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Xiao Jia felt that her husband Ah Bing began to be "indifferent" to herself a year ago, at first Xiao Jia thought that this was the kind of "left hand touching right hand" couple numbness period that people often say in their mouths, but in the past six months, the "temptation" found that this was not the case, what did Ah Bing's performance say? Talking to him impatiently, the old people who went to see both sides together were also very reluctant, including the little thing between the husband and wife, there was no initiative at all, and even a little disgusted feeling, and after Xiao Jia ruled out the possibility of Ah Bing having an affair, a fact was placed in front of Xiao Jia - Ah Bing had lost interest in loving her, because Ah Bing honestly told her that if she did not divorce, he did not guarantee whether he would cheat.
Needless to say, some couples may face a crisis of loss of feelings after a certain period of marriage. Divorce rate is still high now, there is no emotional basis for the couple, if for various reasons continue to "tied" together, it is the misfortune of two people, so why can not make a decision, to give each other, but also to give themselves an outlet to find happiness? In the end, the love affair of husband and wife is a kind of fate, when the fate comes, the passion of the two is like a volcano alliance; the fate is over, and there is no need to wronged themselves to be difficult for each other, especially do not hurt each other.
Just like xiao jia mentioned above, when she found that her husband Ah Bing and herself could no longer return to the previous "you have me and I have you", when the breakup became inevitable, Xiao Jia did not lose her mind like to die and cry and make trouble, since divorce is the only inevitable result, Xiao Jia after some thinking, and Ah Bing talked about the aftermath of one aspect, this aspect is actually around the original family is about to disintegrate, how to stop the loss in time in the economy. Let's take a look at Xiao Jia's "stop loss" method.
First of all, Xiao Jia "fixed the evidence" of her common property after marriage with Ah Bing, the house, the car and the deposit, as well as a small amount of securities investment by the two people, which were all clear, Xiao Jia cut the two people's salary cards in time - each in charge, including the family's usual food, clothing, housing, children's education costs, the elderly's expenses, etc., both of which were shared. It was also agreed that, in addition to the personal salary after cutting, all these "common property" mentioned above would then be divided according to 4:6, that is, the party raising the child would account for 60% and the other party would account for 40%. "The heart of harming people must not be there, and the heart of preventing people must not be without", such a stop loss behavior, it looks a little impersonal, in fact, it is beneficial and harmless to everyone.
Secondly, for the child's maintenance, Xiao Jia proposed three plans, and no matter who finally assumed the responsibility for raising the child, the other party must strictly implement them. The "three options" are, first, monthly maintenance (including living and educational expenses); At the same time, it is noted that the maintenance fee fluctuates according to the annual price increase. The details of the "common property", plus the child's upbringing, Xiao Jia and her husband Ah Bing had an open and honest conversation, Ah Bing seemed to be a little remorseful, but Xiao Jia was not moved, not that she did not linger on her old love with Ah Bing, but that she was afraid that she would be hurt twice. The severance of "common property" and the maintenance of children, in case this is no longer an issue, divorce will be brought up again. Instead of being injured in the future, why not stop the loss and relieve the pain now?