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There are two hard points in Cancer.
First, the zodiac sign is too emotional, and if you have been in deep contact with more zodiac signs, you will find that Cancer is particularly emotional in the zodiac signs! I don't want to talk about people at every turn, and I really don't want to say anything more, I don't want to waste more than one word, I just want to be alone.
The vast majority of Cancer crabs have irritability and like cold violence, which is emotional, but in fact, this emotionality stems from insecurity, and insecurity is because of paranoia, and paranoia is because of too low self-esteem.
In fact, in the process of getting along with Cancer, most of his abnormal performance is related to his inferiority to a certain extent, such as when he was a child, he always wondered whether his parents would suddenly divorce and then did not want himself; when he went to school, he was always worried that his best friend and himself were not the best; after falling in love, he would often test each other to see if the other party had lied, and whether he loved himself or not.
Coupled with the fact that Cancer does not like conflict by nature and is accustomed to accommodating others, Cancer prefers to use cold violence than to open-end communication. In fact, whether it is friendship or love, what Cancer needs most is security and self-confidence, as long as you can give him this feeling, he will give you everything he has.
The second difficult point, Cancer is really good at disguise, they are the kind of constellation that is calm on the surface, the years are quiet, full of motherhood, in fact, Cancer will really have the idea of poking and poking the belly black in his heart, the simplest example is that Cancer may give you a smile on the surface, and feel that you are really stupid X, or Cancer often sees through and does not say broken, while pandering to you, while the heart is very dismissive of your statement.
It can be said that the Cancer you know is just the appearance that Cancer wants to show you, in fact, his disguise is also a typical personality trait of Cancer, that is, "Buddha", this "Buddha" has also led to Cancer in getting along with others, there will be a layer of estrangement, even if you play well at the beginning, but he will still instinctively keep some distance from you, which is difficult to change.
So how can such an emotional, and good at disguise Cancer enter his heart? Or is it worth going inside him? You remember that Cancer always needs to be confident and secure, as long as there is a person in front of him can not leave, and then there is a very assertive person can lead him, so that he can rely on the other party to move forward, then Cancer will be able to get along with you, and give you all.
In fact, most of the cancer crab personality is still relatively frank, although they are casual on the surface, but in their bones there is a kind of stubbornness that is difficult to change, and it is difficult to change the things that are decided, such as I am going to lie in bed tonight to watch a variety show, how the sisters tell me to go out to play, what to invite me to eat, how many little brothers drink together, then I don't want to go out. To put it bluntly, as long as Cancer has identified things, then I am very persistent and single-minded, and I will never leave you easily.
Therefore, with Cancer, although you can use skills to seduce him, you don't need a lot of skills. Because no skill is as good as you like him enough, understand him enough, be able to tolerate his little temper, give him enough security, then Cancer will definitely not abandon you.
In a word: pay the heart, will get the heart, with the heart for the heart, the most suitable for Cancer!
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