In our lifetime, we will experience all kinds of things, but the appearance of each person is an arrangement given to us by Heaven.
So in real life, we don't have to envy other people's lives, because when other people's, it is not necessarily suitable for you.
When facing feelings, we must also learn to be free, because what really belongs to you does not need you to force it.
As adults, we don't have to waste time in unsuitable feelings, be free, and be able to mature more.
Schwartz's thesis tells us that "luck" and "misfortune" are all about you.
Would you give up your career because you loved someone deeply? Presumably, everyone will have a different answer to this question, but I would like to say that giving up your career because of love is never a wise thing to do.
Wang Mengmeng and her husband have been married for 8 years, before getting married, Mengmeng ran a small shop of her own, and her life was quite good, because of a chance, Mengmeng strengthened the rich second generation Zhang Peng, and the two fell in love at first sight and quickly entered a state of hot love. When they first got together, the two people were also very affectionate.
In the end, the two quickly entered the palace of marriage not long after falling in love, after marriage, the two had a very good emotional state, for the sake of the family, Meng Meng also gave up her career and wholeheartedly became a full-time wife at home.
After giving birth to the child, the relationship between the two was not bad at first, but with the change of Meng Meng's figure, the man's attitude towards Meng Meng also changed, because of the reasons for Meng Meng's body, so after giving birth to a child, Meng Meng's body has not been able to get better, so the extra flesh on the body has accumulated more and more.
Coupled with his own no job, so the husband's attitude towards Meng Meng has become more and more cold, in order to be able to save her husband's heart, Meng Meng has made a lot of changes, but even so, the husband's enthusiasm for Meng Meng is still not engaged, because of this matter, Meng Meng is often alone in the quilt crying.
Married life is not a constraint for a woman, and if in a relationship, your life state becomes worse and worse, then such a marriage is also meaningless to you.
We don't need to make too many sacrifices for love, because the people who love you will always love you, and the people who don't love you will not help even if you give more.
Smart women know how to love themselves.
If you want not to be abandoned by men, women have to show their courage, I hope you understand.
01.
Stop self-blame
In the face of feelings, many women will be unusually humble, even if they encounter contradictions and disputes, they will also blame their mistakes on themselves.
But in reality, a woman has to learn to stop hurting herself because no one can morally kidnap you unless you don't love yourself.
We must learn to do everything well, but when we face things, we must also learn to accept ourselves and stop blaming ourselves, which is also a kind of love for ourselves.
Women have to learn to encourage themselves and not hurt themselves with bad emotions, because such an attitude to life will only make you worse and worse.
Women must learn to treat themselves gently and love themselves well in order to harvest beauty.
02.
Stop the comparison
Everyone has their own strengths, and in real life, we have to stop comparing each other.
Everyone is an independent individual in real life, and if you always compare, then your life will become anxious.
Improving every day is the best reward for yourself.
03.
Don't expect too much
I used to think that sadness would shed a lot of tears; it turned out that true sadness could not shed a single tear. ——Zhang Xiaoxian
Women always have to learn to be independent, for others, we should not expect too much, down-to-earth to do their own work, in order to be able to harvest beauty in real life.
Everyone will have their own shortcomings, but as a woman, you must know how to accept yourself in real life.
Only when you know how to love yourself can you become a better person.
Relying on others is never reliable, and only by taking good care of yourself can you reap happiness.
Why are you always not cherished? When a relationship fails, have you considered this question, in a relationship, the reason why you are not cherished, in fact, the most fundamental reason is that you do not know how to love yourself.
In real life, women's way of thinking is often emotional. So in many cases, they have done a lot of stupid things in the face of feelings, but if a woman always blindly pays in a relationship, then she will not get a man's care and love.
Because if you always pay cheaply, you will only be taken for granted by a man.
Love, what is needed is a two-way return.
One day you will understand that how much a man loves you is often determined by your worth.
First make yourself excellent, is the guarantee that a man loves you.
In real life, women must constantly improve their own value in order to harvest a good.
In today's society, everything is constantly changing, if you want others to respect you, then you must first learn to manage yourself.
Your life should not be just love, you should learn to expand your knowledge.
One thing we need to understand when facing love is that if you love yourself well, more people will love you.