After the divorce of the husband and wife, should they go their separate ways from now on, forget each other in the rivers and lakes, or break the connection and continue to be entangled?
Husbands and wives, during the marriage, will have responsibilities and constraints on each other. Once divorced, couples become the most familiar strangers, with no obligations and no responsibilities.
Even if you have kindness to each other, you should stop at the right time, rather than going too far as to kidnap others to help you fulfill your filial piety. Such a person, saying that the good point is arrogant, saying that the ugly point is that he has never weighed clearly how many pounds he has in the end.
01, the ex-husband pinched the son and asked to remarry
If it were not for the tension between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and the husband's foolish filial piety, perhaps Jia Ning would not have chosen to divorce when his son was only two years old. In order to get custody of her son, Jia Ning chose to get out of the house and asked for nothing.
At the time of the divorce, the two sides negotiated, and the ex-husband gave the son 1,000 yuan a month in maintenance and visited twice a month. However, after half a year of divorce, Jia Ning did not get a penny from her ex-husband. Every time she asked for money, her ex-husband would talk about remarriage, saying that he thought she was just impulsive, and when she realized that she was wrong, he would change his mind and remarry.
Although every time there was a mother-in-law conflict, Jia Ning also mentioned divorce many times, but each time she was fooled by her ex-husband's giggles. But this time, she came for real. Because she could no longer stand her ex-mother-in-law's finger-pointing at their home and stirring up dissension. Every time, the ex-husband favors his parents, believing that there are parents in the world, and that mistakes are also the problems of the daughter-in-law.
Once or twice, he didn't get maintenance, and over time, the strong Jianning simply didn't want it. She has hands and feet, and she can completely support her son, not to mention that she still has her parents behind her to help her support. As a last resort, Jia Ning would not bow his head and compromise.
In the three years since she married her ex-husband, she has long had enough of the face of a foolish filial man. What the in-laws say is what they are, and the ex-husband has no opinion and has not defended himself. Buy something yourself, the mother-in-law will interfere, and count her losers, rely on her son to raise, and spend money indiscriminately.
During the three years of living with her in-laws, Jia Ning almost got sick and almost became depressed after childbirth. Therefore, when her ex-husband threatened her with divorce, Jian Ning agreed without hesitation, and even felt relieved.
02, "You take leave to serve my mother, I give my son 1,000 yuan a month in child support"
In the second year of divorce, under the expectation and urging of her parents, Jia Ning married the blind date again. At that time, her only request was to be kind to her son. The other party agreed, and he did do it after the marriage.
Just when Jia Ning thought that his life was finally on the right track, the ghostly ex-husband reappeared. And this time, he finally relaxed his mouth to give his son support, but there was a condition: "You take leave to serve my mother, I give my son 1,000 alimony every month, otherwise I will not give anything."
Jia Ning thought he was joking, he had already remarried, and his former mother-in-law was sick and hospitalized, what did it have to do with her? 1,000 yuan a month of child support is the obligation of the ex-husband as a father, how can the two be linked?
The ex-husband did not listen to her defense, but thought that she was inching forward and wanted to make more demands. Jian Ning was almost laughed at by her ex-husband's cheeky face, and she calmly told her ex-husband, "I remarried early, and I have no obligation." And 1,000 yuan of child support is your obligation. ”
Jia Ning's words not only did not make her ex-husband shrink back, but also determined that Jia Ning wanted to get away with it, and was still blaming him, so he deliberately took remarriage as a matter. Jia Ning almost laughed angrily and hung up the phone decisively.
03, the ex-husband's affectionate kidnapping
After that, the ex-husband called many times, all of which advised Jia Ning not to be preoccupied, the child could not be without a father, and his mother was also accustomed to Jia Ning's care, this illness was no exception, please nurse and waste money, and not intimate, not as good as his daughter-in-law.
Jia Ning did not expect that after two years of divorce, her ex-husband became more and more rogue, and actually used the trick of throwing unreasonable trouble. In the past, every time the ex-in-laws fell ill, the ex-husband threw the pot to her, saying that he was busy at work and wanted to support the family, and let Jia Ning, the daughter-in-law, serve her.
But waiting and waiting, Jia Ning was still disliked by her ex-in-laws, and in front of her married sister, she was not careful enough. Remembering these past events and hearing about her ex-husband's moral kidnapping, Jia Ning had to be glad that she stopped the loss in time. Even if she leaves the house, she must stay away from this man and such a mother-in-law.
As for his son's monthly 1,000 yuan child support, Jia Ning had long since stopped paying attention. A responsible man, even if divorced, he will not use child support to blackmail his ex-wife.
Today's Topic:
What do you think of a man's behavior of divorcing and then blackmailing his ex-wife with child support?