and single parents, and themselves are not valued in their own families, if they are really together for a long time, She is not as financially as good as boys, but she wants to try to match boys, so she will use money and some foreign objects to decorate herself, want to make herself more excellent, then the source of this money is without exception the male family, in the short term, boys can use feelings to convince themselves, or parents can give support, and in the long run, once the parents stop the economic supply, the feelings of these two people will easily break.
If the girl has a bad family or a bad education, and meets a man who can be financially independent, then the boy can teach her how to use knowledge and efforts to improve herself, and the current person is not experienced enough to fundamentally help the girl. If the boy is idealized and meets a very rich girl, a little cooperation can also be good. Therefore, judging from the results of this relationship, the score is not very high.
"Door to door" between the modern, has long been said not only the portal, but the portal brought about by the difference in cognition, I advocate that everyone pursue feelings, but can not blindly pursue feelings, who is with whom in this world, in fact, it is very difficult to say, the world is different from the two people, as long as a certain password of the astrolabe is connected, it can be together, "door to door" is the code in the astrolabe, rich and poor is never two together, the three views are enough to be the same frequency, is the fundamental reason why two people can be together.
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